The mother threatened the child with a stick when he was disobedient. Is this suitable for mother? Dear friends, thank you.

Perhaps in everyone's eyes, this is just a threatening remark, which many treasure moms like to say because the effect is immediate. But in fact, this threatening education is very harmful to children's psychology.

This threatening education is the most harmful to children, even to the degree of fear. Because children depend on their parents since childhood and need their care, what parents say about not wanting themselves is Conan the destroyer's harm to him.

I remember an incident before. A child did something wrong, called the police and asked the police to arrest himself because his mother said it was a crime. Of course, it's a small matter, of course. Mom said it was just a habitual threat to the child, but when the child turned himself in to the police station, we could see how scared the child was.

It's good that the child turned himself in to the police station and knew that his mistake was not that serious. However, there are thousands of children in Qian Qian who don't know the seriousness of their mistakes after they make them, so they keep it in their hearts and think about it repeatedly, and they feel very scared.

Let children listen to their parents' words, never use intimidation or threats, talk to them well, and the most important thing is to calm them down. If the child is crying at this time and says something bad, let the child cry enough first, and then solve the problem with the child after the child has communicated with the parents.

In this way, the next time the child knows that he wants to solve the problem, he must talk well and never tell the child anything that threatens this temporary solution.