I'm LES, a lesbian. We have lived together for more than four years, but my family has no choice but to let us be together. She is really kind to me and loves me very much.

First of all, I want to congratulate you on finding your true love. After four years of ups and downs, I envy your love, your luck and your courage. To tell the truth, there are many homosexuals in China now, but many people don't have the courage to face the reality and live in their own fears. They are always afraid of jokes, family members' incomprehension and social satire. But why are friends miserable? We don't choose to be aboveboard. I hope your lover can take the first psychological step, let people around you know your feelings, let people around you know that your feelings are healthy, and let people around you recognize that your marriage is a matter of two people. Life is a matter for a group of people. Love dominates life and affects love. What you lack in your heart is only 1 mm courage, brave love and vigorous love. Find it. Have a serious talk with your family at an appropriate time. Remember: the theme of chatting is not marriage, but future happiness, waiting for good news from you and your lover. Don't wait until you are old to regret your lack of courage. Don't wait to regret taking 99 steps. There are no men and women who sing wine songs on the road to happiness. Finally, the wolves in the north. These are all jokes. It's stressful, isn't it? Life goes by day, so there is nothing I can't get through. I am on your side. {PS: I also have a provocation. Why don't you care so much about other people's feelings? Do you love her? are you in love with her? Did you use it? If you love her, she means everything to you. "Tianze": "A leaf (she) hides her eyes and can't see Mount Tai (various pressures); Two beans (your promise) plug your ears and don't smell thunder (all kinds of public opinion). " She's everything. Yes, she is everything! ! ! ! ! }

I also prepared couplets for your wedding.

The first part: If there are flowers, just fold them, and if there are no flowers, they can't be folded!

Bottom line: If you have passion, you must stay. Don't wait for heartless sorrow!

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