How much influence does family background have on personality? Can you elaborate on it?

1. People will imitate the people around them consciously or unconsciously. When children are young, their activities are limited to their families. It is his parents that he contacts every day. Some of his parents' habits will be imitated by his children, and their personality and habits will be close to their parents after a long time.

2. Before the child has no full capacity, he will be protected by his parents, and the chances of contact with the outside world will be reduced. At this point, the child's character has not yet fully formed. When children can fully contact with the outside world, their character will be formed. A child who lives in a loving local family feels more secure. Because he can feel the love of his parents, he has more courage when he encounters setbacks in life. Because he feels that his parents are behind him, he is fearless. With the passage of time, he formed a brave and cheerful personality.

Children living in primitive families lack love, because it is difficult to feel the love of their parents, so children always feel helpless. They feel that no matter what they do, as long as there are bad consequences, they can only bear it themselves, and then they are backward in all aspects. In the long run, he has developed a timid character. "family of origin" refers to the family from small to large. The emotional habits and thinking patterns formed by local family members are called "local complex".

4. Primitive families shape people's personality, affect personality development, cultivate people's emotional management ability, and shape adult interpersonal communication patterns. Generally speaking, a person has two families in his life: one is the family where he was born and raised (family of origin), and the other is the family where he grew up and got married (newborn family). The influence of primitive family on a person is subtle. When you get along with your spouse or children in your new family as an adult, the emotional experience you experienced during the growth of the original family will be unconsciously repeated.

Many psychological studies have proved that early life experiences, especially primitive families, play a vital role in personal character, have a long-term and far-reaching impact on personal life, and even determine the happiness of personal life.