What should I do if I find my boyfriend chatting with other girls?

Lead: Some girls complained that their boyfriends were too attracted by peach blossoms. Girls like to revolve around him, but boyfriends don't shy away from this ambiguous relationship. What if I find my boyfriend chatting with other girls and I don't like it? Let netizens and experts teach you!

Netizen question: What should I do if my boyfriend chats with other members of the opposite sex and I feel uncomfortable?

Boyfriends are excellent, and girls are very close. Moreover, I am a very sensitive person and think a lot. But I usually don't tell him, just keep it in my heart. I told him several times, but he didn't care, and said I thought too much. But those girls are too ambiguous to chat with him, and they all call them husbands. He made trouble with me several times, lost his temper with me and mentioned breaking up. What should I do?

Netizen replied: 1, reliable boys will definitely keep their distance from other girls. Your boyfriend is unreliable. In fact, cheating = unreliable = love rat. It's only a matter of time before we can save it.

2. Communicate with him and show your attitude. My current boyfriend is a little bit, so I'll just say it. My idea is simple. I don't mind you chatting with girls, but not if you are ambiguous. I don't want others to think that I have found a half-hearted boyfriend. Some things are matters of principle, you don't have to put up with them.

3, can't stand it, he can flirt with a girl and flirt with thousands of girls in Qian Qian! If a boy's heart is full of love for you, there is no room for other girls. In the final analysis, it is still not enough love. He may flirt with other girls to find potential partners or enjoy being liked by many people. No matter from what angle, people who can treat feelings like this are not trustworthy. Some people don't even remember how many lies they tell every day. Is it wrong to tell a little lie when forced by your girlfriend? Find a reliable boy who can love you well.

Boys and girls have different definitions of things, which may be ambiguous in your eyes, but in his eyes, he just talks about his outlook on life and values and conducts pure academic exchanges. After all, people have done nothing, and they will say that you think too much. Actually, I'm drunk, too Let's talk it over and talk to him about principles, values and so on. Maybe we can continue to be together and let him learn to think from your perspective. If not, we can break up firmly and quickly. There is no point in struggling.

I was in the same situation as you, and I was relatively calm at that time. Frankly speaking, I saw him chatting with that girl. Then he was anxious to explain to me. After more than a week, we made up. He said that he was a little girl in Doby. That girl is two years younger than me. I think. After all, maybe men prefer to play with each other. Boyfriends are not old either. Maybe they are all young. I think this kind of thing should be treated rationally. If you really can't accept it, then break up.

Expert Q&A: Your boyfriend is having an affair with another girl, and you are angry, but you are not the one who broke up with him. This makes me think that your boyfriend may be a little male chauvinistic. He can allow himself to have many female friends, but you are not allowed to be jealous casually. I wonder if he allows you to have many male friends? At the same time, your relationship may not be very equal, and you may be a slightly humble party. You may care about him more than he cares about you. Besides, it seems that your communication is not very smooth. You say you are a very sensitive person, but many thoughts are just hidden in your heart and you seldom tell him. If a person is unwilling to tell his thoughts to people close to him, it is largely because you feel that you can't get his understanding and support. Indeed, you wrote it, too. You told him several times, but he didn't care, and said you thought too much. This will create a vicious circle. If you keep your thoughts in your heart and don't communicate with him, thinking alone will affect your mood. When your mood gets worse, it will also make him feel unhappy. He is unhappy with you, and may go to his confidante. Then you will think a lot.

It is not worth the loss to screw up your relationship because you are worried about his relationship with other girls. So I think the first thing you should do is to maintain your relationship, and then consider his relationship with other girls (maybe you don't have to worry about his relationship with others after maintaining your relationship). Don't give him to his girlfriend? Push? Make him like being with you. You can cultivate some hobbies with him, make friends with his friends and join their activities. In addition, communication is very important to the relationship between two people. Everyone is willing to communicate with people who can understand themselves, and likes pleasant communication. If the chat is full of unhappy things, doubts and accusations, or even fights, then he is definitely not willing to communicate with you.

Although I feel that your boyfriend is not a warm man who can coax his girlfriend (my coax here is not so-called sweet talk, but because I can understand your mood, so I can put words in your heart, making you feel valued and understood, so you feel warm), you can consider yourself as his confidant first. Find more topics, cultivate the same language and talk about other things. Don't dwell on his relationship with other girls. It's easy to get angry by talking about such a sensitive topic. If you can communicate well in other aspects, it may be relatively easy to talk about his relationship with other girls. How to get along with each other and the opposite sex after maintaining your relationship? Chapter three of the contract? .

It is normal for excellent boys to attract girls to like this. A lot of confidantes and brothers show that he is a social person, which is not wrong. But chatting with girls is too ambiguous, and some people even call him husband, which is a bit too much. There are still some principles and measures, and some regulations can be formulated. Of course, all rules should be based on mutual understanding, and you should know that this is not only a constraint on the other side, but also on yourself. If you encounter problems in achieving * * * knowledge, it means that you need to continue to work hard in communication. And the rules should be specific and not too vague. For example, don't be too vague with the opposite sex, don't date with the opposite sex alone, and don't use titles with couples of the opposite sex. At the same time, we should also make ourselves better and stronger.

Your boyfriend is excellent and has a good relationship with girls. Don't let this be the reason why you are unhappy. He is so excellent and has so many choices, but he chose you, which means you are also excellent, so you should be confident. But we should also keep growing and make ourselves better. After getting better, your boyfriend may appreciate you more. Even if he doesn't appreciate it, other men will naturally appreciate you, and you can make many male friends. Then it may be your boyfriend's turn to be nervous about you. Moreover, after becoming excellent, it will naturally become strong. Even if he cheats in the end, or he wants to break up with you, you don't have to feel sad secretly. You are so great, you will meet better.