What does your father do? Have you had any influence from him after graduation?

This weekend is Father’s Day. When I mention my father, I have mixed feelings. My father is a farmer who doesn’t like farming. He relies on his hard work to drive a tractor to pull sand and drive a truck to run long distances. , I started from scratch and held up the sky. You must know that the sand in the tractor bucket is shoveled with one shovel. Driving a truck for a long distance means not sleeping all night long. Whenever my father is tired and sleepy, , when I think of my young self, my mother who took care of the family inside and out, and my disabled grandparents, I grit my teeth and persevere.

As time passed slowly, I grew up and had a younger sister in the family. Later, due to an accident, I lost all my savings and my father’s driver’s license was temporarily suspended. During this period, My father was hit hard and was in a trance. As soon as my father went out, I hugged my young sister and followed him, for fear that my father would not be able to think about it.

My father’s spirit is still very strong. Thinking that I have not yet married and my sister has not grown up, he picked up the tractor handle and started his old business again, driving a tractor to deliver sand and selling cement. . Gradually, the conditions at home became better and better. When I was eighteen years old, my father asked someone to find connections to send me to the army and let me become a soldier. I heard from my mother that after I left the army, my father was very happy and very energetic in his work.

Later, I retired from the army after five years in the army. My father especially blamed me and wanted me to stay in the army. Every time I talked about this, I regretted it. I couldn’t leave my beloved army. He said that his father was very disappointed. I had to work after I returned home. My father asked someone to find me a job in a state-owned enterprise, but the work address was in another place. So I discussed with my partner and my parents to resign and go back to my hometown to work, so that I could take care of everything after marriage. I found all the jobs I could find online when I returned to my hometown.

In short, I have always been shrouded in my father's aura since I was a child. My father has always been unknown to me and my sister, and he has given without expecting anything in return. When I was young, I didn't understand what a father's love means, but now I know , no matter when and where, the father has always been the supporter of his children, and he has always been so determined and powerful.

Using this platform, I wish all fathers in the world good health and happiness.

My father was an ordinary munitions factory worker. When I was in the first grade of junior high school, my father was laid off. I am a single-parent family. My mother died of a heart attack in the second grade. My father has always taken care of me.

After my father was laid off, he worked everywhere, including as a crane worker in an iron factory, as a chef in a hotel, and as a gatekeeper in a parking lot. Since I was a child, I have known that my father is very tired and always working, but the family has never been rich. My father went to work, and I stayed at my grandparents' house. At that time, my father only taught me one thing, that is, if I want to change my destiny, I should study hard and go to college. Maybe it’s because of my family, but I became sensible quite early. I have been studying very hard, and my grades have always been very good. I did well in the college entrance examination, and I was admitted to Southern Medical University, which really changed my life. In Guangzhou, I saw the hustle and bustle of a real first-tier city. At the Medical University, my life was sublimated. Now, I have also opened my own company. Although I have not practiced medicine, I believe that the value of university education is not the major itself, but also allows you to cultivate your own life ideals and learning abilities, and it also allows you to know your own direction and realization. Dream method.

Returning to the main question, on the surface, I did not take advantage of my father. I did not attend tutoring classes when I was in school, and I did not have any connections through the back door after work.

However, it was my father who taught me that men should be brave enough to shoulder their responsibilities. It was also my father who taught me not to complain about life and to work hard to achieve my goals. For me, my father’s words and deeds are the most valuable asset in my life.

"Zhanguang" is not only about material life, but also about spiritual guidance and the formation of outlook on life and values. Thanks to my father for teaching me this. I was not very successful, but I am an independent and responsible person. I believe I will have a bright future.

Now that my father has really retired, he still has no time to spare. He is now working as a chef. He said that he feels comfortable when he has something to do, haha.

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Since I come from a rural area, everyone must know what my father’s profession is like.

However, my dad is the kind of person who has a bright head and knows how to deal with things. In addition, he is a carpenter. When he was young, due to changes in the family, he owed a lot of money to others. At that time, I originally The family was relatively wealthy, but everything was wiped out, so my parents had no choice but to go south to work.

Because my dad is a craftsman, he quickly entered the work of a Taiwanese company. Since he was relatively capable, he quickly became a supervisor. Although the salary was not very high, the life was relatively easy. Say it easily.

Later, due to some personal reasons (I won’t go into details here) and the debts were paid off, I returned home. Although the company wanted to keep my dad at that time, my dad still returned home resolutely. .

After returning home, due to my professional attributes, I began to trade raw materials, and I slowly started to get started. From the time I returned home, I have been engaged in this industry until now. It was also when I returned home that I Very big impact.

Originally, I was considered a left-behind child in those years, living with my grandparents, and my grades in elementary school were not good. It wasn’t until I entered junior high school and my parents came back that my grades gradually improved, and I am where I am today. my situation.

I don’t know what “Zhanguang” means here. The help to my career may be sideways. I can only talk about its impact on me here!

1. The impact on my grades

As mentioned above, because my parents came back from the south, I have parents who care about me, so my grades gradually improved when I was in junior high school. I got better, and until I entered graduate school, I was considered one of the students with the best grades in my grade.

Since my dad is engaged in the business of buying and selling raw materials, he is usually very busy, and I will help out during the winter and summer vacations. So after seeing my dad’s hardships, I made up my mind to study hard and repay my parents. , which invisibly promoted the improvement of my grades.

Without my acceptable grades, there would be no key universities, no recommended graduate students, and no mentors’ recommendations to enter state-owned enterprises.

2. Influence on my personality

Due to my father’s experience and the tiring work, my dad often teaches me to be down-to-earth and upright. Believe in the importance of hard work...

Through his words and deeds, as well as his continuous teachings, I have cultivated that I have to work hard in everything, do my best, develop a down-to-earth character, and develop a It has given me my current spirit of hard work and developed my spirit of seeking truth from facts.

At the same time, my father is a person who pays great attention to integrity. In business, only integrity can last long. Therefore, at work, including now that I have started my own business, I make friends, discuss business, and do things in the spirit of integrity. I believe that integrity is the foundation for my life.

Due to my rural background and the influence of my father, I have developed a hard-working spirit and have developed the mentality that only by giving in advance will I be rewarded. When I cooperate with others now, it is all based on my core values. It is with these spirits in mind.

For me, my father’s influence on me may be greater than his substantial help in my work, but these influences are the wealth of my life and I will cherish them.

My father is an ordinary cement worker. I feel that it is the hardest job among all types of work. Fortunately, this job pays well. My mother has never worked much, so we rely on my father's income to support our family of four. I can be considered as benefiting from my father.

My dad has a bad habit of gambling. He often loses money before it is warmed up. This is really annoying. Sometimes the tuition fee is just scraped together. At that time, I felt that my father was particularly unmotivated.

When I think about it now, it’s like in some TV dramas now. The father gambles, and the kid who loses doesn’t get any tuition fees.

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My father used to be a carpenter, and now he is a landscaping contractor. Now I... don't fit in at all.

In fact, what parents do most importantly affects their children's growth, personality, work style, method of handling things, and attitude towards others. But if it is helpful for future work, then the second generation of officials and the second generation of rich people will certainly be helpful. Others are still at the starting line, but they have already won at the finish line.

Nowadays, there are still many ordinary people who think that the time of relying on their parents has passed. The life experience and social philosophy learned from their parents’ generation can help us work well. But parents cannot help us all our lives.

Don’t pay too much attention to what your parents do. There is still a big difference between your parents’ time and now.

My father is a farmer, and later he opened a small shop and barely allowed my brother and I to study until we graduated.

To be honest, he helped me study, and then he roasted me. He had no income when he was sick, and I had to bear the burden when my grandparents were sick. My parents were sick, and I had to bear the burden. I was very stressed, sometimes. I couldn't sleep at night, so I couldn't show it in front of them.

My mother was uneducated, favored boys over girls, and she wouldn’t be nice to me, but she wouldn’t say she was abusive either. My dad has a very bad temper since he got sick. He yells and scolds at every turn. Sometimes I feel wronged. But I have no choice but to comfort myself, be more open-minded, and work hard to make money.

My father is an inspector at the Second Automobile Works Corporation, checking the qualification of workpieces and controlling the quality of Dongfeng Company. I remember when I was a child, after school, I didn’t have time to go home for dinner, so I trotted all the way to my father’s factory. When we were eating in the restaurant, we were not very strict at that time. We set up a small hot pot, the kind that burns electricity, with circles of red filaments in the middle. There was a small pot on the shelf, and the hodgepodge was poured and the meal started instantly. Looking back on that time The hot pot doesn't have any Chongqing base, it's just Lao Ganma's mess, let alone, it's delicious.

After eating, Momoji said to his father: Dad, I’m going to school!

Go for it!

Can you give me some pocket money?

Dad generously took out 50 cents and spent it.

Not to mention how cool it is! Simple distribution, a pack of Tang Monk meat costs 10 cents, spicy chips cost 10 cents, ice pack costs 10 cents, and a 20 cents worth of stir candy. Oh my gosh! Instantly rich in aura.

After graduation, due to professional issues, I had nothing to do with my father’s work, and my father also retired! But there are still many disciples, and they must have helped a lot.

Want to do business, don’t want to go to work, every man’s dream is to make a lot of money. My father was against it.

I have made money, because the first pot of gold came too easily and smoothly. I let myself float. I felt that making money was so easy, and I started to work freely.

Smashed!

I owe a lot of debt and there is no way to repay it.

Asking my father for help, he is a worker at Dongfeng Company and has even retired! My father's motto is to walk upright and sit upright. I didn't make any extra money from work, and I didn't have much savings. They gave me 50,000 yuan.

In his eyes, 50,000 is a lot! This should solve a lot of problems! But did he know that 50,000 yuan is really nothing to me?

But this is the heaviest 50,000 yuan I have ever received. I saved it with my father and went to the bank to withdraw it.

I felt really uncomfortable when I got the money.

My father said: With such great ability, I have no money. Take it!

I sat in the car and turned up the music loudly, crying loudly. I had never cried so thoroughly in many years, and I felt my heart was in my throat.

At this age it’s time for me to be filial to my parents! What did I do?

I can't express my feelings, I can only say that those who understand understand, and those who don't understand, maybe you haven't really grown up yet.

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My father is over 50 this year and has worked many jobs. His family is from a rural area. Let’s talk about the work he does. He dropped out of school early. He went out to work early in the morning and then went out to work as a coal miner. There was no job at that time. He went south to work for a while. I heard that he once mentioned that he and a few friends swam across Hong Kong and were caught by the border guards in the middle of swimming. Then he learned The truck has been used to transport coal for more than 20 years. Now, something happened seven or eight years ago, and the family's savings were wiped out. Now facing unemployment, I increasingly feel my father's powerlessness. Maybe this is the helplessness of middle-aged people! ! ! Although there are emotions, we cannot always remember the past, and we still need to bear the burden of life and move forward. I really haven't had any exposure to the light. But it doesn't matter, you still have to do what you have to do, whether it's your father or yourself, just do your own thing. If you can get the honor, I hope you will not let down the expectations of your family. If you can't, you still have to work harder, and know that you have to endure more and more, and you still need to bear the burden and move forward!

My dad is a farmer. He raised me. After graduation, my dad gave me 300,000 yuan. I said it was too little and gave me another 500,000 yuan. He said he wanted to maintain his health and provide for his retirement. What should I do?

My father is a working man. I owe him a lot. He raised me up. I regard my father as a glorious and great man. He gave me the ticket to life.