Please tell us the meaning of "home"

When we were born, we had a home. This is the home that comes with life. It is inherent in our life, no matter rich or poor, we have no right to choose and change, and it irreversibly determines the fate of our childhood. However, no matter how different our fate is, we all accept great love from heaven: maternal love and fatherly love. We have harvested the greatest love and the most generous kindness here, and planted any miracle that may happen in life. This is home. It is the place where we were born, grew up and educated, our roots, our family ties, our blood, our swaddling clothes and cradle, our ancestral temple to worship our ancestors and our unforgettable destination.

"Are you married?" . People always ask when they grow up. We have grown up and can have a new home. A man and a woman are a complete person together. If you want to be a complete person, you must find your other half. Therefore, we "look at the horizon alone", so we "dress wider and wider, people are haggard for Iraq, and have no regrets", so we "look for him in the crowd." Therefore, we "build a boat for a hundred years, sleep for a thousand years", so we don't hesitate to "walk for a thousand years" and "go with Niu Ben", so we "dare to talk with you, the mountains are exhausted, the sky is almost exhausted, the winter thunder bursts, and the summer rain and snow are raining". It turns out that home is a loving partner who grows old together, a happy marriage and a loving couple. When a member of the opposite sex decides to walk hand in hand with you, you can proudly say that I have a good home.

Home is the sweetest place to eat and sleep. It is a necessary base for our life. There is nothing special. I go home for dinner three times a day. A place where you often eat deserves to be called home. No one can keep his mouth shut. No matter whose home it is or what kind of home it is, there is nothing without a kitchen. There is a custom in China: moving a new house and daily necessities is not moving, but cooking at home. Home is a place to eat, which is the best proof. Eating and drinking is sleeping. A home cannot be without a kitchen, let alone a bedroom. When you are tired from work and drunk, the first thing you want is a comfortable, unscrupulous and stable sleep. Where to sleep? Go home. The biggest space in the home is the bedroom, and the biggest site is the bed. Rest at night, everyone went home. There is no more comfortable sleep and no more casual meals than home.

Home is the safest place to protect life and property. There are treasures at home, delicious food at home, TV at home, air conditioning at home and a car at home. Sleeping is like dying. You have to sleep that day. If there is no home, it is terrible to sleep there. Home is your own place, and your own place is safest.

"Wash your dirty linen in public". As long as we are a member of the family, the family will be willing to cover up for you. Not to mention secrets, all objects related to secrets are the best hiding places. Home is the combination of relatives, and individuals have the same interests. "There is a fire at the city gate, which affects the fish in the pool." Relatives have the greatest obligation to cover up the scandal and keep it a secret for us. Looking after the house, the walls are erected around, the doors are locked and the windows are draped; Cabinets can be loaded, drawers can be hidden, and darkrooms can be stored; Countless secrets, I don't want to see people's defects, and there are many places to cover up at home.

Most importantly, having a home gives you an independent and free space. If you are not at home, you have to pay for dinner, stay in a hotel and buy tickets by car. There are behavioral constraints in running a business, participating in activities, and interpersonal communication: words should not be blatantly said, things should not be done indiscriminately, clothes should not be worn indiscriminately, and walking should not be disorderly. Wearing masks and rules, you can't move freely. It's different when you have a home: you can choose your diet freely, you can sit, lie, stand and walk at will, and you can talk and do things without scruple. Once the door is closed, the world will be unified. No one has the right to interfere with what I do and how I do it. Laugh and scold, you can vent your worries and troubles. No wonder people are willing to stand on their own feet once they are adults. No matter how filial a child is, he doesn't want to stay away from home. A golden nest is not as good as one's own kennel. For what? Just for freedom and independence.

We all have beautiful ideals for home. But the ideal home needs our careful repair. A family should have flesh-and-blood relatives, a forever United partner, an independent and free space, the safety of life and property, and the ability to hide many unknown secrets. Every family member should make the most generous return for it, and assume the responsibilities and obligations without regrets. Only in this way can it play its due role, maintain its true connotation and produce new significance of keeping pace with the times.

The original meaning of home may be a place to rest. With the passage of history, the meaning of home is constantly changing and enriching. Home changes with the times and the environment. Even in the same era, different homes have different meanings. The same home. Children will run away from home, husbands or wives will run away with others, fathers and sons will turn against each other, brothers and sisters will kill each other, and conflicts and violence will be staged frequently. No matter how magnificent Highgarden is, the feeling of home will fly to the outside of the cloud nine. At this time, we will feel that the walls are cold, it is difficult to enter the house, and we will feel sad when we look at the familiar windows. It hurts my heart to drop blood. The stove can't cook delicacies, and nightmares drive away dreams and occupy the bedside. Home has become a demon that creates pain. At the beginning, we scrimped and saved, and even became heavily in debt. We carefully design and arrange, and are willing to pay all our efforts. In the end, it was quite different from our ideal. How pathetic!

In a sense, the meaning of home is given by us. What kind of connotation you give it, what kind of home you will have.

Home is our most important place, the most familiar place, and the most easily overlooked place. It is also a place where it is difficult to break the mirror under the bridge.

Home is the place where we carefully manage.