What's your biggest feeling after watching Xiao Shede starring Rulu?

The competitive pressure in senior high schools has increased.

There is no doubt that chicken babies are the most common choice in this era. Because it is driven by anxiety. This anxiety is reflected in a conversation between Song Jia's Nan Li and her friend. In the conversation, they said that the fate of our generation is to see that our children may not be as good as us. Their studies are not as good as ours, and their jobs, positions and incomes may not be as good as ours in the future. The anxiety behind all chicken blood behaviors comes from this sentence. This is indeed a fact in some people's eyes. Because after the end of nine-year compulsory education, there is a big diversion in middle schools. Some time ago, an elder in Shanghai told me that she only recently learned that even in Shanghai, only 50% of children can go to ordinary high schools. If you don't go to Gaopu, you will basically lose the chance to go to college. In the future social class differentiation, if you haven't been to college, the high probability can only be the blue-collar class.

Education is under great pressure now.

Because of this anxiety, the arms race of exam-oriented education continues to extend to the younger stage. In the play, Yan Ziyou, a fifth-grade elementary school student, is full of various training classes after class, among which Olympic Mathematics is the most important lesson. Because, to enter Hanlin junior high school with the highest enrollment rate, it is necessary to select, and the main basis for selection is Olympic Mathematics. In fact, everyone has anxiety, and it is not difficult for us to eliminate it. Nothing more than doing things. Doing something concrete can effectively relieve anxiety. Only when choosing to do things, some people choose to force themselves, while others choose to force their children. The only difference is here. For example, Tian Yulan chose to force children. There are many psychological reasons why she forced her children to become schoolmasters. But I won't talk about this article today, just talk about the behavior of chickens. Xia Junshan, played by David, and Nan Li, played by Song Jia, wavered between forcing themselves and forcing their children.

As parents, don't put too much pressure on your children.

In fact, when I saw David in a hurry to find a training class, I couldn't help feeling. Well, Mr. David, you are just anxious because you haven't seen Mr. A's live broadcast, because, if you force your children blindly, you will eventually pay the price. In the play, Yan Ziyou has made a stiff movement, constantly peeling the skin off his fingers. This detail has been shown many times. We can know that the original author of this drama has a psychological vision and is a reflection of a child's anxiety. It can be said that it is a symptom of initial psychological problems. Tian Yulan, the mother who claims to love her children the most, has not been found yet. Or throw away all Yan Ziyou's bugs, or let Yan Ziyou play football.

We should give our children some free space.

There is only one basic principle of education, that is, let children develop themselves and make themselves a guide to study and life. So I wrote an article called: Education is only possible in freedom. Freedom is the only way to be yourself. This is what I have always reiterated. Unfortunately, most of our parents, like Tian Yulan, are eager for quick success and short-sighted. They can only see what is in front of them and think about their own way. Most people don't know the growing power of education. If you plant it today, it may take 30 years to know the result. In the middle, it is a kind of advanced wisdom.