Belated love!

After reading your story, to be honest, my eyes are moist. It may not be how touching your description is, but I can understand how you feel now. I don't know where to start. Just tell my story.

I have known my girlfriend for almost a year, and I like her very much. She is an excellent girl, beautiful and excellent in all aspects. Many boys around her have pursued her, but she has never promised to talk to me. On the contrary, she is the most. She is also a little older than me. We have always been good friends, which is a very inclined feeling, but I know in my heart that I have another feeling for her, a sweet feeling. Good for everyone. Talking to everyone sometimes makes me feel a little unhappy, but I'm not her boyfriend. What can I say, but when I talk to her, I feel very happy. We can always talk about feelings together, even the previous emotional problems.

Is it similar to your situation? At one point, she began to hint at me, and suddenly she became close to me, even several of her good friends noticed, and asked me, how are we? At that time, I didn't know whether it was because I didn't feel it or because I was playing dumb, but I felt this happiness silently.

My experience may be more profound than yours. I'll tell you what happened later. During the time when she and I became close friends, we didn't meet for a long time because she was traveling, but every time I saw each other online on QQ, I would say hello. At that time, I was stupid and deliberately didn't say hello to her to see how she would react. As a result, she will take the initiative to come and talk to me. She wouldn't have done this before or with other boys. One day, we chatted very speculatively, very late. She opened her mouth first and said her favorite question, but didn't mention any details. Now that we are together, we are really happy. The happiness of developing from a good friend to a lover is really beyond the average blind date. There is a basis for mutual understanding and caring for feelings. If you get it, you will never forget that happiness.

Back to your business, I think you should try not to think too much from your own point of view. You may not have seen each other for a long time, but if you have feelings, you should not disappear so soon. In your opinion, she didn't talk to you, but in her opinion, you didn't talk to her either. If she says she has a crush on you, she will feel very uncomfortable and tangled at this time. A possible good relationship should not disappear without the knowledge of both parties.

Many of them are related to personality. Maybe yours is not good at expressing emotions. She wants you to talk. Sometimes she won't take the initiative to speak unless she is sure whether it is really possible. As you said, she is very serious and afraid of losing the feelings between you. Always thinking of good things. What makes you guess what she thinks? At least I believe that if there is love, it will last for a long time, not to mention only one year.

I can see that you really love her, just like being with her and feeling helpless. I also knew at that time. Sometimes I cry when I think about it, and I feel very annoyed. Since you want to solve this matter now, don't make a decision that you will regret for the rest of your life. Ask her out to dinner at the right place and time, and make it clear that you don't have to have fancy things. True feelings often touch a person's heart the most. You still have to rely on yourself. After all, you know her better than anyone. I can discuss it with you. Generally speaking, you should believe in yourself and her. Look, brother, did I succeed, too? Ha ha.

Let me know your progress, will you? I wish you success ~