What's it like to live together before marriage? What kind of real thoughts did the older leftover men say?

Some people say, "Marriage is more like a poem written in different colors." In these poems, there are love stories between men and women.

Since there are stories, of course, there will be many joys and sorrows, which is the inevitable product of love.

The love between a man and a woman may not be as happy as it seems, because it is not enough for two people to have love, but also need to run in each other's personalities. However, if two people are too strong, they can't get along with each other anyway.

In order to better adapt to each other before marriage, many men and women now advocate cohabitation before marriage.

What's it like to live together before marriage? The following four men spoke their true thoughts.

1

Mr. Xiao, 39: "I am very happy and excited. I want to be good to her all my life. "

Mr. Xiao said that he was very happy and excited to live with his girlfriend before marriage.

Because the family environment is very general, although I work hard, I still can't afford a house, so I gradually become an older man, because no woman is very suitable for me and suffers together.

Now that I have finally found the other half, I am full of expectations for a new life in the face of the coming world of two people.

And Mr. Xiao also secretly vowed in his heart that he must treat her for a lifetime. A woman who is willing to endure hardships with herself is worthy of her love.

2

37-year-old Mr. Feng: "I don't feel anything, because we can't call each other love."

Mr. Feng said that he had no feelings about living with his girlfriend. Because both of them are older young people, they met at home through blind date and lived together in less than three months.

At this time, the two people are strangers to each other, let alone love, just because of age, so they are barely together. Cohabitation life is dull, and both of them are trying to get used to each other and prepare for their future life together.

In the future, two people may live like this all their lives, and so do many people around them. Love in TV plays is not suitable for real life.

three

Mr. Wang, 4 1 year old: "I feel very bad. She is a very strong woman."

Mr. Wang said that after living with his girlfriend, this feeling is very bad.

Because my girlfriend is a very strong woman, she can barely accept it when she is in love.

However, after cohabitation, two people need to live together for a long time, and this character of their girlfriend is beginning to make them unacceptable.

In life, no matter what, she never listens to my opinion and strongly demands that I must obey her in everything.

She never knew that men have self-esteem, so how can I live in her shadow willingly?

four

37-year-old Mr. Liu: "It feels ok. Although there are some quarrels occasionally, life is like this."

Mr. Liu said that when I live with my girlfriend, I feel ok, but in life, it's just some small quarrels.

But this kind of quarrel does not affect the feelings of two people, because when a contradiction occurs, there is a dispute on behalf of two people to communicate.

So although two people will quarrel, the more noisy they are, the deeper their feelings will be.