Talk about your greatest weakness.

I finally want to know where my biggest weakness is these days.

-expose your shortcomings to people you think you can trust.

Break down the components of this sentence.

"shortcomings", "exposure" and "people you think you can trust"

The uncertainty of each factor leads to the emergence of the final problem.

First of all, some shortcomings are innate, subjective and objective, and some are considered by "people who think they can trust". Because everyone's preconditions or standing angles are different, this alone is asymmetric. And there is a difference whether the shortcomings can be found or not. The safest way is to close yourself up.

Exposure, this is an action, and the main body that produces this action is both sides. On the one hand, some unintentional actions are considered as shortcomings by the other party; On the other hand, it is deliberately displayed to others for some purpose, but whether it can achieve the expected effect depends on this "person I think I can trust".

Speaking of the third most complicated factor, "the person you think you can trust", the most critical part of the attribute lies in "yourself". If you don't think the other person can be trusted, none of the situations discussed above will happen. Moreover, this state is changing at any time, and "self" and "person" will have different thoughts, States and actions in different environments and different States. So this factor is the most complicated part of the whole incident.

To sum up, we can see that there is only one way to solve this soft spot. Don't trust anyone easily, keep a certain distance from anyone.

Over the years, because of this weakness, I don't know how much I have lost, so all I can do is to protect myself and not express my true views to anyone easily, and I know many things myself. After all, there are human factors, and there are countless possibilities.

February 65438, 2020