How to chat with a girl I just met?

1. Observe the type of girl. When you first come into contact with a strange girl, and you don’t know the girl’s preferences at this time, you have to look at your own eyesight and analyze what kind of girl you are chatting with. Girls, you can start with the girl's appearance. If she is cute, you can talk about some loli topics. If she looks cold, then talk about some meaningful topics. 2. Gradually analyze the girl's preferences. When chatting with a girl, you must start from the shallower to the deeper. You can have a couple at the beginning, and then after chatting for a few words, you can pay more attention to the girl's expression. If her reaction is not very enthusiastic, it means that you are talking about the topic. It doesn't appeal to her, so you should consider changing the topic at this time. 3. Try not to inquire about a girl’s private affairs. When chatting for the first time, try not to inquire about a girl’s private affairs. Women are very sensitive. You may offend her with just one word, especially in private life and emotional aspects. If you ask around, girls will think you are stingy and gossipy, and they will immediately dislike you. 4. Don’t pretend to understand when you’re chatting with girls. It’s taboo to pretend to understand when chatting with girls. Except for some little girls, don’t talk too much. Girls with a little bit of brains will immediately think that you are not a pragmatic man. The charm of a man is reflected in In action, not in bragging. People who brag about you will find you boring as well as in sex. How to chat with a girl you just met 1. The opening statement is very important! A good opening statement can make the girl interested in you and then have the opportunity to get to know you. Just imagine, with a bad opening statement, the girl will have no interest at all and will ignore you. Like some of the opening remarks we often see, such as hello, may I know you, etc., put yourself in someone else’s shoes, if you were a girl who was often approached, would you be interested in such an approach? So let’s talk about it Had to come up with some special opening line. 2. What is a good opening statement? The most important thing is to arouse the girl's interest. The opening statement can be in the form of a question. For example, observe the girl's profile picture, look for special features in her hair, clothes, etc., and ask questions to the girl. You can also start with the information provided by the girl, such as age, hobbies, etc. If the girl has the same hobbies as you, you can definitely use it to ask questions. Finally, you can also use exaggerated methods to praise the girl. For example, your eyes are so bright, I seem to see two bright moons. 3. After you successfully attract a girl, you will officially start chatting with her. Chatting, the so-called day, is life, chatting is talking about one's own life. The chat process can be roughly divided into three stages: beginning, warming up, and deepening. 4. You and the girl have just met and are not very familiar with each other. The chat at this time is mainly about some interesting things in your life. Present the story to the girl in a humorous tone, so that the girl feels that you are an interesting person. How to chat with a girl you just met 2 1. Chatting time 1. Don’t send messages too frequently when you’ve just met. Girls you’ve just met are not very familiar with each other yet. It’s good to be able to add them as friends, so we have to be knowledgeable and don’t text too frequently. If you want to chat with the other person, try to get to know the girl first through methods such as Moments. 2. Select the chat time based on the other party’s circle of friends. Chat with the girl when the other party is free to get a reply. After all, girls don’t like to be disturbed when they are at work or doing things, so how do you know when the other party is? Are you free? First, from 8 pm to 11 pm, this time period is when women are more free; second, according to the time when girls post in Moments, girls will definitely retouch pictures when uploading pictures in Moments. This time period is also You can chat with girls. 3. How long should you chat each time (1) When chatting with a girl you just met, pay attention to the chatting time and don’t chat too long. That will make you lose the sense of mystery in front of the girl and she will have no desire to explore you; ( 2) Take the initiative to end the chat before the break time, which is a sign of carefulness; (3) When you don’t know what to send, you should also end the topic in time, so as not to leave you speechless during the chat. 2. Chat topics When chatting with girls, of course, you should choose topics that girls are more interested in and understand. Don’t let the chat become one person talking. We can choose topics based on the other party’s circle of friends. For example, if a girl has a pet, you can Tell me about how well-behaved your pets are. Girls will usually tell about their own pets. ***Same friends, places you have been to, etc. can all be used as topics to chat with girls.

3. What should you not talk about when chatting with a girl you just met? 1. Emotions: When chatting with a girl you just met, be careful not to talk about emotional matters, such as your ex or the other person’s relationship history, etc. This will make the girl dislike you. 2. Too specific issues, such as a girl’s job, salary, and family issues, can be discussed but not too deep. After all, you have just met and you are not her boyfriend yet. 3. Topics full of negative energy If you always complain about negative energy in work and life when chatting with a girl you have just met, it will make the girl think that you are a person who only knows how to complain and has no enterprising spirit. How to Chat with a Girl You Just Met 3 Tips for Chatting with Strange Girls 1. When chatting with a girl you just met, don’t expose your feelings too early! ! ! Otherwise something will definitely go wrong (trust me, it won’t be wrong), like a girl suddenly appearing and saying she wants to marry you. . . The same goes for love, don't rush to say it, otherwise it will scare people away. 2. The chatting process must be relaxed and avoid feeling pressured! Say no to question-and-answer conversations! Chatting is not for you to check your household registration! But we still need to understand some aspects of girls, especially these four aspects: consumption situation, diet situation, hobbies, and life focus; but what should we do? Let me give you an example (for example, ask her where she is from) Group A Me: Hi! You’re a pretty girl with a beautiful smile. Your accent sounds like you’re from Chongqing in the south. Group B Me: Hi, are you from Chongqing? Since you are a girl, which question would you like to answer? It’s obvious (Group A). ??Group A’s answers, which turn questions into declarative sentences, are polite and appear to have high emotional intelligence, which will make her like you more! Tips for Chatting with Strange Girls 3. What will be the first impression a girl will have of you? (Question from a friend) Good looks? character? Or internal? The answer is not unique. Every girl has her own unique aesthetics and vision. However, most girls still look at the appearance first. When they meet for the first time or encounter by chance, which girl is willing to be with a sloppy-looking boy? How about chatting and striking up a conversation together? A boy’s appearance, clothing, hairstyle, height, etc., these are the first things they see. This is also a must-have to attract girls. 4. Chasing girls does not rely on your pursuit of "crazy behavior". The most important thing is to rely on the attraction of your own charm and your own value. (So ??do less useless work and play less games) Read more books! ! ! Arm your poor mind, you must have what you can do! Improving your own value is the hard way! Only by attracting girls can you gain the initiative, understand? OK 5. When you are having fun chatting with a girl, be careful! ! ! The atmosphere at this time is very good. If you think you are not very good at talking to girls, I suggest you stop chatting from that moment on. Why? Don't worry, listen to me, let this moment stop, it will keep the pleasant atmosphere in her heart, find an opportunity to go offline, for example, I am cooking now, I am driving, I am going to work soon . . . . . . . A wonderful busy green proves that your life is fulfilling and stylish!