What can't you say to your colleagues in the workplace?

What can't you say to your colleagues in the workplace? Chatting together is inevitable, but colleagues, unlike friends, can talk about everything. The following three sentences must not be told to colleagues.

First of all, talk about the company and leaders.

You can't tell your colleagues about the company and the leaders. There are no friends in the workplace, only interests, and people are separated. Maybe he betrayed you that day, ran to the leader and stabbed you in the back.

This is the case with Xiao Du, who is a little dissatisfied with the management of the leaders. He told one of his better colleagues that there was no problem when there was no interest dispute. On one occasion, the two of them wanted to compete for the position of a director. Obviously, Xiao Du had a better chance of winning and stronger ability, but in the end he lost the election. Later, it was discovered that a colleague ran to the leader with the recording of Xiao Du's usual speech and complained that Xiao Du had always had great opinions on the company and called to embellish it.

Second, talk about a colleague.

Although it is said that whoever does not talk behind people's backs will not talk behind people's backs. But we still try not to talk about others, especially colleagues. There is no airtight wall in the world. It's okay for you to say nice things about others. If you say something bad, you will be in trouble.

In Xiao Zhang's company, there is a person with poor personal quality, that is, Xiao Chen. In fact, everyone in the company knows it, but they just don't say it. Xiao Wang is not so eye-catching Once, when he was talking to someone else, he happened to be heard by Xiao Chen. Since then, the two have made enemies.

Third, the job-hopping thing.

In the workplace, it is normal to be unhappy in one company, change a company and change an environment. However, don't tell any colleagues before jumping ship. If you say it, it may reach the ears of the leaders. When the leader knows that you want to jump ship, it will naturally be different for you. If only I could jump ship immediately. If you haven't found your next home, it will be embarrassing.

Xiao Li is planning in an advertising company. She felt that there was little room for development, so she wanted to jump ship. I once said this idea when I was chatting with my colleagues. As a result, within two days, the whole company knew about it, including the leaders. Since then, leaders naturally dare not reuse Xiao Li, and Xiao Li has not found a new home. Finally, he became embarrassed in the company, so he had to go to naked resignation and look for a new job. Fourth, you can't tell lies. This is called lying. I am most afraid that lying will become a habit, and I don't even realize it.

Fifth, don't say anything that hurts others. Sometimes at the expense of others, sometimes at the expense of others. The harm of language to people is temporary, but the harm to a person's personality is permanent.

Sixth, if you complain, you can't say it. People often complain and resent their supervisors and colleagues when they are dissatisfied. You often complain, and when others hear you, you play gossip as an excuse, and finally you have to bear the consequences.

Seventh, you can't say anything when you are angry. Because what people say when they are angry is often ugly, you should keep calm and don't say anything casually at this time.

Eighth, you can't talk when you are tired. Some people often talk about what they like to talk about. In fact, life should be encouraged by others, even if no one cheers for me, I should encourage myself. I don't encourage my ambition, but if I say something disheartened, I will be intoxicated with myself for a long time.