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Five elements of chatting for single fans

Why is it so difficult to get closer to a woman during chatting?

Many students are basically stuck in the chatting stage when they come into contact with women. They feel that it is difficult to get closer to women through chatting. In fact, from a certain concept, it is difficult for women to chat with you at the beginning. It's normal to be too enthusiastic.

Very few women will give you a particularly big window when they first start chatting with you, because women all know the truth that "it's too easy to get, and men won't cherish it."

So girls’ feelings are relatively slow to warm up and require layers of screening and testing. But on the contrary, men generate emotions faster, which creates the biggest difference between men and women.

When a woman is cold, a man is passionate. When a man is tired, a woman loves passionately. It is not difficult to see that the more a woman invests, the more she cares. Next, Linger will give you an analysis Here are the 5 major elements of chatting.

Adjust your mentality and don’t label each other

Are you ready? Take a preparatory action first: adjust your mentality and don't label each other. First of all, don't label women too high, let alone label yourself.

People all have a common problem. When they encounter the appearance of a beautiful thing, they will wonder whether other extended aspects are also good. For example: without knowing anything about a pretty woman, most people will think about whether her voice is sweet, whether her personality is gentle, whether her qualities are high, whether she has high requirements for finding a boyfriend, etc.

This is like a scale. If you think too highly of her, you will easily feel inferior and unconfident, and the scale will never be balanced. Even a pretty girl might have bad breath, so try to look at her with a selective eye.

Next we start to establish a link to chat with women:

1. Focus on humor and calmness

Some boys and girls they just met They all focus on humor, which is wrong. At the very least, you have to give girls a basic personality classification. Extroverted women must not be too "serious", and introverted women must not be "serious".

Extrovert girls have a wider circle of contact, so for men who are boring and unable to stimulate their emotions, the basic state is PASS. The circle of introverted women is relatively small. If you are too glib, she will be more defensive about you. Be patient with introverted women, because this type of woman is easy to protect herself with a cold attitude towards others.

Let me tell you some easy-to-use chatting tips:

1. Teasing

Teasing is not difficult to understand, try to tease girls as much as possible Changes, such as clothing and makeup. If you directly make fun of a girl's height and weight, it would be strange if someone with a bad temper doesn't block you. 2. Praise

Praising others is also a skill. You cannot make others feel that you are trying to please, let alone make others feel that you are making things up out of thin air. Beautiful girls praise the inside, girls with high internalization praise the outside, and girls who are good both inside and outside praise their temperament and taste.

3. Humor

Humor misinterprets the original meaning of a woman’s words, which is the essence of humor. So as long as you react quickly enough and can YY, even if the woman says "haha", you will still It can be misinterpreted as "mouth

able, thirsty".

2. Seize the sense of security and connection

If you want to attract a woman, you must establish a sense of connection with her. If a girl doesn't like you, you may make her like you. What? So don't rush to expose your sense of need and attract women quickly, keep a most basic connection first. Women are inherently insecure, so both of them need to work together. The main source of security is trust.

For example, the performance pattern is: you don’t just want to have sex with her, not just for fun, because only if she trusts you and is willing to date you, can you have the opportunity to upgrade the relationship and seduce her, because there is no It is almost impossible to upgrade the relationship through chatting after meeting, unless your hard value is too strong, but in this case, the value of meeting a woman will not be high.

3. Emotional buzz

Emotional buzz may seem like a few words, but in fact it is not difficult to understand and can be summarized by a formula: the same experience is the same Feeling = emotion. As the saying goes, if you and a woman are relatively easy to talk to, you need to reach an emotional level, so you should also have a basic understanding of her.

For example, if this girl likes sadness and loneliness, she is trying to express her emotions. Shouldn’t Ming talk about topics that recall the past appropriately: such as school memories, but try not to talk too much about her feelings? For this matter, it can be appropriate to note that DHV was very popular among girls when he was in school.

If it is more positive, try to focus on the future, such as whether you will have your own career in the future, or what style you would like to decorate your home in the future. When a woman is willing to express her thoughts, and she talks more and more and agrees with you, then your emotions have been successful.

Both men and women want to find someone who understands them very well, and such a person is relatively difficult to find. When you find that you have a lot of the same language and most of the same ideas, who is willing to give up on the person in front of you easily and waste energy and time on others?

4. Relationship implantation

Many people may not understand relationship implantation. As the name suggests, it is to slowly implant the relationship between you and the girl, but it is definitely not to expose your sense of need. You can test how the girl feels about you first.

For example: Describe your buddy's emotional life and see if she is willing to participate in your topic and discuss it with you. If she is perfunctory, the chance of meeting you will definitely not be high. If a woman does not behave well, then You can also implant your relationship as a friend or other brother or sister, so that she can take off her guard and get along with you easily.

If a woman behaves well, she can insert jokes about the relationship between you and her, such as: baby, mom, assuming there is a relationship between you, or some topics of sexual tension. Whether it's flirting or teasing, this can quickly bring you closer. Women's imaginations are relatively rich. Only after letting a woman start imagining you will she have the desire to enter your world.

5. Preparing for a date

The purpose of chatting with a woman is to invite her to meet, because only by meeting can the relationship be upgraded. Women are emotional, and what she wants is a real face-to-face feeling. First of all, you should make a vague invitation before making an invitation to judge whether the woman is willing to go on a date with you. The advantage of this is to avoid the situation where the woman is unwilling to date you and will end up chatting or making the atmosphere awkward and unable to change.

Ling'er interpreted the concept of vague invitation as not telling her the exact time or place, but simply telling her the content of the date. For example: I will take you to have a big meal someday, and I will take you with me to try a new hotpot restaurant next to the company.

If her answer only concerns time, location, etc., it means that she is willing to go on a date with you, such as: Where is it? When? What to eat? wait. At this time, as a man, you should be more assertive. Just set a time and place to make an appointment directly. Don't let the interval between vague invitation and real invitation be too long.

If a girl gives a perfunctory answer, such as: I'm a little busy recently, I'll check the time, let's talk, etc. It proves that she is not very interested in you and does not want to meet you. At this time, stop the invitation immediately and see if there is a problem with you in chatting or other aspects, or there is a problem with your screening. Find out the reason and improve yourself and then She establishes secondary attraction. The specific method of attraction depends on the specific situation.

Grasp these 5 major elements and the system of chatting with a girl will be obvious. Hurry up and practice it. Next, I will continue to tell everyone that happiness is found by yourself. Who doesn’t apply it in practice? None of them can help you.

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