When do you think Ma Bao is the most wronged when she takes care of the baby alone?

I feel most wronged when I can't get the approval of my family, when others think that I am idle, when I look at others who are glamorous but sloppy, and when I reach out for my husband to ask for money. In particular, my efforts have not been recognized by my family, and I still feel very melodramatic and can't stand suffering. If you complain to the older generation when you are very tired, the older generation may be your own mother or parents-in-law. They may say that they are too melodramatic to suffer. At that time, they were alone with three or four children. Then Barabara said a lot, and finally he had to teach him a lesson.

If you complain to your husband that children are too difficult to take care of, his husband will say, "That's how everyone comes over. Other women can, but you can't. Being there all day is very tiring. I don't have to work every day to make money. Am I not tired? "

What I am afraid of is not physical fatigue, but mental fatigue. Physical fatigue, a good sleep, a night's rest, the next day the body will recover, but how long does it take to recover from mental reasons? In fact, we just want a little spiritual support and someone to comfort us so that we can continue to go on.

The first three years are the most stressful time to take care of children. As a novice mother, she knows nothing and has to learn everything. Many times, children are ill again, and sometimes they stay up all night. I want a person to give me spiritual support, but what I get is not the comfort I want, but I hate the fact that my children can't take care of me clearly, and I get sick easily. In the end, everything about the baby became my mother's fault. I also heard a stay-at-home mother next door complain that she was exhausted, and her child was ill, and the noisy night affected her sleep. Really helpless, no one helps, and no one cares whether you are tired or not, just let him sleep.

It seems that all the children at home are in the mother's responsibility, as if others have no responsibility and do not need to pay their own responsibility. Everything is a mother's business. In the end, the problem will be solved, but the mental trauma is the most difficult to alleviate.