Mother-in-law wants a grandson, how to deal with it, and prepare to have a second child?

The first thing you need to do is to be mentally prepared.

Whether it is necessary to have a second child depends on both husband and wife's understanding of the concept of fertility and their willingness to have children if policy conditions permit. "Mother-in-law wants grandchildren" is just the wish of mother-in-law, not the wish of your husband and wife. Besides, "mother-in-law wants grandchildren", can you guarantee that she can have children?

For a family, giving birth to a child is naturally a big event. As a rational couple, we should seriously consider the family situation and face up to the current situation before giving birth to a second child, including family economy, age conditions, marital feelings, working conditions, marital health, parenting environment and so on. Only by considering the above situation clearly, and then making a choice between having children and not having children, is this the "right way". What did you say?/Sorry?

I hope my answer can help you.