What's it like to be in labor?

Labor is labor, which is also called suture in some places, indicating that the baby has started and is in labor. Professionally speaking, the definition of labor process refers to the occurrence of regular contractions (labor pains), with an interval of 5-6 minutes and a duration of 30 seconds, accompanied by the retreat of the cervical canal and the expansion of the cervix, as well as the decline of the fetal presentation (fetal head). This concept is a bit floating, and I am a little unaccustomed to being a doctor for so many years.

What's it like to be in labor? I won't talk about imagination. To be honest, the feeling of labor is getting more and more painful, the interval time is getting shorter and shorter, and the duration is getting shorter and shorter. This is the feeling of labor. However, it is more difficult to start delivery, and the understanding of this delivery point is often retrospective.

Here are some strange labor feelings. Some precious mothers will have menstrual feeling or backache when giving birth to their children, but the palace mouth is full and happy. The most wonderful treasure mother gave birth to such a child. She just felt uncomfortable at the roots of her thighs, and the fetus was at the vaginal opening.

To sum up, in general, the feeling of labor refers to the aggravation of pain, the shortening of intermittent time and the shortening of duration. Good luck with your pregnancy.

Everyone feels differently in their work.

Let's talk about pain first. Some people feel stomachache, while others feel buttocks ache. I just feel a terrible pain in my ass. I think this is a symptom of most people. The birth itself will open the pelvis. However, my good friend felt back pain when giving birth to a child. The doctor said it was getting late, so she endured the pain and ran to take care of her in-laws, and then went to the hospital at night. She has opened her fingers and went straight into the delivery room, and she will give birth soon.

In addition, the symptoms of labor will be accompanied by contractions, redness and swelling, and broken amniotic fluid, which are common symptoms. It's just that some people see that red and amniotic fluid break in different order. My mother and I mostly saw the red first, and then my water broke (mine was broken by the doctor). But before I was born, my friend popularized the knowledge of production and said that someone broke the amniotic fluid first. If the amniotic fluid is broken, try to lie flat, reduce the outflow of amniotic fluid and go to the hospital quickly. Because oligohydramnios are risky for delivery and babies.

Finally, the psychological situation said that she was pregnant 10 month, 280 days. However, the development of the baby, the implantation of the fertilized egg, the last menstruation, menstrual cycle and ovulation will all affect the accuracy of the calculation of the expected date of delivery. I delayed ovulation because of pregnancy tension, and the child's development did not match the last menstrual period. And even if the child is full-term at 36 weeks, it can be delivered at any time. There are also friends around me who are expected to give birth two weeks earlier or two weeks later. No problem in advance, postponed, and my heart is full of worries. I began to feel uneasy about 37 weeks, thinking, "When was I born?" Why not ... "But also worried about production.

To sum up, although everyone has different feelings about labor, they are generally these three aspects. After you figure it out, you will probably go through such a stage, and you will be much more comfortable. Having a baby is not as complicated as you think.

Accelerate delivery

When I went to check-up four days before the due date, the doctor said that if I didn't start after the due date, I would be hospitalized for artificial induction the day before the due date.

In fact, the results of B-ultrasound show that the fetus is not very big, and I am not in a hurry to induce labor. However, my blood sugar was not well controlled during pregnancy, and the hospital stipulated that I must be born within the expected date of delivery, so I had to be hospitalized.

When I arrived at the hospital, I found that because of the epidemic, I could only be accompanied by one person and could not deliver meals. The entourage can only order lunch boxes. The moon meal can be ordered, but after eating for a few days, it is found that the quality is not as good as that of the university cafeteria.

I went to the hospital the morning before the due date 10, and took 7 tubes of blood. I don't know what I checked.

Before going to the hospital, I heard that the internal examination was very sour and I came prepared, which was acceptable. It's just that there will be slight bleeding after the internal examination. After the internal examination, the doctor suggested that the water bag should be stuffed overnight in the afternoon, and the water should be artificially broken and oxytocin should be given the next day.

Take vaginal secretions for examination, and release the water sac at 5 pm. This feeling is much more painful than internal inspection. First, it was opened with a vaginal dilator, then two balls were put in, and then 120ml physiological saline was injected into the balls, and a sweat broke out in the process of releasing the balls.

Putting the ball is just the beginning, and the process of walking back to the delivery room is difficult to adapt, with legs crossed and foreign body feeling tolerated. The nurse said that standing up and walking can give birth, but I really didn't like the foreign body feeling, so I kept lying down. I also brought a water bag to defecate during the period. When you wipe your ass, you really can't start, squat or twist, and others can't help you. Even after reading many books on maternity, no one told me that it is so difficult to wipe my ass with a water bag during contractions.

At 7: 00 pm-11:00 pm, the frequency of uterine contraction is between 6- 10 minutes, and it hurts more and more. It is said that deep breathing can relieve it, but it is of little use to me. I want to sleep for a while, but I always wake up in pain. The nurse called her after saying that the ball had dropped, and I kept lying down. Even if I opened my fingers, I wouldn't drop it, and my first child wouldn't be so fast.

Just when I thought I would be so painful that I couldn't sleep all night, the pain stopped around midnight 12:00. I want to save my strength for the next day and go to bed quickly. But when it doesn't hurt, I still wonder, does this mean that the water bag doesn't work?

Get up at 7:40 in the morning and go to the labor room at 8:30, so I can't go out and my family can't meet on this day. Take the water bag first in the morning. The process of taking it is much easier than plugging it. Let the water out first, and then pull biu's ball out.

After that, artificial water breaking began. The process of breaking water may be more troublesome than others, because the fetal head is too high to get down. I guess it has something to do with my late pregnancy. The first midwife took something I didn't see clearly and tried to lie in the vagina. The second midwife pressed my stomach with all her strength, and the first one said, push! No.2 said, I have tried my best.

I have no other thoughts in my mind except pain, that is, dull pain, not pain that spreads from the lower body to the brain during contraction. I turned my head to divert my attention, and I could see the watch in the corridor outside the window, watching the second hand turn bit by bit, and the seconds were like years.

The first water cut ended in failure, and I felt the cold instrument taken out of it. The second time, the two of them worked harder. Midwife number two kept saying "relax, I thought I was relaxed" when she pressed my stomach. Only then did I know that every time I just relaxed for a few seconds, my stomach became stiff because of nervousness, so I was reminded several times. Finally, a stream of heat flowed down between my legs, so hot that I couldn't stop.

Before the prenatal examination, the doctor said that there was too much amniotic fluid, and this time I had an intuitive feeling. I heard from the midwife how disgusting it was. At that time, I was thinking that the amniotic fluid should be unclear. What is disgusting? I went back to the maternity bed and lay on the knife paper. After a while, I changed the paper myself, only to find that the paper was yellow, green and red, which was quite disgusting.

Feel the warm liquid flowing between my legs, lie in my sheep pool for more than an hour, measure blood sugar, take oxygen and give normal saline, 10, and finally use oxytocin.

Occasionally, there was a baby crying in the delivery room. I observed it for a long time before I knew it was the voice of a newborn who had just come down from the delivery bed. It was so loud. Although all the parturients looked haggard when they were pushed out of the delivery room, I looked at them with envy, because they had come down from the battlefield and I was still like a lamb to be slaughtered.

First stage of labor

Between 10:00- 14:00, I finally opened a finger. The pain of uterine contraction during this process is tolerable. According to the dropping speed of oxytocin, the interval is about 2-5 minutes. When the pain came, I bit my index finger joint hard to distract myself from making a sound.

14: 00-17:10, from one finger to two fingers. The pain in the middle made me start to make a sound. Before that, I always thought I was a patient person. It also broke my cognition-it was much more painful than I thought, and it was only two fingers?

But I told the nurse, please make an appointment with an anesthesiologist in advance, and I need to use it as soon as possible. So at 17: 13, I thought I saw hope, and the anesthesiologist would save me.

According to the regulations, the internal inspection is once every two hours, otherwise it is easy to be infected if it is too many times. Between 17:00- 19:00, the anesthesiologist was busy with three general anesthesia operations and could not spare time. And in my delivery room, the incision was taken away, and the second child was born too fast, and finally I was left lying alone.

There is only me and a nurse in the huge waiting room. Sometimes she chats with me to distract me. I said, I stared at that window for a long time, and finally realized that some pregnant women couldn't help jumping off a building before. It's too hard, they can get out in an instant when they jump up. The temptation is too strong. She said there was another department outside the window. At this time, I can even joke that, alas, I finally thought I was relieved and went to another ward immediately, which was not worth it. The head nurse is used to other people's pain for a long time, but she should comfort me seriously and say that theoretically people will not die of pain, emm. It is, but the feeling of pain is really worse than death.

During this period, all kinds of breathing methods are useless, psychological suggestion method and attention transfer method are useless. In the despair of waiting for the anesthesiologist again and again, I started screaming regardless of the physical loss caused by shouting.

The strategy says to seize the opportunity to take a quick rest between contractions. However, this time is too short, and I am overwhelmed by the fear of the next contraction and only feel desperate.

In these two hours, I only drove from two fingers to three fingers. This means that the progress of nine hours is only three fingers. I didn't hope for the delivery that day, but I didn't sleep well all day and night. High blood sugar and pain made me unable to eat normally. I'm afraid I don't have any physical strength after midnight.

At 20: 55 this time, the pain was particularly fierce. I'm already all nervous. I think this is the most painful feeling I have ever experienced in my life. I howled with all my might, regardless of my dignity. The internal examination should be carried out at 2 1:00, I shouted hoarsely in the increasingly frequent contractions. It's only five minutes away. Give me an internal examination.

Taking advantage of a contraction interval, I quickly checked myself and the results showed five fingers.

In the dark, I can't stand it any longer, and it's just halfway through.

The nurse said to check it again at the next contraction. A minute later, the contractions like opening the crown of the skull came again. The results of internal examination show that all fingers are open during uterine contraction, and you can go to the delivery bed.

Second stage of labor

Five to ten fingers? Although I looked puzzled, I climbed into the delivery bed with the help of the nurse with joy and fear for the next round, that is, the second stage of labor. At this time, I glanced at my watch, 2 1 point.

Fear turned me into a chatterbox. I set a goal with the midwife to give birth before 22:00-more than 2 hours earlier than I expected.

Spoiler first, I achieved my goal.

In the middle of this hour, almost like in TV series, I was sweating and was on the verge of collapse again and again. When I closed my eyes and tried hard, I felt that I was wandering back and forth between the gate of hell and the cold maternity bed, so I won't go into details.

To tell you an embarrassing thing, although I knew some parturients would defecate on the delivery bed, I didn't expect that I was one of them. Fortunately, when I got to bed, I told the midwife, I'm sorry, I was careless, and I was afraid I would be incontinent if I couldn't control myself.

Thankfully, it is this intention that has guided me in the right direction. Pain doesn't make people lose consciousness. Smell the feces in the delivery room and have the energy to say sorry to the midwife. The nurse wiped my stool and said that it was okay to look at the fetal scalp. This may be the least solemn moment in my life.

I want to selectively forget the unbearable hard process in the middle, but I will always remember that moment, when a heat flow gushed from my body, the baby's vague but not high-pitched cry sounded, and I didn't have tears in my eyes. Even now I think about it, my eyes are moist. Compared with joy, the first thing that comes is a sense of relief without pain.

I still have some physical strength and asked about gender, weight and so on. At the same time, there is one last task, expelling the placenta. I've heard the word "manual placental abruption" for a long time. The midwife told me to push, and I said I was bored. She said I was bored, so I took measures. I thought I was going to peel off the placenta manually, which scared me to say that I would do it myself. It turned out that she just wanted to help me press my stomach, but fortunately the placenta was discharged smoothly. She pressed her stomach, and I tried my best to defecate, which succeeded.

However, due to excessive force in the later stage, the lateral incision was severely torn. We need to sew up three layers and add a blood vessel. The rupture of that blood vessel made me bleed 200 ml, and I was dizzy for the next few days. It took about 35 minutes to sew. After local anesthesia, you can still feel the process of pulling the wire, inserting the needle and knotting. I don't know whether pain, fatigue or cold make me tremble all over. Twisted and wobbled gums make sewing more difficult.

When I was nervous, I started talking again and asked me why I didn't develop a smoother thread. I felt the thread pass through me roughly, and joked that I had carefully observed the children without any more fingers or toes.

Suture is difficult to end, and there is a feeling of holes in the lower body. Fortunately, another midwife kept talking to me while cleaning up the child, so that I could focus on the child to alleviate the pain. I have a sense of unreality and strong joy when I watch the child being put on the table to clean up the blood stains. The child turned to look at me. I know that the newborn's eyesight is only a few centimeters, but he is still very happy. This is the first time we have met.

the third stage of labor

You have to stay in the delivery room for 2 hours before you can return to the ward. This is the third stage of labor. I thought the difficult part was almost finished, but I didn't expect to be greeted by several internal examinations, including anal digital examination. The reason for the internal inspection of several substitutions is that there is an unnoticed bug after sewing. If maintenance needs to be disassembled again, you can also observe it and maybe absorb it yourself. Forget it, it was my only thought at the time.

I can finally calm down for a while. It is almost eleven o'clock. I got the phone. The first person to notify is not my spouse, but my mother. This is the first person I want to tell the good news, but she has rested and turned off her cell phone. Then I called my father and told him. Later, I told my spouse and in-laws in the family group that my spouse was fine, and the first sentence asked me if I was safe. I should be glad that his first reaction was this.

new hand

I was pushed back to the ward, close to it. I didn't have a good rest for a day and a night, but my mind was always on my child. I lay quietly and guided my spouse to work. The child defecates twice. Because of my high blood sugar, there is a possibility of hypoglycemia, and I need to feed glucose twice. Spouses are too young to look after children, so they are all sweating. It took more than half an hour to clean the sticky meconium and change diapers for the first time. Can't make milk powder, left-handed people can't hold children and can't find things. Anyway, it's a mess.

I am angry and distressed at my child, but I can only lie down and complain that he doesn't usually do his homework, while giving him the steps of what to do first. In fact, I only have theoretical knowledge and have never dealt with such a small child. With a sense of guilt, he was so busy that he was sweating all over. On the one hand, it is the urging of the wife in the hospital bed, and on the other hand, the crying of the newborn. This may be the most difficult moment in his life. Two people, one in command and one in command, were busy until six o'clock to take a nap. The child, except for two failed defecation and two failed glucose feeding, slept quietly most of the time, completely unaware that his novice parents had broken their hearts for him.

But unexpectedly, in the remaining three days, my spouse's performance refreshed my understanding of him. He changed from a novice father who was too busy to shake hands with the newborn to a trusted neonatal care expert. Forced to take care of the parturient and the newborn independently, he faced great pressure, but it was this pressure that made him take on the responsibility of his father. As a novice father, he did a good job, but he still said with guilt that his clumsiness made his children suffer a lot.

For example, children don't rest when they sleep, but design a set of streamlined diaper changing process, which sets standards from the placement of trash cans, the temperature of water to be washed, the way to wipe feces, the preparation of diapers in advance, and the preparation of dry and wet cloths. Used to change diapers as quickly as possible. He said that every time you hurry, the child can cry less for a while. Once, a child cried badly because of taking medicine, and I saw his eyes were red. Fatherly love is an instinct for him. I have no doubt that he will give everything for his children if necessary.

It's not that a man should be praised for sharing a little child-rearing task, but if I were in that position, I might not do as well as him.

The ward is in the middle row, so we can't see outside. In those three days, we were drowned in the shit of our children, day and night, and we only had children in our minds, completely forgetting the time. Occasionally pass by the public balcony next to the bathroom and see the world outside the window. The sun is still rising and the epidemic is still spreading. There is always a feeling of escaping from the world. The world has changed for me. The three of us together, even if it is the end of the world outside, we won't be afraid anymore.

This article was written on my mobile phone when I was in the ward three days after delivery, watching my spouse change diapers in the middle of the night and watching the children sleep. It's been several days since I was discharged from the hospital. When I think of my spouse's biting pain and busy figure in the ward, I am filled with emotion. But this is really just the beginning. I hope I am qualified for this new role.

When I gave birth to my daughter, I remembered that it was thirty-nine weeks, and it was a fake contraction. It was close to the early morning, and my stomach ached a little, sometimes strong and sometimes weak. Because she was the first child, she was inexperienced and called her mother-in-law in a panic. Mother-in-law quickly got things ready and called a car to the hospital. Who knows that after arriving at the hospital, I stayed for a long time and my stomach didn't hurt. The doctor smiled and said that it might be a false contraction, so I went home first. So we came back with something powerful.

In this way, I didn't reply until forty-one weeks after the expected date of delivery. In the afternoon, there was a little bleeding in the private parts, and my stomach stopped hurting. Based on the last experience, I didn't tell anyone, thinking about waiting. Unexpectedly, after an hour or two, there was more and more blood flow and my stomach began to tighten and hurt, so I called home, cleaned up and went to the hospital.

That night, the pain intensified and the blood kept flowing. Because I want to give birth naturally, I climb stairs between contractions. Every time the pain comes, I lean against the wall, hold my hand tightly and wait silently for this wave to pass. Later, I really couldn't walk, so I rested in the ward. At that time, the contractions were severe, once every five minutes. I couldn't help crying when the contractions came. I have to ask my mother-in-law to rub one thigh for me, because my leg will cramp, and I can't stand it. Even cramps make me feel backache and always want to defecate. The nurse said that I can't exert myself, so on the one hand, I have to endure cramps and try to hold back. Because of suffering from uterine contraction all night, I have to go to the toilet to change my menstrual towel when it doesn't hurt. How can I sleep? I am sleepy, tired and hungry.

However, it is in such severe pain that my uterine opening is too slow, but the uterine contraction is once every three minutes, but the uterine opening is only three centimeters, which has been tormenting me to work in the attending doctor. She gave me an internal examination. Seeing that my cervix was still heavy, she asked me to have a caesarean section. She said that I couldn't open my uterus like this, and I kept bleeding. I was desperate and wanted to give birth naturally.

In this way, I endured a night of pain and turned to anatomy.

The feeling of labor, well, I deeply remember what the nurse told me, which basically represents the feeling of labor for most people.

Listen to me slowly ~

It is said that when my girl was in the belly, my family and friends, including experienced Yue Yue, all my symptoms were definitely my son, and I thought so ~ It took a week before I planned to come out, so I began to feel uneasy and suspected that it might be a girl ~ I didn't say that girls are generally willing to expect the date of delivery.

Luckily, she only stayed one more week.

I remember that night, at 3 o'clock in the middle of the night, I got up and went to the bathroom, and found myself red and slightly painful. I took a shower at night, gathered all the people who could shake, and took the bag that had just arrived at the hospital to occupy the bed (the bed was tight, and my uncle recruited people in advance).

I went to the hospital and had an internal examination. This is very uncomfortable. Be patient!

The doctor said it was still early, so I wandered around more and counted the frequency of stomachache. I said yes, just walk happily in the corridor. I ran out for a meal during this time, and the nurse found out and called me back. sorry

At night, I saw many expectant mothers strolling during the day being sent down, and when they came up, they unloaded the goods and became two people. I am envious and anxious ~

Just wrangle with the nurse and ask me what kind of pain I want to have a baby.

The nurse motioned with her lips ~

"Looking at there? When did you feel inhuman pain ~ you almost gave birth! "

Oh, Myka, my little darling is shaking so badly!

After a while, the doctor gave me an internal examination, but it still didn't work, so I decided to artificially break the water (if it hurts enough, it hurts more than coming to my period, and my fingers are not enough)

As soon as the water broke, the contractions were so severe that I began to go crazy ~ I see, the nurse said the pain was inhuman.

I was completely crazy, screaming, and all the pregnant women walking in the corridor were shocked by me. ...

At this point, I have no previous pain, completely forgot about it, screaming, "Give me no pain, I want to fight no pain ~"

But after checking, I still didn't open my finger and the delivery room didn't accept it. I can't feel looking for someone. I called from the delivery room and said to take it and deliver it to the delivery room.

After painless wow ~ really, there is a feeling of returning to heaven from hell, really.

Then, my delivery room is a domestic delivery room, and my husband came in to accompany me and bought me Kaifeng dishes to replenish my strength at the last minute.

So, I ate a hamburger, a pair of spicy chicken wings, a snickers bar, two cans of red bull and a bottle of mineral water.

After 8 hours, I almost digested everything I ate, but my girl still didn't intend to exert herself. ...

At this time, the doctor worried that there would be any problems and asked her husband to sign the emergency plan agreement. Looking at her trembling hands when writing, I trembled all over.

God ~ I really don't want to be punished for both crimes. Feel the pain of natural delivery and feel the caesarean section. Woohoo ~

Maybe my whole body trembling shocked my girl, and she began to exert herself.

But I won't work so hard ~

The doctor said it would be like taking a shit, but people have a baby. This metaphor is hard to accept.

During the labor pains, I thought about the feeling of defecation, but I just couldn't. My husband later said he was scared to death by rolling his eyes at me.

I guess it's a little long. The doctor threatened me that my baby's heart rate fluctuated greatly and told me to refuel. Then they jumped up to drive away my stomach and helped me with their arms (two doctors, one on each side).

Then, I blushed and my neck was thick, and finally I discharged a big lump. Oh, no, I had a baby.

Finally, I hope I haven't left a shadow on you who are not born, ready to be born and about to be born, hahaha ~

On the night of 36+6 days of pregnancy, my stomach became stiff and my ups and downs were particularly severe. I tossed and turned and couldn't sleep. I am agitated to see my husband sleeping so soundly. I couldn't sleep that night. I keep counting sheep, but I just can't sleep. I always feel uncomfortable lying down, and the fetus doesn't move much in the stomach.

The most terrible thing is that I always urinate frequently and always have to run to the bathroom, which is not pleasant at all. After midnight, I found that I was red. I was scared, so I told my dad. My husband ran to ask my mother-in-law, who knew I was going to have a baby. They quickly took my bag and drove me to the hospital.

Later, I summarized the following points:

1. See red.

2. The amniotic fluid is broken.

The belly is hard and there is a feeling of bloating.

Welcome Ma Bao to share her feelings during childbirth.

38 weeks, abdominal pain during the day. In the afternoon, I went to the town hospital for fetal monitoring and internal examination. The doctor said I would go back to wash my hair and take a bath. The bag will pack it tonight. It hurts at twelve o'clock at night. I went to the toilet and saw red. Just woke up my husband and mother-in-law, took just the right bag and set off for the city maternal and child health hospital. There are bouts of pain on the road, so let my mother-in-law help me rub my waist. Go to the hospital to go through the formalities, go to the toilet to defecate, and the amniotic fluid will break after going to the toilet. The three fingers of the internal examination were arranged to the delivery room. Because the amniotic fluid broke, I had to lie down. My mother-in-law and husband took turns rubbing my back. It hurts until three o'clock. The doctor did a six-finger internal examination and said that he could enter the delivery room after a long time. I entered the delivery room at 4: 30, and eight fingers entered the delivery room. According to B-ultrasound, the position of the fetus is a little incorrect. When doing fetal monitoring, the fetal heart rate will drop with exertion, and it will be normal without exertion. The doctor asked for a caesarean section, and I want to give birth naturally. I asked the midwife what happened to the baby. Say nothing. I said I wanted to give birth naturally, and it hurt until about seven o'clock. My appointment with the midwife worked. She went to the delivery room to have a side cut, so she cut it. The midwife helped hold down her stomach, and the baby came out, crying so loudly that I relaxed. The doctor helped clean up the 6.5 kg female treasure and gave it to the family. Four stitches and two hours in the delivery room.

After 40 weeks of pregnancy, that is, 280 days, even if it is full term, the expected date of delivery is generally calculated in this way. As the delivery date approaches, make all preparations and wait for delivery at any time.

Tell me more about my labor. At that time, I was a week past my due date, and there was no movement at all. So I was admitted to the hospital. B-ultrasound showed that the fetal position was normal, the fetal biparietal diameter was appropriate, and the amniotic fluid was sufficient. So the doctor suggested a natural delivery. Since the expected date of delivery has passed seven days and there is no movement, the doctor can prescribe medicine for me the next morning. I remember that another parturient and I placed mung bean-sized misoprostol tablets at the cervix at the same time, saying that it was used to soften the cervix and promote uterine contraction. If you don't feel it, you should inject oxytocin intravenously. It was 9: 00 a.m. when the extra medicine was given. At eleven o'clock, my stomach has a faint feeling of falling, just like the dull pain of falling when my period comes. I hurried to eat and went back to bed to lie down and rest.

The pain began to show up slowly. At one o'clock, I couldn't stand the pain. I grabbed the iron bedside table with my hand. The pain stopped for a while, and then it began to hurt again. Before two o'clock, my contractions were only once every few minutes. I have a terrible pain. I asked my husband to see a doctor. The doctor didn't go to work until two o'clock, so it was a terrible pain again. Finally, the doctor went to work at two o'clock, so I let him go. In this way, after more than an hour of heartbreak, I gave birth to my daughter.

The above is my previous labor experience and feelings. Of course, everyone's specific situation is different and their feelings are different. In short, it is really difficult and painful for women to have children. Every mother is strong and great!

It is incredible that many mothers give birth on the road or on the train, so it is necessary for many pregnant mothers to know about the labor situation. The feeling of labor actually varies from person to person. Most people have contractions before labor, that is, their stomachs tighten and they feel that their stomachs are obviously falling or slightly red, but I have never seen these symptoms.

Let's talk about my personal experience. I went to the physical examination 10 day before labor, and was told that frequent contractions required immediate hospitalization for labor, because I was still at work at that time, and my stomach was too big to feel anything. My baby seems to be lying in it, not getting enough sleep. I chose not to stay in the hospital, but the doctor said, "If you don't stay in the hospital, you have to sign a refusal letter, otherwise we can't afford the risk."

After coming back, I consulted a professional doctor friend and suggested that I can observe it for another two days. If anything happens, I should be hospitalized at any time. After three days, my stomach ached a little at night, and I got up the next day for a checkup. I was told that contractions were frequent and I had to be hospitalized. This time, I listened to the doctor's advice and honestly stayed in the hospital for labor.

Because I have heard a story before, I dare not careless. A pregnant nurse, like me, didn't feel contractions and ran to work upstairs and downstairs. As a result, when I took the elevator, my amniotic fluid broke instantly, and the child was able to walk just now, and as a result, even his legs could not be heard. She suddenly fell down in the elevator in pain, and by the time the obstetrician came, the child had already come out.

I am worried that I am such a pregnant woman, so I dare not take it lightly this time. It turns out that I was right. I didn't feel anything until the day I was born. I was going to leave the hospital and go home the next day. As a result, I suddenly had a stomachache at night, which was a bit like menstruation, and then my amniotic fluid broke. After more than six hours of unprecedented tearing pain, the child was finally born smoothly.

Therefore, it is suggested that mothers who are about to give birth should not take their own feelings as the basis for giving birth, sometimes they may not feel it, so they should trust doctors and scientific judgment, go to the hospital often according to the doctor's requirements 1 month before giving birth, and don't be the embarrassing mother who gives birth in the elevator or on the street.

Expectant mothers should pay special attention to their own safety, do not fall, do not touch, and ensure their own safety.

During childbirth, contractions are more regular. When the contractions begin, there will be a period of time, and then there will be no more. It's not very regular. I can feel contractions. When labor is about to begin, contractions will become more and more regular and the interval will become shorter and shorter. It will be produced at this time. After the obstetrician checks, he can wait in the delivery room after sewing the bone to four fingers. The doctor will guide you how to cooperate with breathing and how to exert your strength. When you really want to have a baby, you will feel that you want to shit. The doctor will tell you that you want to defecate on the delivery bed, but in fact you are going to have a baby.

Labor is still symptomatic, that is, redness and slight vaginal bleeding. At this time, there is still a period of time before the formal delivery, and you can be admitted to hospital for labor. Another is to break the amniotic fluid first. At this time, you must go to the hospital at once. According to the doctor's judgment, the doctor will choose natural delivery or caesarean section according to the comprehensive consideration of fetal condition, maternal physical condition and prenatal condition. You must cooperate with the doctor's advice and make a decision that is beneficial to both children and adults.