No matter how good the relationship is, what should you not do for your boyfriend? Can you elaborate on it?

For girls, reducing dependence on others, having a stable professional income and loving themselves are three particularly important things. No matter whether you fall in love with the shining male god or the ordinary other half, no matter how much you like him, you can't lose yourself in love. Many readers told me that when Lin likes someone, he really becomes sensitive and suspicious. Sometimes I don't get a response, even I don't want to go on my favorite trip, and my work becomes boring. However, I want to tell you that if a person really loves you, he will not give you the opportunity to hesitate, be sensitive and doubt.

2. Squeeze out all your social circles

I once read a story in Weibo. Girls say that boyfriends are insecure but controlling. Being with him is really tiring. He often secretly checks my mobile phone. In order to give him the sense of security he wanted, I deleted almost all the contact information of the opposite sex for fear that he would be jealous. Not only that, even if I go out with my same-sex friend and come back late, he will quarrel with me. Later, I became more and more silent and left him alone in my life. It's a little cold after reading it. To tell the truth, even if two people have a good relationship, I don't think love should be the whole of life.

3. obey him blindly

There is a saying circulating on the Internet that parents are not optimistic about marriage and should not get married. So is love. Even if you don't talk about marriage, the attitude of parents can sometimes be used as a reference. People who fall in love are often blind and extreme, but you should also know that in many cases, love follows the law of "everyone present knows it, and everyone on the sidelines knows it". Parents' attitude may not be 100% correct, but they know you best and want you to live well. Their judgment may not be accurate, but if a person really needs you to oppose them to be together, I want you to think about it. People who really care about this relationship will think of you.

Promise each other

When you talk about friends, you are loyal to each other. When getting married, it doesn't matter if the man doesn't have the bride price money. Women shouldn't live with men until they get married. She is married and must accept the bride price. Love needs a material foundation. Third, some women borrow money from their parents whenever they have difficulties in order to please their in-laws. It is no problem to meet a grateful husband. If you meet an ungrateful husband-in-law, everything will become a matter of course, dragging down her family and spoiling it.