Come on, talk to me.

When chatting, it is easy to make people feel disgusted.

1, the tone of rhetorical question? Didn't I tell you before? You don't understand such a simple truth?

2. The tone of the command? Hey, give me your stuff! Go give my friend a compliment, hurry up!

3. impatient tone? It's all my fault, it's all my fault, you're right, come on, I can't help it if you think so!

4. The tone of preaching? I am telling you this for your own good. You got it?

People who often use these tones are either too self-centered and lack empathy, and only care about whether they are suffering or not and don't care about other people's feelings; Or care too much about things and ignore that the recipient is a sentimental person, thus hurting others unconsciously.

The tone is subtle, but important. The effect of speaking in different tones will be very different. Again, sometimes what you say is more important than what you say.