In this world, no one deserves your absolute trust, but if you are alive, you must associate and cooperate with others.

In this world, no one deserves your absolute trust, but if you are alive, you must associate and cooperate with others. ...

Strictly speaking, there is no one in this world who deserves your absolute trust! Including biological parents. Parents' love for children can be absolutely selfless. But that doesn't mean you can trust them absolutely. They may betray you because they love you! Betray you ...

Except parents, others can only be loyal to you at certain times and in certain things! There is no guarantee that I will be absolutely loyal to you at any time and anything. ...

Although the reality is so cruel, in fact, as long as you are alive, you need to constantly interact and cooperate with others! This is the helplessness and contradiction of life. ...

-all people doubt in trust and trust in doubt; Prevention in cooperation and cooperation in prevention. The book says that "there is no doubt about employing people, and there is no need for suspicious people", which is just lip service. In reality, people are always in doubt, and suspects are also using it. ...

-At the bottom of society, people always regard trusting friends and colleagues as a good virtue, but in fact they can only show a little Jianghu spirit! This kind of behavior actually has great potential risks, and it is a backward or even ignorant concept. ...

Although people we don't know are not necessarily bad people, it is difficult for you to judge each other's quality in a short time. You have two choices, either treat the good guys as bad guys or treat the bad guys as good guys. ...

The cost of these two kinds of mistakes is very different: the former is a misunderstanding at most, and the latter may put you in danger. Obviously, it is more cost-effective to treat good people as bad people's mistakes. ...

-Because as long as you are alive, you need to face the contradiction that "no one can be absolutely trusted, you must communicate and cooperate with others". Then you can only list the uncertain as suspected first, and then identify it step by step. As the saying goes, the common people "can't do harm to others, and can't prevent others." ...

Besides luck, the wisdom of life is also reflected in it. ...