It costs 300 thousand to marry a daughter. It is said that you will use this money to marry your son. What is the reason?

I used to hear people say that having a son is from CCB, but now I think it is.

I have only one son, and I am very strict about family planning. Later generations are old and in poor health, so don't. My son is 28 years old. He is good-looking and has a good job, but he is not married. In fact, my son talked about several girlfriends a few years ago, but I don't think it is appropriate to have sex. One is that he is too short to think of future generations. The latter one is not very talkative, only one I think is also good-looking and has a good personality, but the other family wants a bride price of 654.38+ 10,000 yuan. Our bride price is usually around 50,000 to 60,000, and their family wants too much, so I didn't agree.

It's been like this for years, and my son hasn't found a wife yet. Until last year, my son said that he was in love again and would show it to us at home another day. Now we don't worry about the bride price, because we have occupied land by building roads here and lost some money. In recent years, the work of the old man and his son is ok. They built two houses together and bought a car. It is said that these two newly-built houses will be requisitioned by the state again, and they should be able to pay a lot of money. My son brought the girl back. I saw it and liked it. She is beautiful and talkative, with excellent eyesight. She can see and do things. We both like it very much, and our son followed the girl back to her house, and her family didn't object.

After they talked for three months, the girl's work place changed, which is close to our home. I want my son to let the girl live at home so that I can take care of her. The girl is also generous, so she came. I tidy up the second floor for them to live in, and we live on the first floor. This is my daughter-in-law who came home, so I thought it would hurt. Every day, I cook good food for her. We get along well and her mouth is sweet. My aunt makes me happy every day.

In this way, she has lived in our house for several months, and I don't think girls can follow my son so inexplicably. I discussed the marriage with her parents and said that I like that girl very much. Now that my family is better, I will give her a bride price of 6.5438+0.5 million. I thought I was a big help, but my mother didn't like it. She said that she spent a lot of money to train such a good daughter, and she wanted a bride price of 300 thousand anyway. I also know that this girl is good, but this mouth costs 300 thousand, and we have to pay some money. I have been building houses and buying cars for years. How can there be so many?

I just want her to talk to her parents, but she says she can't help it. Her mother said there should be so much, or her brother's bride price money would not come out. I was shocked to hear that. Is this marrying a daughter and a wife?