He Jiong talked about the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and admitted that mother-in-law had no obligation to like daughter-in-law. Why is it worthwhile for most women to ref

He Jiong talked about the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and admitted that mother-in-law had no obligation to like daughter-in-law. Why is it worthwhile for most women to reflect? How to be "forced" to eat meat by her mother-in-law during pregnancy has become a hot topic, which has triggered the topic of "getting along with her mother-in-law" among teenage compatriots. Among them, most people stand in He's team, laughing at his mother who is too strong, only caring about the children in He's belly, completely ignoring the feelings of his daughter-in-law, but few people understand the pain of the old people.

The reason why these comments are so one-sided is related to people's inherent concepts. Many netizens think that Liang Chao's mother is an incompetent mother-in-law, and her mother-in-law doesn't like her daughter-in-law. There is a general contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in China, so how to solve the big problem of "mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along"?

Now, please listen carefully. He Jiong rarely talked about getting along with her mother-in-law, bluntly saying that "the love of a daughter-in-law's mother-in-law should be the daughter-in-law's ability, not her mother-in-law's obligation." This sentence is worth thinking about by most women. From ancient times to the present, people have a great controversy about "mother-in-law" because everyone has their own opinions when expressing their opinions. The daughter-in-law blames her mother-in-law for being rigid, and her mother-in-law feels that her daughter-in-law does not understand her.

Listen, friends. In addition to the wonderful content of the whole film, the extended version also has many wonderful things. On that day, a female listener called to complain and admitted that her mother-in-law and she had very different ideas. Baby, I hope He Jiong, Nana and others can give her some advice. As the saying goes, "There is a generation gap every three years". There are an average of seven generation gaps between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. It's normal to have different ideas.

The person who listened to the recording said that the mother-in-law raised her children according to the concept of the older generation. Although unscientific, it will not have much impact on the baby. Therefore, both He Jiong and Nana advised her not to directly point out her mother-in-law's mistakes, but to have a good talk with her husband. This can effectively avoid the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and will not intensify the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

In order to give some useful suggestions to the audience, he finally asked her about her relationship with her mother-in-law. As the saying goes, "Wash your dirty linen in public." People with a little emotional intelligence will not speak ill of their mother-in-law in front of the whole country. But the listener obviously lacks emotional intelligence. She not only complained that "her mother-in-law doesn't like her very much", but also boasted that "her husband has always stood by her side".

Please put yourself in your shoes. If you are a mother-in-law, it will make you feel embarrassed to hear your daughter-in-law describe your relationship like this on the show. However, He Jiong was obviously aware of this problem, and finally she couldn't help saying something to the audience: "It can't be said that it is wrong for her mother-in-law to say that she doesn't like her daughter-in-law, because she has no obligation to love the most important woman in her son's life.

From the mother-in-law's point of view, the existence of a daughter-in-law has replaced her position in her son's heart in a certain sense, so the two have certain opposing significance. Therefore, the mother-in-law has no obligation to like her daughter-in-law. It depends on whether you have the ability to make her accept you.

I have to say that He Jiong is really a "life mentor", standing in an absolutely objective and fair position, rather than superficially judging who her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should give up. However, under the premise of family harmony, it is thought-provoking to find a fundamental solution to the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which is worthy of reflection from the perspective of women.

Finally, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not related by blood, but because they love a man and become family members, and they have the same goal. On the other hand, the wife and mother are the most important women in a person's life, not resentment. It's better to have a son in peace. The mother-in-law is not less but has a daughter.