Everyone has a different self in his heart. How should we treat it?

I believe this is true. Everyone has a different self in his heart, and that self is completely opposite to the real self.

Everyone's heart yearns for perfection, and the pursuit of perfection is the driving force of human progress. However, as we all know, no one is perfect, so we will have another self in our hearts. He is a complement to his true self. He can do many things that he can't do in real life, but at the same time he will question his true self.

You may have two faces in your heart. One is positive. He told you to work hard and you can do it. One is negative. He made you think twice, because of you?

Another positive self is:

For example, a timid and cautious person in life has a brave and invincible self in his heart. When he encounters difficulties, his true self is afraid to move forward, but his inner self has sounded the horn, and he is brave and invincible. For example, people who are not good at expressing themselves in life will have a person who can talk about himself in front of everyone, and he can be flexible in any occasion. ...

Another negative ego is:

For example, a person who is very optimistic about life may have a very depressed self inside. He doesn't understand the meaning of living, and he doesn't understand the value behind forcing a smile; For example, people who are very decisive in life still have an indecisive self in their hearts. He doesn't know whether this choice is right or wrong. What consequences will he bear if he is wrong? What if the consequences are unimaginable?

The other self, knowing him clearly, can make up for your shortcomings and add wings to the tiger; If you don't recognize him clearly, your actions will be hindered and you will get twice the result with half the effort. So how should we treat the other self?

1, we should face up to "him".

When we know that there is a completely different self in our hearts, we must learn to face him squarely. Yes, just like making friends, get to know him and know him. You should learn to understand his temper and personality, his behavior and habits, adapt to his existence and accept his participation in your life.

We should use "he".

When we understand his nature, we should learn to use him. When we dare not face the difficulties directly, he is ready to try and tell you not to back down and face the difficulties. When we are in pain and loss, he is happy and happy, telling you to put down the burden and start over.

At the same time, when you get carried away, he will also tell you to stay awake; When you go your own way, he will also tell you to learn to think carefully.

The ego in your heart gives you strength. He helps you ignore other people's comments, is not afraid of the hardships of life, and wishes you a pleasant journey with a fearless attitude. He also keeps you alert, keeps you from being extreme and arbitrary, and protects you from making big mistakes with an objective eye.

3. We should strengthen our true selves and our inner selves.

The ability of another self is equal to the ability of the real self. The stronger your true self is, the stronger you are in your heart. And the stronger your true self is, the less it will appear in your heart.

People are most active when they are unhappy.

Therefore, if we not only improve our true selves, but also enrich our hearts. Make yourself your sail, not your wall.

I am Yi Shun, a professional manager, a history teacher, a literature lover, a walker and a tree hole.

Interpret emotions from multiple angles and evaluate life from multiple windows. Thank you for your attention!