Husband blames my mother-in-law for washing several bowls.

Don't worry too much, and you didn't let your mother-in-law wash it. It is normal for old people to do some housework. Other aspects can take the initiative, some small gifts and surprises. Don't show your grievances with your husband at that time, communicate well and let him know that you also have a mother-in-law in your heart. Mother-in-law helps wash dishes, which shows that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very harmonious. Not necessarily a bad thing.