You have many years of reading experience. Please list the titles of books or quote words from books according to examples, and talk about its influence on you in concise sentences.

a gain and a loss is life, so don't be angry.

I've never been that kind of person. I can't patiently pick up a piece of debris, put it together, and then tell myself that this patched thing is exactly the same as new. When something is broken, it is broken. I'd rather remember it at its best than fix it. And look at those broken places all my life.

Gone with the Wind

I realized that it was terrible to tie my future with another person. Once there is no other person, I will lose my future. Even if two people arrive at the destination by themselves, there is only one feeling in the end: I once thought that there would be two people standing here. There is no ferris wheel in Paris