A person who often talks about something will not be popular?

01.

No one is born to enjoy loneliness. If possible, who would want to be alone? You say that you prefer silence to being noisy, but there will always be a time when you hope that there will be noisy and lively around you, even if it has nothing to do with you, you are already very satisfied just by being in this atmosphere. .

People are social animals. When you were a child, you lived with your parents. When you were a student, you lived with roommates. When you get married and have children, you will be accompanied by someone in your afterlife. In those few years of living alone, you You need a friend or lover to bring you warmth.

Some people have many friends and can quickly open up their social circle no matter what environment they are in, while some people are not sociable and stay at home alone except for work. It's just two different lifestyles. They don't have many friends, but there are a small number of people who, to put it bluntly, are unpopular. The reason for this result is themselves.

People who have said these words, no matter men or women, will not be very popular, and the road in life will become narrower and narrower

02. Isn’t it just a matter of words for you? , why are you still so hesitant? ?

Since you are asking for help from others, you should correct your attitude. He is better than you because he is capable, so the problem in your eyes is just a matter of saying hello to him. But why should people help you? How many kilograms do you have? Is it worth having someone owe you a favor? Is it a matter of love to help you, or is it my duty not to help you? Everyone lives a very busy life. When I have rare free time, I just want to take a good rest and recharge myself. I don’t want to run around for things that have nothing to do with me. If I don't get it done for you, I might get into trouble behind your back. No one will want to associate with a person who relies on others to solve everything for him. You are so rich, it doesn't matter if you lend me some money. ?

What does it have to do with you if someone has money? If you have the ability, can you beg in a low voice here?

What should you remember when borrowing money? Don’t help the poor, but help the poor? The poor cannot be saved. If you are soft-hearted and borrow, you must be prepared that you will not get it back. Even if you have never met it, you should listen to it. He said that he borrowed more than 100,000 yuan from a relative more than ten years ago and has not paid it back yet. When you mention this matter to others, they will act like "a dead pig is not afraid of boiling water." I have no money, you What can be done?

Borrowing money really depends on your character, but if you use such words to morally kidnap you, don’t borrow money, or you will most likely not come back. Next time, I’ll make an appointment with you when I’m free. ?

When we leave our status as students and enter the workplace, our lives can no longer be as leisurely as before. We commute to and from get off work regularly every day. When we get home, we just want to wash up and lie on the bed, obviously with your friends. We live in the same city, but you can’t count how long it’s been since you last saw each other.

Every time he takes the initiative to ask you out, you always have various reasons to shirk it. After rejecting it, you say very politely: "Next time?", but when is the next time? If you are sincere, make an appointment at a specific time. Friendship will also accumulate disappointment. When you neglect to maintain it, the relationship will naturally fade. If you have this attitude towards everyone who shows goodwill to you, then No wonder you are so unpopular.

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The prerequisite for making friends is that the other person must be a person of good character. You don’t want to be stabbed in the back by someone you trust, so you want to be popular. When you are tired If you always have someone to talk to, you have to make sure you are a trustworthy person, otherwise who would be willing to talk to you? So you are the only one on the unknown road, and you feel lonely and can only digest these emotions alone.