Good morning, your sunshine in 2020: laugh at the ebb and flow of life and keep your heart.

1, if you don't have any talent, then others will look down on you; And once you have a little talent and do something, then others will slander and slander you. If you know this truth in life, will you still struggle in trouble? So I work hard wholeheartedly, and at the same time I won't suffer because of others' slander. Doing nothing becomes doing something, and doing more is a single-minded struggle. If you want to be happy, you must be tolerant. If you want to trouble yourself, you only need to hurt others. Most of the troubles in life are due to forgiving yourself and not forgiving others. Blindly belittle people, there are thorns everywhere, blindly hurt people, and it is always rainy. Always blaming yourself. Where is it? Be lenient with others, there will always be trouble. The progress and success of life stems from profound introspection; The retrogression and failure of life stems from malicious derogatory. ? Better than self-examination, shorter than blaming others? Is the secret of life. To hurt others with a stinger will also hurt yourself, and see the world with kind eyes. 3. A kind compliment from yourself can give people warm sunshine. A casual compliment from yourself can leave an unforgettable impression. Sincerely appreciate that you can warm people's hearts like the spring breeze. An elegant compliment from yourself can bring trust and hope to others. Everyone wants to be appreciated by others. Actually, it's easy to praise others. Appreciate and affirm others with kindness. Everyone wants to be appreciated by others. 4, no intention, fast light, no brain? Consciousness? Is it stupid or naive to just vent? The key to expressing opinions is to make people accept them happily. If you don't take the opportunity to make comments, the result will be counterproductive, and it is often that good intentions are not rewarded! Choosing a good opportunity and expressing it properly can get twice the result with half the effort. Everything you say must be thought through your brain, and you can't always make comments. If the mental load is too heavy, there will be too many troubles. Love what you see, miss what you see, can you not worry? Clean up your heart in time and don't let the dust in your heart accumulate too thick. You know, life is too short to get everything. Unfortunately, not everyone understands. Worry must be given up and go into battle lightly.

6. You can't do things only by your own feelings, and you can't do things only by your own feelings. If you are impulsive, you will be in trouble. Sometimes your perception is wrong, things are not as simple as you think, and appearances are always confusing. Rational work will not be repeated, rational work will not make big mistakes, and rational work will not make you regret. Remember: don't be too impulsive! You can't just follow your feelings, you can think more and not regret it. 7. The more you talk, the more your stupidity will be exposed. The more you listen, the more your wisdom will grow happily. Listening is a good way to learn from others' strengths and make up for your own shortcomings; Listening is a bridge to communicate and respect each other; Listening is a magic weapon to abandon mistakes and stay away from regrets. Don't think eloquence is your own skill. Maybe carelessness will hurt others' self-esteem. Maybe you will inadvertently plant the seeds of misfortune. Learning to listen is the greatest wisdom. Don't always talk. 8, can't deal with hooligans, otherwise, no peace every day. You can't deal with people who are duplicitous, or you should always be on your guard against the danger of being betrayed. You can't deal with people without credit, or you will be in trouble at any time. You can't deal with a mean and fierce person, or he may commit suicide. You can't deal with people who are notorious, or you will always tarnish your reputation. Not everyone can associate, so be careful when making friends. 9. Be careful when you are in good times, otherwise you will be extremely sad. It is easy to get carried away when life is proud. When you don't know your last name when you get carried away, evil thoughts and deeds will take advantage of it. In adversity, you must be extra patient, or you will die early. When life is frustrated, it is easy to lose your manners. When you lose your manners, you don't know your future, so negativity and despair will take advantage of the gap. Laugh at the ebb and flow of life and keep your heart. 10, have room to talk, say nothing? Die? . If you don't say anything, there is no room for manoeuvre. Ever trapped in language? Despair, its passive and embarrassing feelings can be imagined. The art of speaking is to make people feel more and more difficult. Don't overdo it when you are angry. Angry words are actually nonsense, and there will be many regrets after calming down. Think it over. Don't swear.

1 1, many people are deliberately pursuing so-called happiness; Some people get it, but the price is huge. Many philosophers have said that happiness is a feeling, like? Buddha? In your heart and mine. The feeling of happiness decreases with the degree of satisfaction, which is closely related to people's mood and mentality. The sages said: The harder you work, the deeper you love, the happier you are, and the harder you think. A person always feels unhappy, which is his greatest sorrow. Happiness is a feeling. If you are not satisfied, you will never be happy. 12. The more people worry, the more they worry. The happier people are, the happier they are. If you only worry about troubles, then troubles still exist objectively and show no signs of decreasing. On the contrary, because of the chain reaction of troubles, your mood becomes heavier and more distressed. If you keep turning pain into happiness and change? Do one thing and complain about one thing? Mentality, you can get your own happiness. Time is also wasted in troubles, laughing at life. 13. Don't expect others to cure your pain. Only by convincing yourself can you completely cure your heart disease. Setbacks, mistakes, misfortunes, hardships? It is a deeper understanding of life and the only way to better understand the connotation of life. Only those who overcome themselves have the power to overcome everything. Healing the pain of the soul once is equivalent to sublimating the soul once, and the winner is strong. 14, the weather is unpredictable, and people have fortunes. It is a miracle that they will never get sick, so ordinary diseases are extremely normal. Occasionally I get sick and meet a quack, and I suspect that I have a terminal illness, which is very painful. Illness didn't take my life, but intimidation made me half dead. Be optimistic and cautious about the disease, and never listen to the wind or rain. 15, saying nothing and doing nothing, this is the skill of dealing with people; Cherish what you have gained in your current life, learn to keep flowing water, be diligent and frugal, and live within your means to prevent future accidents. This is the skill of prudent living. Seeing only the positive side of life is blindly optimistic, but also fully seeing the negative side of life. As long as there is pressure in life, it will force us to keep working hard. There is always room for manoeuvre, and there is no retreat.

16, people often fall into a misunderstanding: laughing at others, especially eager, gloating and reckless. Have you ever thought that when you laugh at others, others may laugh at yourself. Get carried away, only know to laugh at others blindly, such a person is a joke. It's ridiculous to see others, so check yourself quickly. This is smart and wise. On the stage of life, everyone has something ridiculous! Don't be too busy reading other people's jokes, check yourself first. 17、 ? People? Writing is the simplest, but it is the most difficult to write. Born as a human being, one should be thinking, rational and worthy of the title of master. After decades of life, no matter how brilliant the scenery is, don't forget that you are a normal person. If people are far from human nature, they are not far from animal nature. People's social roles will change at any time, but don't get carried away at any time. If you remember the basic principles of being a man, you can always be modest, kind and diligent. Man and beast are very different, so we can't lose humanity. 18, always put yourself in others' shoes, and be more understanding and tolerant of others. To say the least, tolerance can dispel resentment. Understanding can communicate the mind, and understanding can eliminate people's suspicion. Tolerance can bring righteousness, win praise and create a relaxed and harmonious atmosphere. Life is not easy, life is hard, so you have to forgive others, forgive others. Tolerance is the lubricant of interpersonal relationship, so why haggle over every ounce. 19. Sometimes an argument can't convince anyone, and it may alienate people, and at the same time it deeply resents each other. Truth is unlikely to be obtained in an argument, but harmful consequences will happen at any time. You should listen carefully to people's arguments, and it is best not to participate directly. When you argue angrily, think about the consequences of such foolish behavior. Don't try to solve the problem by arguing. It's best not to argue with others casually or unnecessarily. 20. Don't always think that you are right, and you won't listen to your friends' suggestions. Arbitrary, willful, opinionated, exclusive, always go their own way, the consequence is that their own losses, friends suffer. In the long run, you will only make trouble for yourself and let others stay away from you and ignore you. Good suggestions should be seriously considered and absorbed in time. Can't be a horse? A lone wolf? A person's wisdom is always limited.