Talk about the education of your children.

I have been playing the role of a housewife and talking about taking care of the children from the third month of pregnancy to returning to work when the children are weaned and almost one year old. Let me talk about the benefits of raising children by myself.

First, it is beneficial to prenatal education.

During pregnancy, great changes have taken place in people's body, and their diet, psychology and physiology are gradually not adapted to the original tense working environment. At this time, they should start preparing to change their roles and become mothers. The key point is to take good care of your health, and ensure a happy mood, good sleep, reasonable diet and fresh air every day. Although I am an older mother-to-be, I basically didn't have any discomfort such as cold, vomiting and diarrhea during pregnancy. All day, I thought about the fetus in my stomach and imagined her growing up. Reading, walking and sunbathing have become compulsory courses every day. My mother cooks for me in different ways to strengthen nutrition for the fetus.

Every time I go to the hospital for a routine check-up, I can't bear to look at my extraordinary weight until one day, I hear the strong heartbeat of the fetus. Oh, my God, what's that noise? It is like the most beautiful sound of nature, tapping my warm heart gently. A wonderful, exciting and gentle feeling filled my whole chest, and then great happiness surrounded me. Since then, my children have ranked first in my life.

Second, we can insist on breastfeeding.

Ten days before the expected date of delivery, I found that the fetal position turned to the head, feet and squatted there. In order to increase the insurance factor, I decided to have a caesarean section. The operation went well. Seeing my healthy daughter held in front of me, all my worries turned into deep love.

My daughter opened her mouth wide, instinctively approached me and took the first sip of colostrum. She is such a clever girl. She cries when she is hungry, cries when her diaper is dirty and uncomfortable, and sleeps sweetly when she is full and washed. Ling's father always stared at her, followed her during the day and watched her at night, for fear that the nurse might make mistakes or be abducted. As soon as Ling's father heard his daughter crying, he picked her up carefully. After drinking fish soup, the milk rose, but the little thing was obsessed with the bottle and refused to suck hard. Hungry and stubborn, she cried all night. I insisted on being hungry, resisted the pressure of my daughter, Lingling's father and Lingling's grandparents, and resolutely prohibited Lingling's father from making milk powder ... At 5: 30 in the morning, Lingling sighed deeply after spitting nipples several times, and finally sucked up the milk on both sides and slept quietly. With tears in my eyes, I looked at my dad who barely slept and was ready to go to work. I am glad that my insistence is right, and my daughter can breastfeed.

My daughter has a big appetite. She eats milk more than eight times a day, once every three hours on average. If children eat more, they will produce more milk. A breast pump will suck out two more tubes of milk every day, and the clothes are always dirty, which is unimaginable for working mothers. From four months, I changed my method to add complementary food to my daughter every day, patiently chopped vegetables into fine powder and cooked them, cooked fish and chicken into thick soup, fed her a spoonful, carefully observed the reaction, stopped as soon as something happened, and then continued to change to another one. You have a good appetite to have a good figure. If you have a good body, everything will be fine.

Third, it can create a tolerant and warm environment for children.

On sunny days, I carry Lingling out in the sun every day. When she is old, pushing with a car, Lingling always looks around with her eyes wide open. Every day, my daughter and I will wait by the roadside to pick up Ling's father from work, so that Ling can feel his warm hug and the happy laughter of our family of three. We never talk to Ling loudly or scold her. In those days, Ling hardly cried, and her intoxicating smile deeply intoxicated everyone. My daughter never left me. My daily task is to take her to play, sing to her and tell her stories. As long as she is happy, it doesn't matter whether I am tired or not. The child grows up healthily and is excellent in every physical examination, so she is called a fat girl. What will happen if I can't feed her wholeheartedly? At the age of ten and a half months, after a painful weaning, Ling began a new milestone in her life.

Now ling has delicate feelings, stable emotions, flexible mind, love and strong adaptability to the environment. Although I spend most of my time with my grandparents, my favorite is my mother and father. The strong feelings between father and daughter and the happiness established since childhood will always affect her, reassure her and make her happy.

Now, I personally think that it is an ideal arrangement to take the children to wean themselves, which is very beneficial to the growth of children. I can do my own thing without worrying about her all the time.