On New Year's Eve, I want to give my boyfriend a red envelope, but he hasn't given it yet. Should I?

A girl replied that she is currently in graduate school, her boyfriend is at work, and they are in different places.

Sometimes she is in poor health, or in a bad mood, and her living expenses are not enough. Her boyfriend always sends her a WeChat red envelope.

Originally, this is what my boyfriend cares about, but I always feel a little embarrassed to receive red envelopes.

She feels that she is not married to her boyfriend and should not always spend his money like this.

Although she also tried to discuss this issue with her boyfriend, her boyfriend said that she didn't want her girlfriend to be too independent and wanted her girlfriend to rely on him more.

The answer was very troublesome, so I asked if I would continue to receive the WeChat red envelope sent by my boyfriend.

02

I still remember many articles saying that men who are willing to spend money for you may not really love you, and men who are unwilling to spend money for you must not love you.

This sentence seems reasonable, after all, in the face of the person we like, we always have an irresistible spoil.

Want to spend money for her, want to see her buy in buy buy, the important thing is to make her happy every day.

Of course, the heart and love inside are really touching, but some independent girls always feel guilty for spending their boyfriends' money, just like the story above.

Asked some female friends around me, almost no one is willing to spend her boyfriend's money.

"It's ok to do it once or twice, but it always feels like being imprisoned if you do it too much."

"Another way is to avoid him asking you for the money he spent for you over the years after breaking up."

03

Yes, money is too sensitive. I am not happy to accept myself, and I am not happy not to accept my boyfriend. What should I do?

A man named Winnie gave a very good answer.

Take it, keep an account, and buy him all kinds of daily necessities when you have money, or upgrade his daily necessities. At this stage, you can't really spend his money, but there is no need to reject the other person's mind directly.

If the living expenses are not enough, it is suggested to communicate with your family or find a part-time job to solve the fundamental problem. I think the most important thing in a relationship is not independence, but mutual care and help.

Since your boyfriend wants to show how much he likes you by spending money for you, you can completely accept his love and return it to him in the same way.

I think it's better to learn to reciprocate than to tell him not to give you any more money. I think he will be very happy when he receives the little things you carefully prepared for him.

Brush Zhihu, see such a question:

A girl replied that she is currently in graduate school, her boyfriend is at work, and they are in different places.

Sometimes she is in poor health, or in a bad mood, and her living expenses are not enough. Her boyfriend always sends her a WeChat red envelope.

Originally, this is what my boyfriend cares about, but I always feel a little embarrassed to receive red envelopes.

She feels that she is not married to her boyfriend and should not always spend his money like this.

Although she also tried to discuss this issue with her boyfriend, her boyfriend said that she didn't want her girlfriend to be too independent and wanted her girlfriend to rely on him more.

The answer was very troublesome, so I asked if I would continue to receive the WeChat red envelope sent by my boyfriend.

02

I still remember many articles saying that men who are willing to spend money for you may not really love you, and men who are unwilling to spend money for you must not love you.

This sentence seems reasonable, after all, in the face of the person we like, we always have an irresistible spoil.

Want to spend money for her, want to see her buy in buy buy, the important thing is to make her happy every day.

Of course, the heart and love inside are really touching, but some independent girls always feel guilty for spending their boyfriends' money, just like the story above.

Asked some female friends around me, almost no one is willing to spend her boyfriend's money.

"It's ok to do it once or twice, but it always feels like being imprisoned if you do it too much."

"Another way is to avoid him asking you for the money he spent for you over the years after breaking up."

03

Yes, money is too sensitive. I am not happy to accept myself, and I am not happy not to accept my boyfriend. What should I do?

A man named Winnie gave a very good answer.

Take it, keep an account, and buy him all kinds of daily necessities when you have money, or upgrade his daily necessities. At this stage, you can't really spend his money, but there is no need to reject the other person's mind directly.

If the living expenses are not enough, it is suggested to communicate with your family or find a part-time job to solve the fundamental problem. I think the most important thing in a relationship is not independence, but mutual care and help.

Since your boyfriend wants to show how much he likes you by spending money for you, you can completely accept his love and return it to him in the same way.

I think it's better to learn to reciprocate than to tell him not to give you any more money. I think he will be very happy when he receives the little things you carefully prepared for him.

Brush Zhihu, see such a question:

A girl replied that she is currently in graduate school, her boyfriend is at work, and they are in different places.

Sometimes she is in poor health, or in a bad mood, and her living expenses are not enough. Her boyfriend always sends her a WeChat red envelope.

Originally, this is what my boyfriend cares about, but I always feel a little embarrassed to receive red envelopes.

She feels that she is not married to her boyfriend and should not always spend his money like this.

Although she also tried to discuss this issue with her boyfriend, her boyfriend said that she didn't want her girlfriend to be too independent and wanted her girlfriend to rely on him more.

The answer was very troublesome, so I asked if I would continue to receive the WeChat red envelope sent by my boyfriend.

02

I still remember many articles saying that men who are willing to spend money for you may not really love you, and men who are unwilling to spend money for you must not love you.

This sentence seems reasonable, after all, in the face of the person we like, we always have an irresistible spoil.

Want to spend money for her, want to see her buy in buy buy, the important thing is to make her happy every day.

Of course, the heart and love inside are really touching, but some independent girls always feel guilty for spending their boyfriends' money, just like the story above.

Asked some female friends around me, almost no one is willing to spend her boyfriend's money.

"It's ok to do it once or twice, but it always feels like being imprisoned if you do it too much."

"Another way is to avoid him asking you for the money he spent for you over the years after breaking up."

03

Yes, money is too sensitive. I am not happy to accept myself, and I am not happy not to accept my boyfriend. What should I do?

A man named Winnie gave a very good answer.

Take it, keep an account, and buy him all kinds of daily necessities when you have money, or upgrade his daily necessities. At this stage, you can't really spend his money, but there is no need to reject the other person's mind directly.

If the living expenses are not enough, it is suggested to communicate with your family or find a part-time job to solve the fundamental problem. I think the most important thing in a relationship is not independence, but mutual care and help.

Since your boyfriend wants to show how much he likes you by spending money for you, you can completely accept his love and return it to him in the same way.

I think it's better to learn to reciprocate than to tell him not to give you any more money. I think he will be very happy when he receives the little things you carefully prepared for him.