My son is a sophomore, but he still can't let go of the game. How many hours does he play every day?

My son is a sophomore, but he still can't let go of the game. How many hours does he play every day?

Children's excessive obsession with games is mostly because they lack a sense of accomplishment in real life and gradually accumulate an impregnable inferiority and timidity; In the illusion of the game, it just gives the child a sense of accomplishment that can't be given in reality and makes him feel free. In the process of constantly upgrading the monster, he satisfied his sense of accomplishment. In reality, more affirmation and encouragement, more performance and less criticism are used to gain a sense of accomplishment and guide the development of learning.

To find out the reasons for being tired of learning, we must keep our emotions and not say anything that hurts our children. Talk with children seriously and communicate sincerely, instead of beating and scolding them blindly, and find out the root of infatuation with games and weariness of learning from their hearts. What do children seek in games? What is his role in the game? What kind of fun is he looking for in the illusory world?

It is very important to criticize more or less in senior two. At this time, children are addicted to games and tired of learning. We must find out the reason before we can prescribe the right medicine. Generally speaking, learning motivation is a psychological motivation to promote teenagers to study for a certain purpose, which is manifested in the form of learning ambition, desire or interest, and plays a role in promoting learning. The key reason why many primary and secondary school students are tired of learning is that their learning motivation is damaged, thus giving up learning completely.

Create a warm family environment for children With the growth of high school students, their sense of independence is getting stronger and stronger, and they need to have their own way of doing things and don't want to be controlled too much. Some parents do everything for their children's protection, so that children's desire for independence and parents' improper kindness and care will lead to ideological conflicts and contradictions. Maybe some parents seldom talk to their children because of their busy work, and just make some strict rules to restrain their children's behavior. Therefore, as children, high school students do not have a harmonious and warm family environment, lack communication with their parents, and are prone to rebellious psychology and behavior.