The influence of fathers on children

Many family education matters are the responsibility of the mother. Due to various reasons, the father always neglects the education of the children. In fact, the father's influence on the child is no less than that of the mother, and some influences are even indispensable for the child.

Let’s take a look at what influence fathers have on their children!

1. Sense of responsibility. Fathers can make their children realize from an early age that dad is a very important member of the family. Not only does he have to go out to work, but like mom, he also needs to take on the role of raising and accompanying himself at home, which also allows his children to have a role model.

2. Cultivate good exercise habits in children. Because men have a more social perspective and pay more attention to what is happening outside, habits like exercise are more likely to be introduced by fathers.

3. Conducive to the social development of children. In the minds of children, fathers have the impression of being tall and invincible superheroes. Therefore, the influence of fathers on children is to teach them to be strong and brave, not afraid of difficulties, and brave to take responsibility. The image that mothers give to their children is more gentle, beautiful, and soft-spoken. The influence that mothers bring to their children is to teach them to discover the beauty of life, to face life with a sincere and kind heart, and to teach them how to get along with others. The baby's feelings are different, and they are very complementary to the child's character formation.

4. It is conducive to the development of children. A study in the United States shows that children raised by men have higher IQs, better grades, and are more likely to succeed in society. Because men have more purpose in doing things. Habits can make children more independent, decisive, brave and adventurous.

5. Conducive to the development of gender health. Dad feels the difference between men and women in his interactions with his children. It will enable boys to learn to examine their own behavior, learn responsibility and responsibility, imitate their father's words and actions, and gradually show their masculinity. If it is a girl, it will allow the child to identify male role models and distinguish the differences between men and women, which will help cultivate female tolerance. It will also be influenced by the adventurous, enterprising and independent nature of the father who is easy to express.

6. Conducive to the development of logical thinking. Fathers have a greater influence on the development of children's mathematical and logical abilities.

7. Children are more creative. Dads generally prefer to do things by themselves and use their brains, so children who are often with their dads are more creative.

8. Dad is more adventurous. Male characteristics: perseverance, depth, decisiveness, independence, aggressiveness, easier to influence children, and promote the development of children's body, intelligence, and personality.

9. Give children more support and confidence. Mother's love is everywhere, but father plays a key role when there are major changes. When many children face a major turning point in their lives, they are more likely to think of their father, who is a spiritual force for them.

10. Children who are often with their father are less likely to be rebellious. During the child's rebellious period, especially in the child's adolescence, with the company of his father, the child will not be rebellious easily and can basically spend his adolescence better.

11. Fathers influence children’s emotional processing and character building. After the child turns 3 years old, the father's influence becomes more and more important. They began to look for idols and role models in life, and fathers became role models for their children to learn from. The children will learn from their father's perseverance, how he carries the pressure and thinks of solutions when he encounters difficulties; when his father is about to get angry, he controls his emotions at the critical moment, turns around and goes out, and when he is in a calm mood, How to communicate peacefully with mother at all times, how to resolve conflicts step by step, and give children a happy home; children learn communication skills from their father, and learn humorous ways to adjust the atmosphere from their father.

12. Dad teaches his children a positive and optimistic attitude towards life. I once saw a picture. On a rainy day, the father was holding a briefcase in his left hand and holding an umbrella for his child with his right hand. His back was completely soaked, but he looked down at his child with a smile on his face. I believe this picture touched many people and warmed many hearts. This is the image of a father who is always patient with his children and has no regrets about his family responsibilities.

13. Dad’s tireless pursuit and passion for career infect his children.

A colleague shared a story: Once, her husband shared his achievements at work with his daughter, and the daughter casually praised her, "My dad is always number one! He is always great!" In just one sentence, her daughter's love for her dad was revealed. With recognition and appreciation, it’s no wonder that the children have been working hard and hard in work and study, and the father is setting an example silently and subtly. The role of father's role model is 50 times that of mother! The miraculous guiding role of a father has a profound impact on a child's life and will also add tremendous confidence and strength to the child!

14. Guidance to children. Fathers have a greater guiding role in shaping children's character, observing discipline, and future career development. Men have better logical thinking and usually have more rational views on things. Whether in family life or career, men have strong creativity and With a pioneering spirit, dads can also play a better role in observing discipline and order, can adhere to principles, and have a sharp and unique vision of the world. These values, world views, and outlook on life are revealed in detail during conversations with children while playing with them. The rain gradually penetrates into the child's thoughts and cognition and becomes a beacon of the child's spirit.

15. Enhance self-identity and self-confidence. The child knows that his guardians are his mother and father, so it is important for both of them to pay attention to and recognize him. If there is a lack of companionship and response from the father, the child will feel unconfident and think that he only has the love of his mother, but his father does not recognize him.

Two problems currently faced by fathers:

1. Concepts

The concepts of many fathers still need to be improved. Many fathers think that I make money When I come back, I have fulfilled my obligations and responsibilities by giving my wife and children a better life. I don’t need to worry about anything else. I leave it all to my mother. If this concept does not change, the victims will be their own children. When you get older and suddenly find that your child is rebellious and at the same time not very capable, then you will suffer.

2. Lack of patience

Accompanying, tutoring, and educating children really requires a lot of love, especially patience. It is true that men are lacking in this aspect. I want to remind all dads that we should just temper ourselves and show some patience. Your efforts today will be doubled in return by your children in the future.

Many dads say that they are too busy and have no time. They are so tired from work that they vomit blood. If you ask me to say this is an excuse, you still have not prioritized spending time with and educating your children. High priority position.

No matter how busy a father is, no one will starve to death. It proves that you still eat every day. If you put accompanying your children and educating them at the same level as eating yourself, how can you not have time? In the final analysis, I am still making excuses for myself.

Dads cannot be absent when their children are growing up, and they must shoulder their responsibilities as a father.

Give your child ample companionship, care and play with him when he is young; as the child grows up, the father must take into account the stability of the family and establish an image of a deep relationship with his wife in front of the child, so that The child has a sense of belonging and security in the family;

After the child enters adolescence, the father must do a good job of guiding the child in life, learn more about the child's interests and hobbies, so that the child is willing to talk to you, and Act as his wise guide and help your child move towards a better life.