What should retirees send in the circle of friends?

After retirement, I seldom send these three kinds of dynamics in my circle of friends. It seems to be boastful, but it is actually annoying. With the rapid development of the Internet, the social ways between people have also changed greatly, instead of just chatting face to face, they have moved to virtual networks. Therefore, as a new social form, the circle of friends has been welcomed by many people. In daily life, many people like to use their circle of friends to record their lives, or forward some articles that they think are very in-depth. It seems that I am entertaining myself, but I also hope to get the attention and praise of others.

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Just like this, many people don't think too much when posting the dynamics of their circle of friends, and post whatever comes to mind. Sometimes, just because of a circle of friends, it brings unnecessary trouble to yourself. Therefore, it seems to be bragging to send these three kinds of dynamics in the circle of friends after retirement, but it is actually very annoying.

1, show your talent. Some people listen to more compliments in the workplace, and they will have a very talented idea in their hearts. At work, due to the busy work, this kind of ostentation and extravagance was suppressed. After retirement, there is more free time, and this extravagant mentality reappears. Mainly in the circle of friends, I published some poems I wrote and articles I thought were well written, which gave people a very talented feeling.

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However, retirement and work are two different states. Just because someone praises you at work doesn't mean you will be praised after retirement. Although some people in the circle of friends will still praise a few words, they are annoying and make others feel that they are just showing off. After all, there is no need for talented people to do it. Their image has been deeply rooted in people's hearts and does not need more people to see it through friends.

2. Show off your contacts The second dynamic is to show off your contacts, which many people will do. At work, contacts can bring great help to yourself and have a greater chance of promotion. Especially for those who start their own businesses, connections can play a key role. However, connections can't be shown off. Once it is known by others, it may bring trouble to yourself.

Even if you have retired, there is no need to show off your contacts in the circle of friends. It would be better to keep these in mind. After all, everyone in the circle of friends knows, understands and is familiar with it. Maybe some people will give you a compliment after seeing the news, but many people will think that you are showing off and sending it to them on purpose. In this way, they will only resent it and think it is very low-level.

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The most important thing to show off your past achievements after retirement is your present life, not your past achievements. As you get older, you need to be steady, don't act in a high-profile way like in the past, and show off your past achievements in your circle of friends. Although some people will leave some favorable comments because of the face between friends, in their hearts, they may be very disgusted with this practice.

It is ok to show off your achievements at work, but it is really unnecessary after retirement. A really powerful person doesn't need to show off at all. Others know his achievements like the palm of their hand. Showing off deliberately will only make people suspicious. Once retired, it means staying away from the previous life, knowing how to hide fame and live a good life now. Instead of showing off past achievements in a circle of friends, it is better to publish some current living conditions and get praise from others.

Summary: With more and more people using WeChat, the circle of friends has virtually become an important social occasion. Just like this, you need to think carefully when releasing news. Don't post what you think, or you will bring yourself unnecessary trouble. Therefore, it seems to be bragging to send these three kinds of dynamics in the circle of friends after retirement, but it is actually very annoying.

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