I am both extroverted and introverted, so I have dual personalities?

I am a very outgoing and cheerful person. When traveling alone and walking in scenic spots, it is easy for me to chat with another stranger, and then laugh along the way, like we have not seen each other for many years. Friends. So, making new friends is so easy for me.

But I am also a very introverted person. I like to read quietly and don’t like to be disturbed by others, so I don’t like chatting on WeChat very much. I don’t like to post things like “Have you eaten? Are you in a good mood lately?” ?” and other greetings. Friends who have a good relationship with me will say, "Forget it, you go read a book" when they see me sending a series of expressions.

I used to think that I had a bit of a dual personality, because the two of me were so different, two completely different people. But later I learned that everyone has multiple personalities, because sometimes we hope to leave a good impression on others by changing our behavior, which does not rise to the professional scope of "dual personality". Moreover, if you think that you have a "dual personality", you will invisibly put yourself in the role of a patient. This kind of pathological self-perception is very bad.

"The Psychology of Success" (Dennis Waitley Post Publishing) said, "Each of us has a set of views about ourselves, that is, our self-image. We will engage in or try to Everything we do is based on the beliefs we hold about ourselves. Our self-image determines how we present ourselves to the world. ”

My self-image is positive. I also see myself as a person who is worthy and capable of achieving goals and achieving success. Even though I'm very introverted, I'm happy and that's what's right. I am a person who is qualified to enjoy happiness, and only I can define what happiness is to me. A firm and positive self-image is the greatest asset in my pursuit of life!

But a healthy self-image is positive, but also realistic. Because a person cannot be perfect, he must have strengths and weaknesses. “People with a realistic self-image don’t worry about their weaknesses because they know that their strengths outweigh these weaknesses. They don’t worry about what they can’t do well, but enable themselves to do what they can do well. "It's more perfect."

I know that I am more of an introvert. Although I occasionally act very extroverted, I will not be able to bear it if I keep chatting with people all the time. Therefore, I may not be suitable for a sales job now. But who I am today does not limit who I will be a year from now. My interests, abilities, and knowledge are developing every day, and as long as I keep learning, I will keep changing.

I am affected by the world around me, and I affect the world around me. The world around me will take on many social roles: roommate, daughter, student, citizen, employee, etc. "Social roles are a set of norms (behavioral standards) that stipulate how we should behave in a given social situation or environment." I am cheerful and lively when I play outside, and I love reading and sleeping in the dormitory. He is responsible and demanding at work, he is sometimes active and sometimes quiet in class, and he is lazy, coquettish and reticent at home. Acting differently on different occasions does not mean that I do one thing in person and another behind my back, but it does mean that I have the ability to handle my social interactions and know how I should behave on this occasion.