Being a mother for the first time and staying up late every day, how do you get through this?

How did I survive being a mother for the first time and staying up late every day? As a mother of a second child, I want to say that I survived.

I took care of my eldest child by myself at that time. My eldest son had difficulty falling asleep. He slept very well while being held in his arms. As soon as he was put down, he started crying. Sometimes I had no choice but to hold him to sleep, but it was so painful for me. Now that you are a mother, hold her to sleep for a while at night. If you feel that she is fast asleep, put her down quickly. If she cries for a while, pick her up again. This will happen many times a night.

The child’s father disliked the child’s noisy behavior and he couldn’t sleep well. He lost his temper and went to sleep in another bedroom. Because he still has to go to work during the day, I feel that I cannot delay his rest. Even though I feel resentful, I can only do this. Facts have proved that men cannot be spoiled. The more you don't let him know your hard work and the more you don't let him do anything, the more he will find it easy for you to take care of your children at home. Therefore, I would like to remind all mothers that their husbands must be more involved in raising their children.

If your child is sick, two or three hours of sleep a night is fine. The child's father still didn't participate, so I had to resist on my own.

So after I gave birth to my second child, I definitely couldn’t stay like this. When the father comes back from get off work, he will take care of the child. If the child doesn’t sleep and I am too sleepy, he will coax the child.

So women, the child is not yours alone, the other half of the family also has to share it, so don’t go through it alone.

My daughter is the kind of child who loves to cry and fuss. She even slept upside down for a while. My mother-in-law and my husband and I took turns on duty. Usually, I would be on duty in the early morning and my husband and mother-in-law would be on duty in the late night. When I eat milk powder, I have to get up six or seven times a night to make milk powder, so I don’t have time to sleep. Now that I think about it, thanks to my mother-in-law, I really don’t know how I would have spent my time otherwise. Therefore, you should also take a nap when your child is sleeping, otherwise you will lose energy and your body will be damaged.

That’s right! There is no way, so mothers are great. From the beginning of giving birth to a new life, they basically cannot eat or sleep well. Even walking, they need someone to accompany them. It is too difficult for themselves. Of course, the most difficult thing is the first month after giving birth to the baby.

In the first month, the baby has to eat more than an hour apart. Because his stomach is small, he will be hungry soon. As a result, the mother will definitely have to stay up late and cannot sleep well. This is also true for others. You can’t replace it, you can only endure it yourself! !

During the confinement period, remember to rest when you have time, don’t worry about anything else, and don’t get angry. Breastfeeding will come back easily, so spend the confinement with peace of mind. Because of your body structure, you are particularly prone to anxiety after giving birth, and you will slowly get better. Okay, after the confinement period, study hard to be a qualified mother and feed your baby scientifically.

When the baby sleeps, I sleep with him. She wakes up, I wake up. This will ensure you have enough energy to take care of your baby.

Just bear with it and take your time. It will get better after the age of three. This is how the yellow-faced woman got through. [Face covering]

It would be much easier if someone helped me. If I were on my own 24 hours a day, I would really collapse!

If it really doesn’t work, you can ask someone to take care of it. As long as you are willing to spend money, there is nothing you can't do.

My mother is not willing to let me stay up late, so she takes care of my daughter during my confinement. After I am out of confinement, my mother will take care of my daughter for one week, and my mother-in-law will take care of her for another week. I will also follow her at night. They slept until my daughter went to kindergarten... Sometimes I think about the many benefits of being close to my husband's family

I didn't fall asleep for a second

My husband went to stay up< /p>

This is how all mothers come to be. It’s normal for a child to cry and fuss. Then I have to get up in the middle of the night to breastfeed, which is not easy for a mother. But in a few months, when he will smile at you, make trouble with you and play with you, you will feel that everything is worth it. This is just a process in your life. When you think about it in the future, you will feel full of sweetness, so don’t complain or sigh. Watching him grow up day by day, you will be a happy and great mother.

You have to make good wine, I didn’t sleep well before the period