Should mother-in-law take the place of nanny to take care of children after giving birth?

The ideal way is for the nanny to take care of the children, the mother-in-law to look after the nanny and work normally by herself. However, this matter still needs to respect reality. If the husband's income is high and he is qualified to be a full-time wife, he should bring his own and ask a nanny to do housework.

If you need a job, please ask a nanny to take care of it, and let your mother-in-law look after the nanny. Although there are still many good people in the world, there are often reports that nannies abuse their children on TV and on the Internet. It is really not at ease to leave the children to an outsider to look after them. But this requires the mother-in-law to be healthy, capable and qualified to help take care of the children, not only to manage the nanny, but also to do some housework, so that the nanny can be relaxed and the mother-in-law is not tired.

If the economic conditions are not good, you can't afford a nanny, and you have to go to work, then let your mother-in-law take care of your children, but don't let your children leave their parents, leave them behind with their grandmother, and never let them be left behind. That will not be conducive to their growth and will lead to endless future troubles. There are too many such examples around. If you need your mother-in-law to look after the children, you'd better not leave your father-in-law alone in your hometown. Your father-in-law and mother-in-law can look after the children together and help with some housework.

A friend's mother-in-law came to visit her grandson in the city, and her father-in-law lived alone in the countryside. Before the Spring Festival, she drank too much with her neighbors, and when she got back, she was left unattended, and she suddenly had a cerebral infarction in the middle of the night. Fortunately, her neighbors found out that she was sent to the hospital, and she is still in the hospital. My friend was very scared, saying that if something happened to my father-in-law because I was looking after my grandson, it would be difficult for me to face the people in my hometown in the future. So I decided to let my mother-in-law go back to her hometown to take care of her father-in-law. If she needs to take care of her grandson, let her father-in-law come with her.

Although it is inconvenient for parents-in-law to come together, if you gain something, you will lose it. You can't have your cake and eat it, depending on what you want. In the final analysis, this problem is still a matter of income. Rich people with high incomes will not have such problems, so work hard to make their lives less entangled and live the life they want as soon as possible. It is not a question of who to take care of the children, but whether our own ability can let us choose the way we want.