What if the old man dotes on his children and the husband doesn't understand?

I believe everyone has heard of such a word: every generation. In fact, to put it bluntly, the elderly at home will especially love their children. In their eyes, children do everything well, even if they make mistakes, they will not be reprimanded, let alone educated. After a long time, children will have many problems, so the love of elders for children belongs to doting.

In fact, the elders in the family will never realize that doing so will harm the children. They will only feel that they should be kind to their children, let them love and spoil them, and give them whatever they want. But they often don't realize that such a habit, once formed, is difficult to get rid of. But because they are the elders of the family, we can't blame their behavior, we can only watch the children grow up in a doting environment.

In fact, as parents, no one does not love their children. However, there are different ways to love children. It can't be said that all his wishes have been met, because he loves children. Such behavior may make the child feel very happy for a while, but it is undoubtedly a practice that will hurt the child. Although the child is too young to show anything, all kinds of shortcomings will appear as he grows up, and it will not be so easy to correct them then.

After all, getting used to this thing is cultivated from an early age. Once a bad habit is formed at a young age, it can never be corrected in a day or two. Therefore, we must talk to our husband about the education of our children in advance. After all, all this is for the children's future. You can't say you want to come back to your child's life just because the old man loves your child. So that children will hate us when they grow up. Therefore, all this should be discussed with my husband in advance, so that he can talk to the elders at home, so that they may listen to some of his suggestions.