My girlfriend can't even afford a 1 10,000 car at home, and she wants me to buy a house in full. What do you think of this?

In the eyes of many people, marriage needs to be matched, which is the truth left over by our country for thousands of years. But now many people regard marriage as a springboard or a bargaining chip for an alternative lifestyle. Many women's family conditions are average, even poor, but they are very demanding of others and don't think about whether they are worth it.

Unfortunately, my girlfriend is such a person. I met her through a blind date. We've only been together for half a year and we don't know each other very well. Later, both parents urged us to get married, and we began to talk about marriage. As soon as their family opened their mouth, they asked us to buy a house in full. I need to be clear here that we are in a second-tier city. If you want to buy a house in full, you have to pay at least 3 million yuan, and our family has a deposit of 2 million yuan, so you can mortgage a suite.

My monthly income is 15000, and I get a dead salary. My salary is used to pay off the mortgage, but there is still no pressure. Tell me more about my girlfriend. They don't have a house in this city and have been renting a house to live in. Girlfriend's monthly income is only over 3000. To tell the truth, with the conditions of their family, many local people are reluctant to become in-laws with them, because it will not help them, but will become a drag. My parents let me go on a blind date with her only because my father and her father used to be very good friends.

Lovely people will change, and former good friends will become snobs for some reason. Their family made such a request, which made me feel that they wanted to use our family as a springboard. Their family didn't want to pay a penny, but also asked us to buy a house in full, and asked me to add my girlfriend's name to the real estate license. That's not a small number, millions of houses, how can you just add them?

Later, I suggested that if you want your family to buy a house in full, you can do it. First of all, we don't have enough money now. If our family pays more than 2 million yuan and their family pays hundreds of thousands or 1 10,000, then we will buy a suite in full and write our name. I didn't expect their family to disagree, saying that buying a house was originally a man's business. Later, I suggested that if our family buys a house in full, then their family will marry a good car worth about 654.38+0 million. Their family also disagreed, saying that we were embarrassing their family, and their economic conditions simply could not afford it.

I can see that their family knows that they have nothing, but they think that I am poor and reasonable, and always ask our family to do this and that. Later, I broke up directly, completely ignoring the friendship between my dad and her dad. I feel that at this point, there is no friendship at all.