Some newlyweds in rural areas spend 20,000 to 30,000 yuan a year at home. Why not let her go out to work?

It is an indisputable fact that marriage is difficult in rural areas. It is a common phenomenon that it is difficult to get married, but there is another kind that is more difficult than getting married. That's how to make newlyweds live a good life and get married happily and stably, because divorce is really a high-incidence phenomenon in society now, especially for newly married people. The emotional foundation itself is poor, and the mutual tolerance and understanding ability after marriage can not be well accepted, and they often get married early. Some people laugh at the phenomenon of divorce after the Chinese New Year, saying that there are more divorces than marriages after the Chinese New Year. For this phenomenon, many families will take many measures to make their marriage more harmonious. There is a saying that a girl who has been working outside the home has been given money by her parents-in-law every year after her marriage, but she just can't go out to work. Why?

There is an artist in our village called the Red Pavilion, so it is called an artist. That's the money in the corner. Hong Guan can see that he is good at gaining profits, but this great artist can't get up when his son gets married. The house, car and tickets are all agreed, but before marriage, the woman will make another condition, that is, after marriage, every year. It's just that people say they will go out to work after marriage. In this or that choice, Tang Hong naturally agreed. After the marriage, she gave her daughter-in-law 30 thousand yuan as a year's pocket money. The problem is that this rule is effective for a long time. What should I do in the second year and the third year? Although Tang Hong is a capable man, he also uses some money from his family. The problem is that he has a son. If the second daughter-in-law is the same, Tang Hong can hardly maintain the annual money.

It can only be said that there are indeed a few very harsh marriage conditions, not only many conditions before marriage, but also many things after marriage. Of course, these people who can do this are very few, and many of them are married. They are all a family, and there is no practical significance in their own homes. Some families are really afraid of getting married, and they are more worried about whether the new wife can stay well. So we try our best to satisfy people. Why give them pocket money and prevent the new wife from going out to work? There is a simple reason. I'm not afraid to go out to work, but my heart is wild. Because this kind of thing is not unheard of, although it is rare, it will also make these families afraid to get married and can't stand a little trouble. Even giving money is a helpless choice. There is no way to do it.

My parents-in-law give my daughter-in-law money every year. These families are still very few. Many times after marriage, the young couple live by themselves. You have to spend all the expenses yourself. Although you can make your parents-in-law talk, it is not a way to spend money on you all the year round. It can only be said that it is difficult to get married now, and it is difficult to marry a wife. Of course, it also depends on the ability of the husband. If I can earn money to support my family, my daughter-in-law will have no worries. It is also said that it is impossible to ask your parents-in-law for money. In fact, these are very rare phenomena, not all in rural areas. How to treat this strange phenomenon? Welcome to add comments and messages, thank you.