A happy life depends on running an article with your heart.

In life, there are always some people who like to attribute their misfortunes to external reasons: they either blame others for their bad luck and their lives are at stake; Either complain that life is unfair, they have no natural good cards-no prominent family background, no extraordinary intelligence, no beautiful appearance; Either sigh that nature makes people, let yourself meet inappropriate people, let yourself experience ups and downs, and life is defeated.

In fact, there is no need for a person to complain, let alone lament the injustice of fate. Even if you are born with a good deck of cards, there is no guarantee that the chess game in your life will go smoothly step by step; This may not guarantee that you will win the game of life. A good game of chess in life depends on your own step by step to win; A happy life depends on your own heart.

I have a girlfriend, thin and plain, with an ordinary family background and only a college degree, but she has arranged her life wonderfully and managed her life happily. Daughter is filial and sensible, optimistic and enterprising; My husband is good-looking, has a successful career and respects and loves her. A successful and stylish man like her husband is working hard outside, surrounded by beautiful women like clouds, flirting with him, and being touched by him. Some of the successful people around him are "Little Three" or even "Little Four". More iron buddies advised him to take it easy, to know how to enjoy life, and not to always guard the yellow-faced woman at home. Facing all kinds of temptations in a complicated environment, he has always adhered to his principles. Over the years, he never crossed the line and always regarded her as a treasure in his hand.

We once joked with our girlfriend: "Your husband is so excellent, be careful that the fox outside seduces your husband away." My girlfriend said confidently, "Although I am ugly, I managed to get into the kitchen and out of the hall." Have a good book and write an article; Filial piety in the hall can teach a good son next; What else can he do? " .

Indeed, as my girlfriend said, she is not only a good wife and mother, but also a kind, hardworking, optimistic person who knows how to manage life. On weekdays, she manages a small family well, makes great efforts to take care of her husband and educate her children, and pays more attention to self-construction and connotation improvement. After being laid off from the company, she can live a leisurely and wealthy life, but she still runs a clothing store alone and her business is booming. Many people are puzzled and say, "Your husband is so capable and his family conditions are so good. Why do you have to work so hard? " But she said, "As a woman, we should have our own goals and pursuits, and we should not lose ourselves in a superior environment and forget to explore our own value."

While pursuing economic and personality independence, she pays more attention to both internal and external studies. Besides reading, I also write in my spare time and occasionally publish small articles in newspapers and magazines. Never forget to absorb the nutrition of knowledge, and never forget to improve your inner quality. In such an impetuous era, many people are addicted to eating, drinking and having fun, and are keen on chasing the glitz of the world. How many people can calm down and study hard and think quietly? But she completely ignored the world's troubles and happily immersed herself in the ocean of knowledge. Of course, while paying attention to self-cultivation, she also pays great attention to external image, fashionable and decent dress, elegant manners and courtesy, which further enhances her personal image.

She takes care of her little family and herself, but she doesn't forget to take care of everyone. She has nothing to say to her parents and elders, especially to her husband's family. My husband's home is in the countryside. Needless to say, I will visit the old people during the holidays. On weekdays, I always take time to be caring and attentive to the elderly. If the old man has a minor illness, take good care of him. My husband's brothers and sisters are in trouble, and she is always duty-bound to try her best to help. Her relatives and friends are full of praise for what she has done, and her neighbors are even more impressed.

She is enthusiastic and enterprising, knowledgeable, tolerant and open-minded, gentle and virtuous. How can she not let her husband be grateful? Even if the woman outside is beautiful and tender, it is nothing more than that in his eyes. How can a good wife be warm and intimate? There is no worries at home, he can work hard outside with peace of mind, and his career is more prosperous; His family has a wife to help him, and his career is even more powerful. The happy life of their small family is naturally a sesame blossom.

In fact, from a secular point of view, my girlfriend is born with no advantages, plain appearance, average family background and average intelligence, but she manages her own happy life with hard-working hands and smart and sensitive mind.

In fact, no matter what the real life is like, each of us should not complain, always feel that the world owes you, and always feel that others have failed you. Life is fair to everyone, with prosperity and adversity, success and failure. Even if a few people are lucky enough to get a good deck of cards, if they are not good at business, they will only face the end of their lives; Even if you are unlucky and born with a bad hand, you may not lose the hand in life. As long as you make every effort to adjust the situation and make it develop in a favorable direction, you will naturally win.

The poet Homer is blind, and Helen is deaf, dumb and blind, which is worse than anyone else, but they didn't lose. As an ordinary person, you should not complain about the injustice of life, as long as you have enough patience, perseverance and perseverance to improve yourself with the environment; As long as you give yourself enough room to grow and become excellent enough, life will naturally smile at you like a flower. In short, everyone in life should practice and improve themselves, so as to be able to get happiness. After all, a good game of chess in life depends on your own step by step; A happy life depends on your own heart.