What is the "virgin taboo" for adolescent girls? How can a girl resist being touched?

Speaking of virginity taboo, many friends may not know what is going on. In fact, they don't like it, are not used to it, and can easily resist others touching their women. It's a bit like cleanliness. The better situation is that most girls in life have no taboos on chastity. So what about girls who are very resistant to other people's touch?

1, virgin taboo

A virgin's fear of danger must contain a kind of ambivalence. This "ambivalence" is manifested in the fact that virgins are eager and afraid of sexual contact; The more I think about it, the more scared I am. The intensification of this sense of contradiction is a sense of danger and fear. Regarding the nature of this sense of danger and fear, experts pointed out that "they can't tell whether it is spiritual-imaginary danger; Still a real danger. " Facts have proved that most virgins' sense of danger and fear comes from their own psychological imagination, that is, delusion.

The "virgin taboo" means that others can't touch her body. Touch is a kind of contact, and look is also a kind of contact.

Psychologically speaking, hands and eyes are quasi-"sex organs", so virgins are afraid that the opposite sex will touch or stare at their naked bodies. Psychological analysis shows that girls' shyness comes from their resistance to sexual development. When the body becomes mature, they are always morbidly timid, afraid that people will observe their secondary sexual characteristics. Virgos refuse to take off their clothes in front of women, and always forget the shock of being seen naked. This is also the reason why most girls are afraid to take off their clothes for physical examination.

Neurosis is always a strong delusion after intense stimulation in the heart. When a virgin is stimulated, she will have delusions, and all neurosis is a symptom of being controlled and tortured by delusions.

Virgins have a strict defense against the violation of "chastity", which is the deepest worry of women. This kind of worry will last until after marriage.

Through the analysis of many unfortunate marriages, we find that the motivation that drives a woman who has lost her virginity to retaliate against her husband has not disappeared in the hearts of civilized women. Nowadays, many women are indifferent to men's enthusiasm from beginning to end in their first marriage, and finally divorce; However, once remarried, the situation suddenly changed and that gloomy situation was swept away. There is no doubt that the initial adverse reactions have disappeared with the end of the first combination of drugs.

It should be pointed out that virginity taboo is a normal performance, giving people a pure sense of virginity; But some girls are overly sensitive and taboo, which is neurosis. The way to overcome this symptom is to treat your body correctly and understand the taboo of virgins correctly. When she understood, what she knew lost its mystery and threat. Virgins will no longer be afraid of physical examination.

1, what is the hymen?

It appears, develops and forms when the fetus is 3-4 months old, and the shape and thickness of adolescent hymen are the same. Its pores can be wheel-shaped, ring-shaped, half-moon-shaped, sieve-shaped and other forms. It is a layer of mucosal tissue located in the mouth of female private parts and the vestibule of female private parts, which is in the shape of a ring fold, about 0.5 cm wide, with holes in the middle for menstrual blood and secretions to flow out.

Hymen action

There is a theory that the hymen has a protective effect on women's reproductive system and even their bodies. It is a barrier to protect yourself from disease and evil. The hymen guards the door of women's private parts and can prevent urine from entering women's private parts. For women, premature sexual life is easy to lead to cervical cancer due to repeated infections in the cervix. And starting sex too early will have a negative impact on eugenics. The hymen has just played such a preventive role.

Do all women have hymens?

Not all women have hymens in their private parts. Some people don't fall in love on their wedding night, but they are considered to have sex, which brings a shadow to their marriage life. In fact, some people are born without hymen. But some people's hymen is too thick and needs surgery.

Hymen is unique to human women, which is not found in other female animals. There are also very few women born without hymen, and only a few women have no pores on their hymen. These girls are called "infertile women".

Will hymen rupture hurt very much?

Breaking the membrane on the first night itself is not very painful. Why does the hymen break during the first sexual life? Experts say that the elasticity of the female hymen is relatively poor, and there is a hymen hole on it, which is not enough to accommodate the male sexual organs in excellent sexual life. It usually breaks at 4 o'clock and 8 o'clock on the clock face, and there is often a small amount of bleeding. However, many women will be very nervous about their first virginity, and they will feel severe pain when they are inserted into the man's genitals, and even can't complete the same room.

The hymen is just a thin film, and there is generally only limited slight pain during the tearing process. The severe pain of the first sexual intercourse has little to do with the hymen, but the essence is the spasm of the female private parts. It is recommended to apply a little body lubricant to the first bedroom, which will make the bedroom smoother. Cooling lubricant can relieve pain.

In addition, not all women will have hymen rupture for the first time, because some women's hymen is tough and thick, so it is difficult to rupture.

Hymen depth

The diameter of hymen hole is about 1- 1.5 cm, which is generally round, oval or zigzag. Some are half-moon-shaped, and the membrane holes are biased to one side; Some are special-shaped holes, and the two small holes are juxtaposed up and down or left and right; Some have many scattered holes, just like the holes in a sieve. Hymen can prevent unclean things from entering female private parts and protect female private parts. Before puberty, because the ovaries secrete little estrogen, women's private parts have thin mucosa, few wall wrinkles and low acidity, so their resistance is poor. Hymen has the protective effect of preventing bacteria from invading female private parts. After puberty, with the development of ovary, estrogen in the body increases, the resistance of female private parts increases, and the hymen gradually loses its function.

Hymen foramen is necessary for physiology. When a woman matures, her monthly menstrual blood is excreted through this hole. If there is no hole in the membrane, menstrual blood will be blocked by it and cannot be excreted. Medically it's called imperforate hymen. If not found in time, menstrual blood will accumulate in women's private parts, and after many years, it can spread upward to uterine cavity and fallopian tube, and flow into abdominal cavity through the distal opening of fallopian tube, damaging fallopian tube, causing intestinal adhesion and abdominal infection.

The above is an introduction to the function of hymen. Don't regard the hymen as a symbol of chastity, which is unscientific. The function of hymen is to protect women, not to give men an excuse to hurt women.