Speak in English about how to politely refuse someone’s confession.

1. Ive just gotten out of a bad relationship and I dont eone better. (You can definitely find a better one.), or She doesnt deserve you. (She doesnt deserve you at all. )

You deserve it! is often used in daily conversations. This sentence means that you deserve it, which means you deserve it and you deserve it. For example, if there is someone who loves to play two different things, but ends up being dumped by two women at the same time, you can say to this person that you deserve it.

3. We don’t match each other. < /p>

We two are not worthy.

Different from the previous sentence I dont deserve me. (I don’t deserve you), We dont match each other. refers to the two of us not worthy. In addition to being a verb, the word Match can also be used as a noun. For example, if you want to say that two people match well, you can say You are a perfect match.

Match can also be used in terms of clothing. For example, Your clothes don't match. It means that the two clothes don't match (for example, red clothes with green pants, etc.).

4. He is not my type.

He is not my type.

Girls always comment on the boys around them when they get together. He is not my type. is a commonly used sentence, which means that he is not suitable for me. / He's not the type I want.

You don’t attract me.

Im not attracted to you. This sentence is often heard on TV or in movies. It means that you are not attracted to me, that is, I dont like you. This sentence is a more euphemistic way of saying it.

I don't like you. It sounds very direct and harsh. If someone confesses to you, but you are not interested in him, you might as well say politely: "I am not attracted to you, but we still can" be friends. (You are not attracted to me, but we can still be friends.)

6. Youre a great guy/girl, but Im just too busy to pursue a serious relationship right now.

You are a great man/woman, but I am too busy to have time for a stable relationship right now.

7. Im flattered that you asked, but Im not ready to start a relationship right now.

I am flattered that you confessed to me, but I am not ready to start a relationship right now.

8. I'm still hung up over my previous relationship, and Id rather us just be friends.

I still can't let go of my previous relationship, and I hope we can just be friends. Sentences for tactfully refusing to express love

1. You can find someone better than me!

2. The coldest one: I think we are not suitable for being together, let’s just be friends !

3. It’s not that I don’t understand anything. I see everything you do and remember it in my heart.

4. I already have someone I like!

5. Look! The plane is gone!

6. I have always regarded you as my brother or Brother!

7. I hate you. I feel sick when I see you.

8. The saddest thing: I’m sorry, I’m already married!

9. Please stay away from me, do you know how much psychological damage you have done to me? You It makes me despair of all the boys in the world! Don’t bother me anymore!

10. I also hope you work harder and don’t give up on yourself. One day you will get your own happiness!

11. The most tactful: Sorry, I am not the cup of tea you asked for!

12. The most innocent: In my heart you are like a sister!

13 , Do you know how wretched you are? I'm really sorry that I can't eat when I see you, so please don't appear in my sight again.

14. I really don’t like you, and it’s useless no matter what you say. How can you understand what I mean? I just don't have feelings for you.

15. You are very good, but I can’t accept it.

16. I feel your sincerity, thank you for your sincerity.

17. I am not worthy of your liking. There is a better person waiting for you.

18. It’s not that I don’t understand everything. I see everything you do and remember it in my heart. I feel your sincerity, thank you for your sincerity. Thank you also for your respect for me and your favor for me. You are very good, but I cannot accept it, and feelings cannot be forced.

19. You are a good person and you will find someone better.

20. You are not my type.

21. Understand each other too little.

21. I hate you. I hate you when I see you.

22. I really don’t like you, and it’s useless no matter what you say. How can you understand what I mean? I just don't have feelings for you.

23 Don’t give me too much affection. What can I use to repay your emotional debt? It’s the heaviest debt. I can’t repay you. How can I forget to give me a smile? It’s enough, like a thin glass of wine, like a gentle breeze. A wisp of this is the most touching declaration, as warm and elegant as spring

24. I feel your sincerity, thank you for your sincerity.

25. I think we are more suitable to be friends!

26. I have always regarded you as an older brother or younger brother.

27. I already have someone I like.

28. I also hope that you will work harder and don’t give up on yourself. One day you will get your own happiness!

29. Thank you for your respect for me. Thank you for your kindness to me. favor.

30. The most innocent: In my heart you are like a sister. Summary of sentences that gently and tactfully reject others' confessions

Sentences that gently and tactfully reject others' confessions Part 1

1. You are a good person, and you will find a better one.

2. I don’t want to be friends anymore.

3. I think I am really not suitable for you. (I don’t like you at all)

4. “Do you think I like you?” “Like” “Guess again”

5. I don’t want to fall in love because it’s too difficult Please like someone else

6. I am a swan who doesn’t like lazy toads, okay?

7. I think your gentleness is more suitable for other girls.

8. Really?

9. No feeling! Be thorough.

10. I don’t want to think about love now. Our main task now is to study.

11. I don’t want to think about personal issues yet, I want to work hard for a few years.

12. I still want to become excellent before considering other issues.

13. You think I am excellent, and I hope you can be with someone who is a hundred times better than me.

14. I have decided long ago that I will not date anyone.

15. I like you, but my feelings for you are not the kind of feelings between lovers.

16. I am not suitable to be a lover.

17. You are so cute. (You are so naive) Sentences for gently and tactfully rejecting others' confessions Part 2

18. Don't worry, I can be friends first.

19. A man rejects a woman: I don’t like women; a woman rejects a man: I don’t like men.

20. I have always regarded you as an older brother or younger brother.

21. It would be better if we met earlier. (It can make you realize it earlier)

22. I don’t like you. I hope you can find the happiness that truly belongs to you. I hope you can meet a very good person who is better than me and who also likes you< /p>

23. Sorry, I have a toothache today, so we are not suitable.

24. The connection between childhood sweethearts, the innocence of childhood sweethearts, the tender care of a confidante, the sweet words of an infatuated lover, intimacy My lover’s unrepentant devotion and all the love guarantees are what I want to give you in my past and present lives.

25. I think I need a little more space.

26. I once wanted to join hands with my son, but we didn’t expect that we would end up together. We spent time together, and we will never mention it again.

27. I am used to a life without love. It was before and it will be in the future.

28. Why do you like me? I am neither good nor good. You are brave and should be with a better person.

29. I know your heart and only hate it. I have no intention, I hope you can respect yourself, and you will be destined to meet in the future.

30. Our ages are not a good match.

31. You like me and I like others, so you can only like others.

32. Reason for rejection: Silence, not speaking.

33. Wow, you have such good taste, haha, but I don’t have feelings for you yet, so I’ll keep it for now, okay?

34. Sometimes friends are closer than lovers, right? Part 3 of gentle and tactful sentences for rejecting other people’s confessions

35. We can’t be together because we have a different mother named China.

36. I don’t understand my feelings yet and don’t want to start a relationship carelessly.

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38. You are a really nice person.

39. I think there is real friendship between men and women.

40. You have met the standards of being my friend, but you do not meet the standards of my boyfriend.

41. You think I am excellent, and I hope you can be with someone who is a hundred times better than me.

42. I don’t think I can give you the kind of feeling you want. So maybe there really isn't a good fit between us.

43. I am very happy to be with you, but I have always regarded you as a friend.

44. You can find someone better than me!

45. Sorry, I actually have no intention of falling in love with anyone

46. I will find other stars, and you will have your moon.

47. You can’t give me what I want.

48. The saddest thing: I’m sorry, I’m already married!

49. I have always regarded you as my brother.

50. I think there is really pure friendship between men and women. (Yes, that’s right, we can only have pure friendship between you and I) Reject others’ words politely

Reject others’ words politely

1. Our ages are not a good match .

(When I first saw you, I knew you were from the Jurassic Period)

2. I have always regarded you as my brother. (I only need your care, not your love)

3. Try to agree first. This may sound contradictory, but you can think of it as a psychological war. You can agree to the request (assuming your situation is that you want to take the job but don't have enough time on hand), and then do one of the following two things:

4. I lost my love~~

5. Understand the promises you have made. In order to know when it’s time to say no, you need to understand what jobs you’ve already taken on. You'll want to create a running list of all your current projects and tasks, as well as a to-do list for any activities you have within a week or so that don't fall into those projects. With these two full lists, you can decide whether the task at hand can be squeezed into it. Keep this list carefully and only add items to it when necessary.

6. No matter which one of the above two you choose, you do not reject them outright, but give the initiative back to their hands. Only say this when you really want the job but really can't get out of it. Saying it this way will help you solve the pressure brought by the initiative, so that you don't have to actually say the word "no".

7. Girls often use tactful text messages when rejecting love

8. If I have a chance, I will introduce a good girl to you~

9. You are a very nice person~ But I'm not suitable for you~

10. *Or you can say: Of course, but can you do x, y, z first, so that we can see whether this thing is feasible.

11. Take the lead. If you think someone is going to ask for something from you, you can tell them you're busy before they ask you for it. If you meet that person, you can speak up front and I need to let you know that my schedule is full this month, so let's not talk about any new plans for the day. This serves as a warning to the person who is about to ask for something from you, so they can later blame you for refusing their request.

12. It’s not your fault, it’s my own fault. (It’s your reason)

13. I’m happy to, but. Similar to the first method, this method shows that you are interested in the project, but you are unable to do anything because of your schedule or other commitments. If the project sounds really interesting, say something like: This sounds really great and I wish I could be a part of it. If possible, can you recommend some other good candidates or ideas? Some people actually think that this way of being rejected is not bad, at least you have helped him solve the problem.

14. Be polite, but firm. A common mistake many people make is being too nice or too indecisive. Although they may have rejected others, their rejection sounded a bit wavering. If you respond to others in this way, stronger people will come to pressure you until you nod in agreement. This is because they feel that the matter is still negotiable. room. So if you say no, you have to make it clear that you won't change your mind. But don't be rude, a simple no, there's really nothing I can do about it right now will suffice.

15. My life now is very complicated. (I don’t want to see you laughing and joking with other girls in the office all day long)

16. *You can say: No problem, but I have too many tasks now. Can you come back to me in a month or so? Unless I'm really capable of doing a great job, I won't be so sure.

17. I already have a boyfriend. (My male cat is cuter than you)

18. Procrastination. It is somewhat similar to the first method above. If you choose this method, you don't have to make a decision, nod or shake your head, but just let the person who comes to request you come back later. For example, you can say: My task schedule is full now, can you come back to me in two weeks? If the person is good, he will add to his memo that he will come back to you in two weeks. If this person wasn't honest, they would have forgotten about you. Sometimes if you procrastinate twice in a row, the person will give up. Of course, it is not good to procrastinate one thing all the time. This will make others think that there is something wrong with your character.

Generally, after two delays, you should give a clear answer when someone asks you for the third time.

19. Never say sorry. You still have to cherish your time. If you apologize, it will seem like you are apologizing for doing something wrong. In this way, your reason for refusing will not seem sufficient. In this situation, it is very tempting to say the three words "I'm sorry". We often say "I'm sorry," but or I wish I could help you, but I'm sorry, I can't help you. In this case, it's because we feel uncomfortable after rejecting someone else's request. But, again, the problem is that you're sending the wrong message to others. Looking back at Article 1 can give you some help.

20. I don’t want to date my colleagues. (Even if you are outside the solar system, I will not date you)

21. Cherish your time. One reason many people find it difficult to say no is that they (perhaps subconsciously) feel that their time is less valuable than others. For example, if someone asks you to do something they can easily do themselves, and you agree, it is equivalent to admitting that their time is more valuable than yours. Otherwise, why would you do it for them? Therefore, you must cherish your own time. Your time is limited and may be your most valuable asset. Learn to tell others how much you cherish your time by rejecting things that do not require you to deal with them.

22. Tell him that you are excellent but unfortunately I don’t like men and I am gay

23. There is a method that can help you deal with this kind of problem and eliminate it. Such troubles. This is the broken record method created by Dr. Mandel. This method tells you that as long as you are like a broken record, repeating the same sound over and over again.

24. Three tips for you: Tip 1: Listen first, then talk. When your colleagues make requests to you, they usually have some troubles or worries in their minds, worrying whether you will immediately If you refuse, you are worried about whether you will look down on him. Therefore, before you decide to refuse, you must first listen to what he has to say. A better way is to ask the other person to explain his situation and needs more clearly, so that you can know how to help him. Then show him that you understand his difficulty and would do the same if you were in a different place. Listening can help the other person feel respected first, and when you express your refusal tactfully, you can avoid hurting his feelings or making people think you are coping. If your rejection is due to overload, listening can allow you to clearly define whether the other person's request is part of your job and whether it is included in your current focus. Perhaps after listening carefully to his opinions, you will find that assisting him will help improve your work ability and experience. At this time, while taking into account the current work principle, sacrificing a little of your leisure time to assist the other party will definitely be helpful to your career. Another benefit of listening is that even if you reject him, you can suggest how to get appropriate support based on his situation. If you can put forward effective suggestions or alternatives, the other party will also be grateful to you. Even finding more appropriate support under your guidance will get twice the result with half the effort. Tip 2: Say no gently and firmly When you have listened carefully to your colleague's request and think you should refuse, your attitude of saying no must be gentle but firm. It's like a pill, but it's sugar-coated on the outside to make it easier for people to take it. Likewise, expressing rejection tactfully is easier to accept than saying no directly. For example, when the other party's request is inconsistent with company or department regulations, you should express your work authority tactfully to let the other party know, and hint that if you help him, he will go beyond the scope of his work and violate the company's policies. relevant regulations. Under the premise that your work schedule is full and you can't help, you should let him know the order of his work and hint that if you help him, it will delay your ongoing work and have a greater impact on the company and yourself. Generally speaking, when your colleagues hear what you say, they will give up and think of other solutions. Tip 3: Be more caring and flexible. In addition to making alternative suggestions when rejecting, you should also take the initiative to care about the other person's situation after a period of time. Sometimes rejection is a long process, and the other party will make the same request from time to time. If you can change your passive attitude into proactive caring for the other person and let the other person understand your difficulties and position, you can reduce the embarrassment and impact of rejection. When the situation of both parties improves, it will be possible to meet the other party's requirements.

For business personnel, such as insurance companies, this proactive skill is even more important when they are unable to comply with customer requests.