Sixteen-year-old boy likes to pout, he won't listen to anything he says, he has no love and hates people.

There should be a complete process of communication:

You can choose to talk while having dinner together.

first, calm yourself down, and then ask him about his mood. Of course, I don't ask him directly, but say, "How are you at school recently?"

If he answers, "Fine" or something else, it means that he is in a good mood. Then you can talk to him about some topics.

it's best not to talk about truth. The more correct the general truth is, the worse it will be.

You can say something interesting. You should confirm what he said first, because it will definitely turn into a negative, and he will be respected, so that he can accept your idea. All you have to do is add something like "some things will be different" to make up your thoughts. It will have a certain influence on his concept.

if he loses his temper or acts against your wishes. Then you'd better stop talking and point out his mistake later. Be careful not to react immediately. Think about what to say. More often, it is more useful not to talk than to talk ... this is not clear in one sentence or two.

If you are angry with him, it is not normal to never get angry, but to know how to put out the fire, it is best to comfort or explain afterwards.

if you want to take concerted actions, such as going to the movies together, you'd better take actions, even if you don't have time to go there, and treat it as something that needs to be done, not just an expression.

What I said is limited. If you want to know more details, you can watch Mr. Ceng Shiqiang's video about introducing family education and communication.

I hope you can get along well with your children ~!