When did you feel that people’s hearts were sinister?

When you are really helping someone wholeheartedly and even treating them as a relative or friend, perhaps due to a mistake on your part, he not only denies everything you have, but also doubts your original intention of helping him, and even doubts your intention to help him. Is there any ulterior motive for why you don't get up early to do these things? He even stood on the opposite side of you with your enemy, which made you feel not only sinister, but also heartbroken!

People’s hearts tend to be good, while people’s hearts are evil. It talks about the contrast between people. Goodness is a gentleman, hypocrisy is a hypocrite, and hypocrites are called villains in layman's terms. A gentleman is magnanimous, upright and aboveboard. A gentleman is moral and righteous. A gentleman makes friends without abandoning them, and abandons them without harming them. A gentleman remembers the benefits of others and repays every kindness he receives from others. A gentleman is disciplined and disciplined, while a villain is unreasonable in his ambition. The beauty of a gentleman is the beauty of adulthood, while the villain helps others to do evil. A gentleman never hurts others, and a hypocrite never condemns himself. A gentleman is sincere and trustworthy, while a hypocrite is hypocritical but not true. The heart of a villain is like Jie and Zhou, the most difficult to fathom, and he will definitely be disloyal to the king. It must be unfilial to serve relatives. My colleagues are absolutely unjust. The world hates those powerful and dirty people, while literati use poems to satirize those powerful people: If you don’t believe it, there are poems to prove it:

The head is pointed and the body is as thin as silver. There is not even a centimeter on the scale.

His eyes are on his buttocks, and he only recognizes clothes but not people.

The world has also created many classic quotes to describe gentlemen and villains: Come and feel the charm of Chinese characters!

Every sentence that praises the king is shameful for the villain.

High-spirited, upright and trendy.

Righteous and shameless.

Be upright and aboveboard, allowing gangrene and hemorrhoids to be licked.

Pure and pure, holding her butt in her hands.

Be honest and honest.

Be virtuous and cunning.

Standing upright and servile.

Be upright and beg for mercy.

Be happy to help others and give warmth to others.

For justice, one must destroy one's relatives and bow one's knees.

Be honest and sincere, hypocritical.

Gentle and honest, but duplicitous.

Putting wealth over justice is despicable and shameless.

Be clean and self-sufficient, brag and flatter others.

Be consistent with your words and actions, and be obedient.

Sacrifice oneself for others, and try to please others.

Different from the custom, nod and bow.

Be the same on the inside and the same on the outside.

Stand up and add insult to injury.

Loyal and critical. etc. People must be able to withstand lies, perfunctory treatment, deception, and forgotten promises. Some people see it clearly and take it lightly! A life with experience is a perfect life.

It is true to be ordinary and calm. Life is not perfect, and there is no big deal in life.

A female classmate of mine got divorced because her husband cheated on her. We went to comfort her and came to her house. At that time, she saw her husband's car downstairs and knew that his husband was also there. One of the friends said that he should go upstairs to make some noise and kicked her door open. He said something to her husband to relieve his friend's anger. After saying that, I went upstairs and reached the door. The friend I just spoke to actually kicked the door. Just when my friend opened the door, she pushed me to the door, but she got out of the way, and the other two friends behind me also ate it. I was surprised, and my friend’s husband opened the door and was very unhappy. Afterwards, my divorced friend did not blame me, but said: Some people really need to be careful! I already know that you didn't kick the door. Some people's evil intentions are exposed when they go too far! Unknowingly, several years have passed and we still interact with each other, but from the bottom of our hearts we have nothing to do with the person who kicked in the door! Because no one is stupid!

When my family was in dire straits and there was no way to get help, I walked more than 30 kilometers to the county seat, found my uncle who worked in the county seat, and asked him to lend me some money to tide over the current difficulties, because I was born and died. The fine was 8,000 yuan. My mother was hospitalized and spent more than 20,000 yuan. My two sisters also needed 3,000 yuan for tuition. The house leaked and it rained all night. My father was bitten by the family dog, which cost another thousand yuan. , and most of the above expenses were paid for by my uncle. Although I worked in the village enterprise every day, I had very little left after daily expenses. I had no choice but to ask my uncle for help. I hope he can lend me some money to pay for my sister’s tuition.

When I was very young, my uncle worked in the county town, and even got married in the county. Usually, their family of five rarely went back to their hometown in the countryside. It seemed that they had forgotten that there were still people in the countryside. One of his biological brothers.

My uncle’s family was not as enthusiastic as my arrival. When they heard about my intention, they became even more elated. My aunt first said that it is not fashionable for relatives to borrow money these days. If money is tight, The only option is to get a loan from a bank. My uncle is a henpecker. When his wife said this, he just followed suit and said, "Your two cousins ??are getting married, and the two apartments haven't been decorated yet. Your cousin will go to college next year, and we don't have much money now." , I can’t help you with your situation..."!

I came back empty-handed, but I didn’t blame my uncle! When I was not far from my uncle's house, I heard someone behind me asking my uncle, "Is that your relative?" I heard my uncle's reply in a low voice: No, he was just passing by. I pretended not to hear, but my pace quickened

Two younger sisters decided to give up their studies and go out to work to earn money to support their families. I sternly refused, "Brother, even if I buy myself, I still want you to complete your studies."

While I was looking for work, I was borrowing money from people, but the neighbors were all poor and rich. He was even more dismissive of me.

I finally found a coolie job in a private enterprise in the village. Although it was hard work, the pay was pretty good. Besides, the factory also had a distant relative of mine as the general manager. I wanted to get married, but they sneered at me. , I walked away wisely!

Seeing that the school was about to start, I shamelessly borrowed 2,000 yuan from my relative who was the general manager to pay the tuition. He retorted, "Just take care of yourself. The two sisters will get married sooner or later. It's a waste of water." "What's the use of reading so many books? It's your turn to take care of my sister's affairs? What do your parents do for a living?" He kept chattering away, leaving no room for me to explain.

Who told me I was poor, so I had no choice but to scold him. I almost cried when I was blushing in front of everyone!

Maybe he was very proud of bullying me in front of everyone, or maybe I showed my poor appearance in front of everyone, which made him very happy. After being humiliated, he said to me, go to the finance office and write a letter. IOU, just borrow 2,000 yuan, just say it was me.

Yes, that’s right, it was him who said it. I burst into laughter and quickly said "Okay"!

I worked for two months and finally paid off 2,000 yuan. I still have more than 1,000 yuan left to cover my current living expenses. If my relatives ask me, won’t they give me interest? I thought he was joking, but I didn't expect him to reach out and ask for five copies of Mao Zedong, put them in his pocket, and then said with a black face, "I saved you in such a desperate need and I don't know how to repay you. I won't even help you next time." Then he told me to get out of here.

I am so shocked, this...this...!

People have to bow their heads under the eaves!

As the saying goes, good people are separated from each other

Only your parents, relatives and friends in the world will not harm you. I cannot guarantee that others will not harm you. In fact, my personal opinion is when people's hearts are evil. There are two types.

The first type: when you have money, when you feel that anyone who comes into contact with you is just for your money and wants to make a fortune from you, then you will have feelings for anyone. Beware of anyone who treats you, no matter whether their original intentions are good or bad, you will reject them wholeheartedly, thinking that they are just here to steal your money. This is why the richer people are, the more afraid they are of certain things.

The second type: when you are in poverty, when you invest in a business and lose money, and you have problems with food and accommodation, you will see the indifference of the world and lament that it is difficult to move without money. At this time, if someone You will be grateful for helping you. If you meet someone who used to agree with you and drive by in a luxury car with his girlfriend in his arms without even looking at you, you will secretly hate him. At this time, you will sigh. The human heart is sinister.

(The above is purely a personal opinion, please don’t comment if you don’t like it)

Lao Na Zhang Xiaoniu

Tell me something about my childhood!

When I was about 7-8 years old, I went to the public toilet once, and a friend there asked me to go to his house to get him some toilet paper, so I went there stupidly.

As soon as I entered the door, the door was suddenly closed and the door bolt was quickly locked. Then a kitchen knife was put on my neck and asked viciously: "Who asked you to come here!" ! ! I was scared to death, and when I took a closer look, it turned out to be that friend’s third sister! I said tremblingly, it was your xx who asked me to fetch toilet paper for him. Then I felt her hesitate for a moment and said, get lost! Then open the door latch. My legs were so scared that my heart almost jumped out of my chest, and I didn’t know how to get out. Then I went home and couldn't calm down for a long time!

It turned out that the little friend knew that his sister was mentally ill and did not dare to go home to get toilet paper, so he asked me to take the risk.

Thinking about it now, I really saved my life at that time! It is not illegal to kill someone with a mental illness! Fortunately, she still had some sense at the time, otherwise I wouldn't be able to tell you today: She was almost murdered by her childhood friend!

This is what happened to me this week:

Let me first talk about the background of this incident. It has been nearly a year since my father passed away. When he was still alive, he had privately lent money to his brother. (My fourth uncle). What is private is that my mother does not know because she has suffered from high blood pressure for many years and does not want her to be in a bad mood. My father had the best financial situation among the brothers and had helped them countless times, especially my fourth uncle’s family. However, what he received in return was not gratitude, so my mother complained a little. Only my father and I knew about borrowing money. My father, my so-called fourth uncle, my fourth uncle's son, and my daughter-in-law all work in the same unit. Their jobs were arranged by my father, who once gave them a favor to the family when they couldn't get rid of the problem. Three years ago, our unit sold a house. The price for buying our first home in this unit was very favorable. Since we already had one in this unit, we wrote an agreement to transfer the ownership to the fourth uncle’s son (my cousin). I won’t go into details about this. I understand, I just want to save money and circumvent the rules.

What was once a simple matter has become complicated:

One year after my father passed away, my fourth uncle didn’t mention anything about borrowing money. There was a family gathering a few days ago, so after dinner I When we talked about this matter with my fourth uncle alone, our original words were roughly as follows: My father had privately lent you one hundred thousand before his death. Is there such a thing? Well, there is such a thing. My daughter will go to kindergarten next March. Can she get 20,000 to 30,000 yuan first? No answer. I went on to say that my mother didn’t know if she had any questions about the 100,000 yuan. She was in poor health. I emphasized this last thing three times.

This happened at noon that day. Around seven o'clock in the evening, my so-called fourth uncle sent a message to my mother: I have a screenshot

Since my mother didn't know about this, she was confused and That night, one person went to the fourth uncle's house to inquire. The fourth uncle hid in the bedroom and did not come forward. His wife told my mother about this matter, and the idea was consistent with the text message. My mother stayed up all night, and the next day my mother and I discussed the incident in detail.

Let’s not talk about how much help we have given them. What their family means now is to admit that they still have 100,000 yuan to pay, but your house is in my son's name. If you want money, I will sell the house and give you 100,000 yuan.

This is how it happened. I have talked about this with my best friend, my father’s best friend before his death, and my family, but I have not had any contact with my fourth uncle. There is a preliminary solution, so I won’t describe it again. When people leave, the tea is cool and unpredictable.

We Chinese believe that people are inherently good by nature. Don't do good deeds because they are small, and don't do evil deeds because they are small. This ancient saying still has profound practical significance today. However, some people and things in real life also make people deeply feel the sinister heart of individual people, which is deeply disgusting.

We have such a family here, with 2 sons and 5 daughters. My father was a teacher. When he was going through retirement procedures in 1995, he suffered a stroke and became bedridden and paralyzed. During my father's illness, my mother took good care of him and worked hard without complaint until she passed away on the 23rd of the twelfth lunar month in 2019 at the age of 86, creating a miracle in life. After his father died of illness, his mother also passed away with him on the 24th of the twelfth lunar month in 2020. The mother was originally in good health, but she died of illness in just one year after the father passed away, leaving her children in despair. First of all, birth, old age, illness and death are natural laws. My mother’s 90-year-old life is considered a joyful death in Chinese tradition. However, after the death of his father, family conflicts continued, which may be the key factor in the premature death of his mother. The general situation is that the younger son, carrying his six brothers and sisters, transferred the ownership of his parents' only house to himself on the premise of supporting his parents. The eldest son suspected that his parents were partial and did not support his parents all year round. He also refused to interact with his mother after his father died. The five daughters contributed money and effort, worked hard and took care of their father when he was alive. After their father passed away, the five daughters agreed with their mother on their living arrangements and wanted her to enjoy her old age. However, the daughter took control of her parents' savings, her father's funeral expenses and her father's death. For the birthday gift, the accounts were not disclosed and no flowers were allowed. The five daughters were also asked to pay and take turns serving their mother. At this time, family conflicts further broke out. The parents' house has been transferred to the younger son and has become the younger son's house. The other children do not want to go to the younger son's home. The mother is sick and wants to be hospitalized, but the younger son doesn't care, is unwilling, and is not active. Although he was hospitalized later, he did not follow the doctor's instructions, did not take care of her, and did not allow her grandson to visit her grandma in the hospital. She was forcibly discharged before the illness was cured, which made her very sad. As a result, he suddenly fell ill again on the third day after being discharged from the hospital. He was rushed to the hospital without rescue and died the next day. However, when handling the funeral for his mother, the younger son had a conflict with his elder sister-in-law (the older son had just passed away) over money issues, which made the parents who had always been concerned about face lose their reputation in the whole village.

The conflict in this family arises from the two sons. In the eyes of the five daughters, the two sons are synonymous with selfishness, greed, and insidiousness. The eldest son has passed away, so I can’t say more. In particular, the youngest son occupies his parents' only house and takes all his parents' savings, but he does not want to treat his mother who has worked hard all her life, and does not want her to enjoy her old age in peace. This is chilling and shows the sinister nature of people's hearts. In fact, the father later regretted transferring the house to his younger son. In the end, the mother also saw through her younger son's true nature. After being discharged from the hospital, she wanted to take the money from her younger son, but it turned out to be an unfulfilled wish.

There have been many reports on the Internet about a group of children in individual families not forgetting their elders. Recently, there were reports of an elderly man falling down and breaking a bone, and his younger son was forcibly taken home from the hospital without treatment. In the old society, there were well-known stories of people sitting on the fence. It’s time to think deeply about the traditional Chinese tradition of raising children for old age. Filial piety comes first, may the old man rest in peace

When did you feel that people's hearts are sinister?

I have a say in this question.

My college classmate S is a Hui girl. Because the halal window in the canteen is expensive and her family's financial situation is not good, she often skips a meal.

One time before a dance class, she went to the bathroom. When she got up, she probably had an attack of orthostatic hypotension and hypoglycemia and fell down.

The situation was very serious at that time. S was already unconscious. The teacher immediately called an ambulance, and the head teacher and class committee also went to the hospital to take care of him.

The examination report showed "skull base fracture and intracranial hemorrhage", which was a very serious situation. Then the head teacher called to communicate with her parents. Her parents were born and raised in Yunnan and could not understand the dialect. They also asked my Yunnan best friend Y to translate.

The doctor told us about the condition in the afternoon, and then said that the first night was crucial. If the intracranial bleeding reached 30cc at night, craniotomy would be necessary immediately. At that time, the bleeding was already 23cc.

However, the head teacher has children at home and has to go home to take care of them, so he cannot stay overnight. It was arranged that my best friend Y and I, as well as several class committee members, would stay in bed with us.

At 10 o'clock in the evening, the secretary and director of the college came to the hospital to visit. Y then discussed with me that we must ask the secretary or director to stay with us to prepare beds. Otherwise, if the situation worsens at night and a craniotomy is required, none of us have experienced such a scene and we are worried that we will not be able to cope with it. If you want to have surgery, you must sign. We are all classmates, so there is really nothing we can do.

Then we tried every possible means to retain the secretary and director, but they all rejected us. At that time, several of our remaining class committee members were very scared and worried. Fortunately, the intracranial bleeding did not require a craniotomy.

The next day other class committee members came to change classes, and we went back to school to rest. After returning home, roommate A asked what was going on with S. I told the truth and that S was in a dangerous situation last night. However, the teachers all stayed with her and it was okay.

Then roommate a went to get hot water one night, and met y who also went to get hot water. Just complain to y about me: s is already seriously ill, and xxx is still worrying about whether the teacher will stay or not, blah blah blah, etc. (a didn’t know that it was Y who discussed with me about keeping the teacher, she thought I was the one who made the decision on my own)

When I heard what Y said, I felt quite aggrieved, haha.

S stayed in the hospital for a long time. After the class committee and her friends took turns on duty for many rounds, they were reluctant to go, and there was a final exam.

(His parents came back for a few days and then went back. The medical expenses were not paid much. They were all paid by the head teacher in advance. He told me that he asked the y translator twice and asked me to tell the head teacher that the medical expenses were all over. , come and pay.)

So no one had time to go to bed with me, so I was the only one who went to the hospital every morning and stayed with me until I returned in the afternoon. Because S's condition has stabilized and he can get out of bed, I don't stay with him at night.

Then that morning, it should be the 18th (can’t remember clearly). I was already going out to the hospital, but something happened at the Youth Association, so I told S that I couldn't go, but I ordered a halal noodle for her using Meituan. (When I went over to stay with her later, I actually just talked to her and helped her buy food, because she didn’t eat other food, and she couldn’t order takeout using Meituan)

Then I helped her order takeout. That afternoon, I saw her in the dormitory. She took a car back to school by herself, and then went back to the hospital at night.

I thought at that time, since I could get out of bed and come back, I should be able to buy my own food. He didn't ask her any more questions.

Until the afternoon before leaving school, the head teacher called me over and showed me a receipt. It was handwritten, and it said that from the 18th to the same day, she hired a nurse to serve for 22 days at a cost of 100 yuan per day. The extra money from the hospital fee paid by the head teacher is used to pay the salary.

The head teacher asked me: Didn’t you go to accompany her later? She said that no one came to take care of her and she had no food to eat, so she hired a caregiver to help her buy food for 100 a day.

I was a little confused. I told her that I ordered takeout for her at noon on the 18th. I had already seen her at school in the afternoon. Can she come out to play with friends but not have a meal? Start looking for a caregiver to buy meals on the 18th?

Then the head teacher said she knew and asked me to go back.

There are a lot of disgusting things about this incident, but it’s been so long that I can’t remember too much.

Let me talk about two places that I find extremely disgusting. Because this is a first-person perspective, some parts may be unfair due to differences in information. I try to be as objective as possible.

After graduating from college, I was unemployed at home. My college classmate and my uncle’s brother-in-law suddenly called me and said that he would help me find a job and asked me to go to the city in the afternoon and start working the next day. , he told him to bring daily necessities and more importantly, bring more money, because it takes almost two months from work to salary.

Just like that, I arrived in the city. After meeting him, he took me to have a meal, and then said we would go online together. When we arrived at the entrance of the Internet cafe, he said that surfing the Internet was not interesting, and said that the Internet had just opened nearby. Went to a game arcade which was very fun. He took me there to have a look. After arriving at the game arcade, he bought 200 yuan of coins, divided them into ten, and went to play by himself.

After I played for a while, he came next to me and asked me how much money I brought. I said my mother gave me 1,000 yuan. He said you should give me 500 yuan. Because of relatives and friends, I Without thinking much, I gave him 500 yuan. In less than half an hour, he came to me and said let's go. As soon as I got up and walked to the door with him, he said to me, give me the remaining 500. I was very hesitant at the time, but he told me that I would make tens of thousands in no time, and then he directly grabbed me. , took the money out of my pocket.

He went to buy another 500 coins. I was watching him while he was playing. It was so fast. It took less than thirty minutes and he lost everything. It was also at that time that I Know that this is not a game but gambling. After the defeat and the two of us went out, he suddenly said to me, tomorrow you and I will go home and ask my mother for money, and just say that you borrowed the money for urgent use.

I said how could your mother believe it? He said, my mother knows that your family is poor and you are honest and never lie, so she can definitely lend it out. I didn't think much about it at the time and agreed, but when I went to bed at night, I thought it was inappropriate and rejected him. Later, when I stayed at his place for a few days, he didn't mention anything about work. He was just thinking about how to make money. I knew that he was lying to me when he said he was looking for a job. He asked me to come to the city just to cheat me. The money in it was used as gambling capital. I was very disappointed with him, so I had to go home.

But what I didn’t expect was that when I went to my uncle’s house to visit relatives during the Chinese New Year, my uncle suddenly asked me if you had borrowed money from Xiaoqiang (my classmate and his brother-in-law). I said no. Ah, my uncle took out an IOU signed by me, and the amount on it was 20,000 yuan.

I was shocked at the time and asked my uncle where this came from. My uncle said, Xiaoqiang said that you were in a hurry for money and said you were too embarrassed to borrow it from home, so he took your IOU to reply. Then your mother-in-law (my uncle’s mother-in-law) was afraid of delaying your affairs, so she gave the money to Xiaoqiang and asked him to bring it to you.

I said I didn’t borrow it. My uncle said that men should be brave enough to take responsibility. Your mother-in-law said that if you spend the money, you won’t be allowed to pay it back, but you have to admit your mistake. I told my uncle, call Xiaoqiang and ask him to come over to confront you. My uncle called the number and he said he couldn’t come over. Then I took the phone from my uncle’s hand and asked him why he forged my phone number. After signing, he said that I wrote the IOU and I borrowed the money, so I had better admit it.

I was speechless, and my uncle looked at me very disappointed. At that moment, I really felt that people's hearts were too sinister. I never thought in my wildest dreams that I would be deceived, not only by my classmates or relatives.