Would you be angry if you were your sister and your brother played truant? Will you learn your lesson? Do you like to communicate with your brother's powerful sister or teacher?

Anger is certain ... I declare that I am a brother .. = = I have a sister ... I used to play truant ... I lie in front of the computer all day ... I will fight with my mother ... but I am much better now ... The following is the experience ... = =

If this happens to your brother, don't deny his behavior yet. For example, why do you keep playing like this until you die? .. this kind of words is the most useless. This is not only useless, but also causes his resistance. So we should take it step by step. So first you need to find a chance to talk to him. This is very important. He is playing truant. He is very happy psychologically. He is too lazy to listen to anything you say. Even if he seems to listen carefully, he will forget it later. So I usually choose to find clothes when I eat or when my sister is free. For example, before she takes a shower. Sometimes ... it is recommended to eat here ... although it is not good for your health ... = = But eating is the easiest time to talk ... and then what to say. Of course, you can't go straight to the point at the beginning. If you know some skills, say the same topic first. Such as animation, games and so on. Then tell me. A few days ago, I heard that you ........... actually ... Of course, it must be true before you dare to ask ... Don't make it up ... = = ... So generally speaking, he will feel wronged. Make excuses for yourself ... and then break down his excuses one by one ... Listen carefully to your brother's thoughts ... especially empathy. I like doing this very much ... I always think about my approach from my sister's point of view. So I often tell her .. OK. I can understand what you did. .......... put forward his own ideas. Don't swear ... there's a trick here, which is to vilify yourself ... which can be exaggerated. He said what he did in the past was worse than him ... but it won't be like this now. Then give reasons ... this is flattery in disguise ... in short, let him talk to you in a relaxed manner. Chat Violence can't solve any problems ... take his parents' future as the capital to speak ... in the final analysis. In short, he can touch wherever he is soft. When he is hard, he avoids talking or talks less. Say something funny when you see him frown ... It's no use saying it once or twice ... It's necessary to stick to it for a long time ... I will listen to you very much in the future ... Of course, you should also teach your parents to do this ... Otherwise, it will be tragic ... My sister only listens to me now, ... not my parents. ...

By the way, I'll teach you an interesting thing ... When your brother wants something from you ... ask his purpose first ... then don't promise in a hurry ... Even if his purpose is no matter how good, don't promise casually ... To put it bluntly, it's a threat ... such as helping him do this ... He will wash the dishes for a few days later ... If he doesn't do it, don't promise ... The threatened condition is the best. Even if you really can't figure out what you want him to do, you should make it up ... This is to make him develop flexible habits ... to make him understand that he doesn't have what he wants ... Many bad habits stem from willfulness ... Over time, he will habitually tell you. He did you a favor ... you did him a favor ... it was very effective ... I tried it every time ... = =. Absolutely. Negotiations will take longer. If he still violates the contract, don't talk to him for the third time ... but it also shows your strength ... occasionally you should take the initiative to help him. For example, he sneaks out at night or buys something he likes secretly ... you must understand him. We have done this before. It's normal to have such a thing ... not to sue him or something ... talk to him. ..

I'll tell you a few fragments of my sister's life, and you will probably understand. ..

My sister likes to buy girls' love novels ... I'm a boy ... sometimes I can't stand the disgusting conversation between my mother-in-law and her mother-in-law ... so I basically don't read them ... but I'm still bored enough to borrow some from my sister ... I'll take a quick look. Of course, there are some good ones, and I will read them carefully ... so she and I will have more languages. ! ! So every time she buys a new book, I will tell my mother ... and then I will tell her. Dare you buy it? Such a poor book costs so much money. Do you think there is too much money? .. and then pestering her for a new book to read .. The latter is to enhance feelings .. = =

Besides, my sister scolded my mother for crying for a while. At dinner, I chatted with her about a game she was playing ... after a while, there was no topic. I said, I heard that you have become more and more domineering recently ... ) More man than me. What's wrong with mom today? Did you do it again? Sister said. @ # $%&; ^#@$%^*! @#$%^(&； * & amp$^#&； ^%@#$&； ^%$#@$&； ... I will find out where my mother has gone too far and where my sister has gone too far ... They are all eighty boards ... This kind of objective and fair comment can easily get into her ears ... She is a little angry ... Then I will change the topic and say something else ... Then I will tell him that you are XX years old this year ... I will not be XXXX when I am XX years old ... Then I will end the conversation with nonsense. ...

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