The 37-year-old man feels that he should not provoke restless women and live his own life. Do you agree?

Being a man and living your life in a down-to-earth manner is better than anything else. Some people are always in trouble because they have too many things and want too many things, and they are always fidgeting.

In the emotional world, too, people who belong to themselves in life can't run away. People who don't belong to themselves will not be happy if they persist, because twisting melons is not sweet.

Now that they are married, both husband and wife should be loyal to the marriage and run the family wholeheartedly, so that the family will be happy. For the opposite sex outside marriage, you should know how to keep a proper distance and stop everything.

Especially those lonely women, don't provoke them casually. If you think it's funny, people won't think it's funny. If you are not careful, you will get stuck and it will be difficult to get out. Many people in important positions, because they provoke lonely women, often end up in ruin and even go to jail.

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Once, my colleague was scolded by his 37-year-old brother, who hit him. My colleagues came to work that day and my cheeks were swollen. He said he fell down on the road.

My colleague's brother is my high school classmate. On that day, my old classmate WeChat contacted me and asked about buying a refrigerator. I talked about the fall of his brother. The old classmate said that his brother was not injured by a fall, but was beaten by him. I'm surprised. What happened?

The old classmate said that his brother molested a divorced woman in the workshop, and he asked me to keep an eye on it for him. I am in the same office as his brother. The old classmate is 12 years older than the younger brother, who just got married last year. Old classmates are big brothers like their fathers, and they don't want their marriage to break up.

My old classmate chatted with me and talked about an incident he experienced. He said with emotion that men should never provoke divorced and lonely women, but should live their own lives in a down-to-earth manner. Let me talk about what my old classmate experienced in the first person, which may give other married men a reminder.

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In the third year of my wife's marriage, a divorced woman moved across from my house. The first time I knocked on my door, she sent some vegetables to my house, saying that they were brought from the countryside and she couldn't finish them all by herself.

Out of courtesy, a few days later, my wife also sent her some small things. Since then, our two families have become acquainted. Her surname is Lu. We call her Lu. Xiao Lu divorced and the children were awarded to her ex-husband. Now she rents here alone, and her life is quite lonely.

Later, she changed a light bulb, moved heavy objects, connected the sewer and so on, and asked me for help. My wife is very busy at work and my children are sent to my parents' house, so sometimes I feel bored. Because I am bored, I will contact Xiao Lu, or she will come to me, and we will get closer and closer.

Slowly, my wife felt something was wrong and reminded me to keep my distance from Xiao Lu. Only then did I feel that my behavior was inappropriate. I began to deliberately keep my distance from Xiao Lu, but she stuck to me like candy. She calls me if she needs anything, or knocks on my door when her wife is not at home.

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At that time, I thought she liked me before she came to me, so I told her gently that it was impossible for me and her, and I would not divorce my wife. She cried and made noise, and even wanted to die, which made me feel at a loss.

Fortunately, I haven't had anything substantial with her, so I'm still calm. In order to avoid her, I always go home quietly in case she opens the door and pulls me into her house. One day, when I came home quietly, I overheard a voice coming from Lu Xiao's house.

Xiao Lu said, "This couple is kind and loving, but I am lonely. I can't see their love in front of me, so I want to break them up. "

"It's not that they hurt your divorce. They are just your neighbors. You'd better come back to your hometown with me, or your father will be rude. You don't like the man across the hall. Just because you are lonely and jealous of others' love, you will break up others. You can't do this. " The voice of an old woman.

I'm surprised. I didn't expect Lu Xiao to think so. Later, her parents forced her to go back to her hometown, and I was relieved. Now, my brother also met a divorced woman like Xiao Lu, so I scolded him and couldn't let him make mistakes.

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After listening to my old classmate, I really feel lucky for him. Some women divorce themselves, so they can't see the happiness of others, and because of loneliness, they deliberately destroy the happiness of others.

In fact, in the final analysis, it is their psychological imbalance that makes them have the psychology of revenge on society. A clever man should never provoke such a lonely woman, or he will get into trouble.

My colleague has been quiet since then and has nothing to do with the divorced woman in the workshop. His wife sometimes comes to pick him up from work, and they are very kind and loving. I'm so happy for them. I think, if my old classmates hadn't stopped me in time, maybe my colleague's marriage would have gone wrong long ago.

Both men and women should be loyal to their marriage. Now that you are married, you should put your wife first and keep a proper distance from women outside. For those lonely women outside, if you don't want to have a future with her, don't mess with them. This is not only responsible for her, but also for herself and her family.