What if my girlfriend's family is not rich and my mother hates opposing us being together?

The financial condition of the family is really the main factor that makes many parents oppose a relationship. In fact, we have always had such a saying: the door is right. In ancient times, marriage did pay more attention to family conditions, but at that time it paid more attention to status, and now most families are looking at economic conditions. I know some people may say what time it is, pay attention to these things, but this phenomenon does exist.

In fact, I personally agree with this view, because I think family conditions directly determine a person's growth environment, which will directly affect a person's three views and horizons. If the growth environment is too different, it is really difficult to have the same topic in the future. How can you be happy if you can't talk together? Of course, not everyone does. Some people can change their own destiny through acquired efforts, which can also make up for their inherent shortcomings. But in your present situation, I think your girlfriend should not have changed her family conditions at present, otherwise your mother wouldn't be so disgusted. Next, I will talk about what you should do in this situation.

First, let your mother know your heart. Actually, I can understand your mother's thoughts to some extent. If your family conditions are ok, it is understandable that you don't like each other's family conditions. If you want to change your mother's attitude at this time, you can only let your mother know what you mean, because I think parents will respect their children's decisions in most cases. As long as you let your mother know your heart and your determination, I think she will not be so persistent. After all, mothers should not want to see their children in trouble.

Second, make your girlfriend work harder. Personally, I think you should talk it over with your girlfriend. Although I know that family conditions are determined at birth and there is no way to change them, we can make ourselves better through our efforts the day after tomorrow. Although we may not be rich, if we are good enough, I think we can change your mother's attitude, at least not so disgusted.