Always envy others, what should I do?

Others ride horses and I ride donkeys. Think about it.

Looking back, I saw the pickpocket, but I was unable to do so.

When you are alive, you can't always stare at those who live more smartly than yourself, let alone compare your own shortcomings with the advantages of others. Doing so will make you very unhappy.

Mountain climbers are always used to looking up at those who stand on the top of the mountain and watch the scenery. Sometimes when they look back, they will find that there are still so many eager people at the foot of the mountain. They are actually looking up at themselves.

It is good to have an example in your heart, which can motivate yourself to pursue a better life. However, if you always treat yourself harshly with the standard of example, you will be stupid and will make you tired and have no fun.

When people are alive, they must not always be against themselves. A person's luck and good luck will naturally get better, only to relax their mentality. Whatever happens to you, even if it's something you don't want to face, you should convince yourself to relax.

In fact, it has already happened, and it cannot be changed or redeemed. It is better to look at it with an optimistic attitude. Even if you can't change the status quo, you can at least change your mood at the moment and minimize the negative impact of bad things.

To be a man, you must be a small Q, learn to laugh at yourself and explain yourself, and know how to put yourself down anytime and anywhere. No matter what happens at the moment, even if it is unbearable, you should be thankful in your own heart first, because it is not the worst result after all. Think of those who are worse off than themselves. Thank God, I am also a lucky one who is blessed by God.

Besides, is it a blessing in disguise? God sometimes makes us go through a little hardship, maybe it's a "great mission from heaven"

As for those who are temporarily better off than themselves, just take a look, and it is unnecessary to stare. Envy? That's even more unnecessary. The geomantic wheel is like a clock, still gurgling there. No one knows where the pointer will point tomorrow, and it may be your turn.

Don't always look up to the happiness of others, go your own way. No one will be the happiest person in the world, because happiness comes from one's own mentality.

Pedestrians envy donkey riders for not having to travel hard. Donkey riders envy their riders a decent view. The rider envies that people who sit in sedan chairs don't need wind and rain. People in sedan chairs envy people in sedan chairs for their good health.

Life is as ordinary as mine, so what? Haven't I always been admired by many people?

A: Every family has its own problems!

1. When you envy others, others envy you.

2. The neighbors all said, "Teacher Wang Gong and Teacher Ge Ge in our community are the happiest. Are senior titles, children are sent by the state ... "

How did they know that we borrowed 1.7 million yuan to save the elderly? !

4. Therefore, every family has a difficult experience, and everyone has a difficult experience.

5, only health can be envied, others are floating clouds!

I think it's normal to envy others, that is, others are better than you, but you should envy others positively.

For example, people are more beautiful and handsome than you, and you envy them for their high value. This is normal, but the appearance is given by our biological parents, and we can't change it. Then we should improve our literacy, behave appropriately and enhance our connotation. If there is a gap, we must find ways to make up for it, instead of giving up on ourselves.

For example, other people's jobs are decent and their income is high, which means we don't go to other people's homes, but we shouldn't give up on ourselves. Work hard and study hard, and you will gradually narrow the gap.

Generally speaking, it is human nature to be jealous of others. Man struggles upwards, while water flows downwards. Envy with positive energy is our driving force and an example to learn. Only by adopting a good attitude can we achieve good results.

Finally, envy others and be yourself at the same time!

I wish everyone can become a successful person envied by others!

What's the use of just admiring others? Take action.

Envy others means that we think others are better than us.

If others are much better than us and can't be achieved with our best efforts, it is that there is something wrong with our values, and we need to transform our values to make others' "good" become dirt in our eyes. We should have the spirit of "let the wind blow and the waves beat, and I will walk leisurely" and "ten thousand households waited for dung in those days"

If this other good thing is only a little better than us and can be achieved through our efforts, then work hard instead of being envious like a little dissatisfied housewife.

If we don't want to change our values and work hard, and want to envy others like a little dissatisfied housewife, it will only increase our troubles and make life gloomy and meaningless.

Ask you some soul questions, and you can think about it.

1. Do you envy them in your circle of friends or the people around you?

Needless to say, many people now find that some people always tell everyone how good they are in their circle of friends, but this is not the case. The first thing you have to do is to recognize whether what others envy you really exists. If it is the latter, have you really considered all aspects of each other? Then the first thing you have to do is to think carefully about whether the disappointment of the other party exists here.

2. Which area do you admire?

Is it a colleague who is glib? Or do they have a lot of wealth? Still have a sweet love? Or a healthy body? Smaller, can you play musical instruments? Or is calligraphy OK?

Have a glib tongue, this lively and cheerful personality is natural. Some people are reserved, others are exquisite, and your personality and lifestyle are unique. Have you created a lot of wealth through your own hands? It's really enviable, but you see, if you write this question on your mobile phone, strangers will help you solve it. You take a deep breath and move on. The man with wealth just had his first meal today and is planning how to get the contract for tomorrow. The man you admire is giving and getting a reward. It's natural. Let's dissect what you admire about others and see what they have paid for it and what it is worth.

3. What do you have?

People always compare their own lives, many people always compare the advantages of others with their own shortcomings, and they are often anxious and afraid, but many people never calm down and think about it. Am I really bad? Look at yourself in the mirror. You have a unique appearance, a unique palm print, and a different life script. Maybe you have suffered a lot, but you look like the protagonist of a TV series.

Finally, I don't want to give you any more chicken soup. I just want to say that when everyone finds their own interests and works hard day and night, everyone will find that their ears can no longer hear the legends of others around them. Everyone's eyes will see their own way more and more clearly, while others' lives will be indifferent.

I hope my answer can help you. Satisfied friends can give me a compliment or pay attention to me. You don't have to look up to others. You are also a landscape.

Discover your own beauty.

Envy the beauty of others, in fact, you are not bad, handsome and lovely. You should be good at discovering your own beauty, and don't blindly envy others. You know, online celebrities are actually not as good as you. Take good care of yourself and believe that you are no worse than others.

My family is very happy.

We may envy other people's wonderful life experiences. Gao Fushuai is rich and beautiful, but our life is predestined. As long as our family is harmonious and happy, we should be content. As for Gao Fushuai, we can work hard on our own, and we should enjoy this process that no one else has ever enjoyed.

Content is better than wealth.

We will envy others' good luck, like lucky stars. And I am plain, you know, plain is also a kind of happiness. There are too many people in this world who are worse off than us. As the saying goes, the contented are always happy.

Your own little luck has come.

We must believe that we are also lucky. Every cause has its consequences, and the good causes we plant will bear good results. As long as we have a kind heart, then God will bring us a little luck and life is full of surprises.

Don't envy others, yours is better.

Envy others is just better than what you have now, but how do you know that something better will not appear around you? As we all know, being better than others is approaching you, just let you wait a little longer, but it will come to you eventually.

We are also being envied by others.

Not only do we envy others, but others will also envy us. People always envy what they don't have, so they will pursue it more. We have many bright spots ourselves, but you don't know it. It's called a spectator.

Why envy others? No matter how good others are, they are not yours. No matter how much money you have, it won't cost you a penny. My parents gave it to me, as long as it's not scary. If you show off your so-called young beauty, as long as you don't add ten and beauty, everyone will grow old. If you show off your money, I'll have no food. As long as you don't cheat, everyone will stumble.

Just attract, don't show off, just be in a good mood. I am only content with my own, quiet and not disturbing, and I don't envy what others have. It's good to know.

Don't live what others like.

This question is easy to answer, "strive for it personally." Jealousy of others is a common problem of most people. In fact, it is not a bad phenomenon to envy and covet others. He can promote his positive self-confidence. He and jealousy are two different things. Jealousy is the hope that only oneself is good, and others can't surpass themselves. This is a bad "psychological" phenomenon.

Now is the society that pursues money and things. Who is not in a hurry for money? Of course, the person who runs ahead is rich. Of course, the people behind are also envious. I haven't tried to catch up with others yet. You should speed up to catch up.

But only one person succeeded, and everyone else was trying. Why can't they catch up? The reason is that their minds are not as advanced as others, and they made a fortune first. You are still on the sidelines, afraid to take bold action, so you are one step behind. Furthermore, people can choose the right path, stick to it and achieve fruitful results. You may not have chosen the right path, or you just gave up halfway, or you were close, so you didn't achieve it.

Some people really don't have the strength and technology. Although they are envious and limited by conditions and circumstances, they are also working hard on the road to becoming rich. If they earn more and earn less, they will gain something and should be satisfied. People die than people, so throw away the goods. But then again, if you don't have the ability to make great efforts, earn a little money and live a little harder, you can make ends meet. There is no need to compare and envy, just work hard with a healthy body. There are difficulties and hardships when you earn more, but you enjoy it a little, and you have no more ears than the poor. You also have a nose. What are you climbing? Just eat and drink enough. Are contented people always happy? Yes!

Always envy others, indicating that others are better than you, more promising than you, and more capable than you.

Instead of doing nothing all day to envy others, try to improve yourself. Only when you are strong, others will envy you in turn and appreciate you seriously! Only by keeping a sunny mind to treat people and things around me, I believe I will make progress and be strong!