What is the psychology of colleagues who love to play dumb? Is such a person worth making friends with?

This may be related to personal experience. It can be said to be a kind of self-defense. In the sixth grade, my uncle asked me to order, and I ordered a bunch. My aunt said, "Children can't be blind." Well, I always remember! Later, I didn't like fighting with people, or I didn't have the talent to fight at all. Because I know my own smallness and the ruthlessness of others, I learned to play the fool. No matter what others say, I pretend not to know. This can avoid embarrassment, save time and learn more thinking time.

What is playing dumb? It is unreasonable to do things for the people, which does not conform to the principle of maximizing the interests of the people on the surface. Why are you playing dumb? Playing dumb can avoid risks, and even if short-term interests are damaged, higher long-term interests can be obtained. If a person is stupid and poor and has few friends, it is stupid. If he comes and goes silly, the economy is well off, he has more good friends and lives comfortably, he is a fool who plays the fool and chooses again and again. There are too many smart people in the world. The word smart is written on their faces, and it doesn't hurt at all to go out, and sometimes it even takes advantage. Sometimes they can find ways to get some benefits for themselves. We all call such people smart. The really smart people happen to be those who learn to play dumb.

Playing dumb is also a skill. The more powerful people are, the more they will pretend in these situations. I know what to do, so I turn a blind eye and pretend to be deaf. A true friend is someone who can't see through. This sentence is more practical for what everyone can see. Many times, it has nothing to do with you, so some words are not suitable for coming from your mouth. Moderate playing dumb is a sign of cleverness. Then the other party will also recognize your ingenious method. Learn to play dumb when you need to create humor.

Life is not always serious and rigid. Sometimes unintentional jokes can not only adjust the tense atmosphere, but also bring people closer. Many times, the two sides are tit for tat. If someone can make concessions, a little humor can give both sides a step and naturally eliminate contradictions and misunderstandings. You will play dumb in the face of slander and excessive jokes. It is inevitable to meet unreasonable people at work. Sometimes personality is too strong and inconvenient. In order to consolidate your authority, you hurt others in public. More work veterans like the little girl's jokes, which makes people feel uncomfortable. At this time, if you can know that the best way to attack is to play dumb, that would be the best.