If you want to succeed, you should try your best to flatter yourself and brag. Why did Zeng Shi say that?

In China, a good Chinese studies class is very important, because in this class, you will learn knowledge that you can't learn in ordinary classes.

Chinese studies have now become a subject that everyone must dabble in. It not only teaches us knowledge, but also teaches us how to be a man.

Naturally, the most important thing is to meet a respected master of Chinese studies, so as to gradually put Chinese studies in the right direction. In China, there is such a master of Chinese studies, and he is Ceng Shiqiang.

Ceng Shiqiang

Ceng Shiqiang was born in Fujian Province and grew up in Taiwan Province Province of China. He is a knowledgeable master. He received enlightenment education in Zhangzhou, and left his ancestral home in Fujian to study in Taiwan Province Province as an adult.

His most remarkable achievement is his research on management, and he has published many management books such as China Management, Family Education, Sun Tzu's Art of War, and Manpower Automation.

In addition, when he was the vice president of Hu Xueyan Research Association, he published many academic research papers in this field, so he was called "the father of management science in China". It can be seen that his research on China management is extremely thorough.

The most famous Chinese management method is Ceng Shiqiang's "10 factors of China people's success". As soon as this statement came out, he also received many negative comments, saying that his remarks were basically castles in the air and had no practical effect.

However, Ceng Shiqiang did not retract his remarks every time. Instead, he gave speeches in various places to strengthen people's impression of this statement and then put it into practice. Soon, this successful 65,438+00 factor was accepted by everyone and highly sought after.

Ceng Shiqiang's "10 success factor"

About this 10 factor, Ceng Shiqiang summed it up and turned it into a catchy sentence.

Good looks, two suits, three glasses of wine, four rounds of mahjong, five friends, six trips to Qishan, seven strokes of flattery, eight boasting, nine efforts and great patience.

In short, the real interpersonal skills, such as "two suits", are to tell people what to wear on what occasions, not too obscure, not too special, and let others have a good impression on us.

Most of these skills are easily accepted by everyone, and the most controversial one is "seven skills to beat a horse, eight mouths to brag", because in the impression of China people, flattery and boasting are despised means, and if they are promoted by such means, they will be stabbed in the back by others.

But Ceng Shiqiang doesn't think so. He has a unique understanding of his research.

What are the "seven skills of beating horses" and "eight bragging skills"

In fact, the "flattery" in Ceng Shiqiang's statement is not our traditional mindless behavior to please the boss, because the boss is a human being and he has his own thoughts. Although everyone will not refuse nice words and compliments, he can still tell who is sincere and who is hypocritical.

In Ceng Shiqiang's definition of "flattery", it is actually more like a skill to leave a good impression on others. Imagine if you could make your boss and elders happy without being known by everyone. Isn't this a skill worth learning?

This is Ceng Shiqiang's definition of "flattery". As long as you master a degree, you can succeed.

Speaking of this "eight-mouth bragging", naturally, the "bragging" here is not what we traditionally think. Ceng Shiqiang has his own explanation. He thinks it is easier for others to remember you and show themselves more. What is wrong is to keep mentioning what you have done, so that you will be laughed at by the other party.

Only when you praise others properly when they are in the limelight will others praise you when you are in the limelight. Only when you give them enough respect will others give you respect, so that you can do everything well.

summary

The 10 factor of Ceng Shiqiang's success is of course important, but it just shows us a way. It is important to learn and practice by yourself, so as to sum up your own skills.