What are the signs that most couples think are ineffective relationships? Can you elaborate?

1. Unrequited love

In the relationship between men and women, the most ineffective way of love is unrequited love, or always having a crush on one person. Many people regard this secret love as first love, and even think that this is the love they want. As we all know, there is no mutual satisfaction. Eventually, it won't get sick. It's like our dream. When we wake up, we understand that this was just an empty dream. Many people attach great importance to this kind of unrequited love and secret love, because they always have hope and always feel that as long as each other keeps giving and giving, one day they will touch each other. However, in the emotional state of secret love and unrequited love, the longer the time goes, the less hope there is. Don't fool yourself. You don't get married unless you marry the other party. Such delusions will only waste all your time and emotional effort.

2. Make-do love

In the communication between men and women, the love between men and women is afraid that two people can make do with each other. Maybe many people are unwilling to separate from each other because they do not give up or are unwilling to separate from each other. As we all know, casual love is the beginning of two people going farther and farther. Moreover, this disharmonious state can put two people into an extremely embarrassing situation. In the process of getting along with men and women, whether men or women want to have an effective love and a long-lasting love, they cannot tolerate each other's feelings, but they should face each other's feelings correctly. If two people want to be together, they should face their own problems and communicate with each other in order to go further. If we run away from each other, engage in cold war with each other, and get along with each other, it will be ineffective love the next time.

3. Unwilling love

In the relationship between men and women, a lot of invalid love is based on unwanted love. For example, the other party's money is deceptive. In other words, I don't love the other person at all, but when I'm old enough to fall in love, I can fall in love at will. This is counter-intuitive. Love that does not love the other person will not last long. Moreover, this kind of love is the most harmful. Don't cheat and hurt other people's feelings because you are going against your own heart. This is a very selfish act. It becomes more painful in the end. Therefore, neither men nor women should fall in love against their own will, let alone hurt others. There are rewards for good and evil, and there are rewards for deceiving others' feelings.

4. Perfunctory love on the surface

In this era, it is easy to find someone to accompany you. There are too many lonely people. But why are more and more people single? Because we cannot deceive ourselves. We need companionship and communication, not only the superficial "eating? sleeping? what are you doing", but also our desire to be perceived and understood, and even the collision of souls. One of the most important characteristics of ineffective love is unhappiness. In this relationship, you either quarrel frequently or the other person is cold and distant. In short, the overall feeling you have about him is that of pain, anxiety, and depression rather than just happiness and joy. Then this kind of love is invalid. Homophone means everything. Of course, love "without a smile" is "invalid." Why would you fall in love if you were just chasing anxiety, depression, and insecurity? You're talking about work. Although it's painful, you can make progress and improve your abilities.

5. Non-intimate love

Invalid love means that although the man and woman maintain a relationship, both parties behave very coldly, and the two communicate less, and they feel It's not very intimate, or one person is relatively cold and the other is more enthusiastic, that is, one end is hot. Ineffective love has also been extended to mean that the two parties in the love are not very compatible and have frequent conflicts. Other manifestations of ineffective love are that one person cannot see the future, is very unhappy at the moment, does not get a response to his or her likes, and becomes jealous, so he feels very tired, and is even afraid of the future. came, but I didn’t want to break up, I just endured it and delayed it.