Talk about your feelings when you receive letters from fans.

Life is a long road, and no one knows what the future will be like. We are all trying to live, hoping to make ourselves and our families more comfortable, less tired and less sorry.

Sometimes, the harder we work, the more we will find that life is beyond our control. The more some people want to make money, the more debt they have. Some people become rich by accident.

I received a letter from a fan who told me about his difficult situation:

I am 42 years old, my two children are at school, my parents are old, and I have to pay the mortgage. My monthly fixed expenditure is about 10 thousand. But my own store closed down last year and owed hundreds of thousands of foreign debts. Now there is no income except foreign debt. What should I do? Can you turn over in this life?

I think: this is a typical middle-aged person's dilemma, with old and small, career failure and heavy debts. Anyone should feel flustered and anxious, feel uncertain about the future and don't know what to do.

The pain of life is that you don't want to give up what you already have, but you want to have what doesn't belong to you. This situation is already bad in their own eyes, but it is easy for onlookers to say: you won't sell the house and pay off the debt, will you? It's really difficult to sell the house you live in, but it seems that the only way to relieve the current pressure is really.

02

When you are heavily in debt, you are easily looked down upon.

Parents often educate us? Never look down on anyone? No matter what the present situation of others is, he is likely to make extraordinary achievements in the future. Not many people can understand this truth in real life. Some people are just snobs. When they see whose life is bad, they sneer and look at each other coldly.

When we are heavily in debt, it is easy to be looked down upon. The person who looks down on you may be your classmate or someone you know on weekdays? Friends? And it may be your relative.

As the saying goes? Speak softly, don't persuade others, people are poor and don't follow the crowd? Never go to a party when you have no money, or reality will slap you in the face and let you know what it means. Tea is cool when people walk. .

03

Are you alone? Heavily in debt? When you are looked down upon, remember three sentences and you can make a comeback!

One: Everything is trivial except life and death. As long as there is breath, there is hope.

At the beginning of 2020, all kinds of natural and man-made disasters came one after another. Looking at the rising numbers every day, I am both sad and glad that I am still alive. Life is nothing but life and death, and the sky will not fall. As long as you have the sincerity to pay back the debt you owe, you can certainly pay it back.

As long as there is a healthy body, there is nothing to be afraid of. As long as there is breath, there is always hope.

Only those who have experienced life and death and come back from the brink of death can understand this and will not worry about some small things in life.

Throughout the world, many successful people are heavily in debt. How much money they can owe, how much ability they have. As long as they are alive, there is hope.

Two: other people's opinions are not that important. People who look down on you don't really care about you.

A person's reputation is very important, we care about what others think of us, and we want to be the best person in others' mouths. After being in debt, it will definitely become a negative example in the eyes of others. Everyone will be looked down upon and their reputation will definitely be ruined.

But what I want to say is that other people's opinions are actually not that important. Now you are down and out, but there is no conclusion. As long as you can stand up again, some of your current experiences will become legends in people's mouths.

Those who look down on you don't care about you at all. You just stay in his mind for a few seconds and then forget it in a flash.

Remember these cynics who insult you, then forget them and erase them from your own life and world.

Let's not live in other people's mouths, just do our own thing now.

Three: Dig a hole one meter wide and one hundred meters deep, and you will succeed.

Never be greedy for perfection in business. People who want to do everything and can't do anything well try a little and soon give up. It is difficult for such a person to make a difference.

If you want to succeed, aim at a field and dig deep for a few years, you will become an expert in this field and you will succeed. It's like digging a hole Don't dig one here and one there. Dig one meter wide and keep digging. Dig a hundred meters deep and the groundwater will come out continuously.

A study shows that if you spend 10 minutes studying a field every day, you will know it better than 90% people in this field in three years. Now, if you spend three years studying in a certain field every day, you will fall far behind after three years.

Concentrate on one thing, and your career will surely turn from failure to success.

Conclusion: Winning or losing is the normal state of life, and it is normal that there will be glorious moments and depressed moments in life. Failure can not only bring us pain, but also bring us many positive things. It can let us know our own shortcomings, let us see the people around us clearly, let us learn lessons and become smarter and wiser.

Life is down and out, you don't have to feel sorry for yourself or blame others. Accept this fact frankly, then leave everything behind, take up the courage to start from scratch and create a brilliant life again!